What if you don't have time to spend with your children?

Operating from the media in my spare time has made me more and more deeply aware of the so-called? No time? What a false proposition, say? No time? Most people don't want to spend their time on something, or they don't want to sacrifice their time for rest and entertainment.

Time goes back to two years ago. At that time, I had to take care of my family and work, and I had to pick up and drop off my children and check my homework every day. When I have the opportunity to run the headlines, I have too many hesitations and concerns. I'm worried that my time is not enough. I'm worried that I'll take care of the children because of too many things. I'm worried that I'll be too tired and my body will be too tired.

However, my love for words and my pursuit of self-worth finally prompted me to take the first step. Looking back today, I made the right decision.

When I make a decision, I find that my brain will find its way automatically, and all the difficulties are making way for me. After a period of hard work, I finally managed to balance everything.

Perhaps because I am busy, I cherish writing time more and pay more attention to the efficiency generated in unit time. Imagine, if my time is more relaxed, I may not ask myself to abandon useless social activities, close my circle of friends, or brush irrelevant web pages? This is how I grew up, Joel.

Being busy will really give people a kind of motivation, because I always feel that time is not enough, so I will speed up the pace and race against time, and finally win more time.

Mr. Lu Xun once said that time is like water in a sponge. As long as you are willing to squeeze, there is always something.

I know a father. Because of his work, he often needs to travel. Every time I go out to catch a plane, the child hasn't got up yet. Every time he comes home late at night, the child has fallen asleep.

In order to give his children high-quality companionship, the father decided to spend some time with his children.

0 1 warm heart time in the morning.

My father was too tired to get up in the morning when he went home from a business trip late at night. But in order to spend this time with his children, he gave up part of his sleep time, got up early to prepare breakfast for his children, and then drove to communicate with them on the way to school. In this way, about 1 hour is squeezed out, so that children can feel their father's love and companionship.

Parent-child communication at night.

Although he often goes out, online video chat is very convenient now. Father and child agreed to video with their children at 8: 30 every night on time. No matter how busy he is, he will also temporarily put down his work and communicate with his children. He talks for a while when there are many things, and for a while when there are few things. Let the children feel that their father is far away from home, as if he were always by his side.

Daily warm heart gift.

Every time my father goes to a city, he will go to the local stationery store to buy an eraser and take it back to his children. Perhaps the price of an eraser is not very expensive, but this concern has become a sense of ritual, so that children feel the warmth of fatherly love. Every time a child opens a desk drawer and sees all kinds of erasers, his heart will be filled with emotion.

04 every month's meticulous moment.

Although the father is very busy, he always takes a day off every month to spend the whole day with his children. On this day, he will take children as the center, refer to children's opinions, and carefully design some meaningful family activities, so that children can fully feel that this day belongs to him and parents attach great importance to him.

They go camping in the wild, go fishing by the river, go to the stadium to watch the game, go to the cinema to watch movies, go riding on the grassland, or go around nearby attractions, or just go to the bookstore for a whole day?

These happy times make their parent-child relationship more and more harmonious.

Time is there, no matter whether you can see it or not, no matter how you treat it, it is neither more nor less, it is there.

The only thing that matters is where you are willing to spend it.