Can my husband tell her mother-in-law when he secretly smokes and drinks during pregnancy?

There is really no need to tell my in-laws about this.

One is that what you tell your in-laws may not be useful. Your husband can't help such an important thing. He must be a heavy smoker. It's not something your in-laws can say.

Second, what you say may also affect the relationship between husband and wife. Your husband thinks that your complaining makes both of you feel bad, but it is not conducive to your having children.

My personal solution to this situation, you can refer to:

One is negative treatment, that is, if you see it, you don't see it, because my husband secretly smokes it, which means he really can't help it. You can control him. He can't control all his time at the moment. Maybe next time I'll smoke further away! And as long as he doesn't let you smoke secondhand smoke, he smokes secretly, which has little effect on pregnancy preparation.

Another way for you to respond positively, you can search some information on the internet, that is, the harm of smoking to giving birth to children, the scarier the better. It's best to find some so-called expert videos, saying that smoking may give birth to deformed children and so on. Then find a time to show it to my husband ~ After reading it, pretend to be afraid and say, "Husband, you must not smoke for our children!" " "O(∩_∩)O Haha ~ Maybe your husband will be cheated! !