Don't test my patience. Tell me.

If you really care about someone, don't test their patience endlessly.

With the growth of age and the change of living environment and experience, we will find that people around us have changed one after another. People who once thought they would be friends for life gradually alienated. Some friends who used to talk about everything have also become nodding acquaintances, and former couples have gradually become the most familiar strangers. Of course, there are also some people who have withstood the test of time and space, and have always been around us, participating in our lives and experiencing our happiness and bitterness, which has become an indispensable part of our lives. There are also some people who will intervene in different stages of our lives and in different journeys, and then leave quietly at the end of this journey or experience, without taking away a cloud.

With the growth of age, it is more and more difficult for us to give each other pure feelings and unconditional trust; With the growth of experience, we are no longer so easily influenced by each other's stories. Those who are mixed in the society, who have never experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and who have not worked hard for a long time. For others, when they are as helpless and confused as a fart, their hearts become harder and harder.

Therefore, fate has brought us together. If there are people in your life who care about you and also care about you, you need to treat them well and cherish them very much. The world is diverse, and many people have many different masks. It's not easy to meet someone who can take off his mask and treat it sincerely. This not only needs to be able to correspond in time and space, but also avoids many regrets and melancholy of "being born with it and being old with it". I also need you to look at each other pleasing to the eye, and the other party just looks at you pleasing to the eye. What you don't want to say to others at ordinary times, if you are used to thinking that it is meaningless, you will say it with relish like a fool when facing each other, and the other party will not feel bored. You can also listen to her life with great interest.

The right person can make you a more interesting person, even if you are bored, you are not alone; The right person can make you a better person. When you are frustrated, encouragement from the other side is always a good medicine to help you regain your confidence quickly. When you are proud, when everyone around you is flattering you, she will always be the one standing in the corner and watching calmly, and will throw a pot of "cold water" on you from time to time to let you know who you are. The right person will make you a more active person in life. Faced with the pressure in life, sometimes it will make you breathless and make you often think of giving up, but once you think of this person, she will give you motivation and confidence invisibly, making you instantly full of chicken blood.

However, the reality is that many people are eager for the care of their loved ones and hope to get all the attention of each other; But in giving each other love and attention, they are extremely stingy and selfish. So we will constantly test and test each other.

Once upon a time, there was a college classmate and a girl. The way to get along with her boyfriend is that boys should spoil her and let her go. She can make herself suffer from princess disease. Every time she goes out with her boyfriend, she even makes him wait downstairs for more than an hour at the appointed time. She will go upstairs to see if her boyfriend has reached the appointed time. She can sit around the room and delay for a long time before going downstairs. The same is true in life, which brings women's sensitivity to the extreme. She will find fault with each other's words, and she will read many meanings with each other's eyes. And what she said will make her boyfriend understand the meaning between the lines. Finally one day, the boy was dumped by her. The boy said: We have been together for two years. Every time I go out, I have to wait for you for a long time in advance, but you take it for granted that nothing has happened. If anything goes wrong, I will accommodate you. You never thought it was wrong. I really don't have the courage to walk with you all my life. Let's separate.

It takes two people to make a decision, and only one person needs to make a decision alone.

Because love will tolerate each other's shortcomings, and because love will appreciate each other's advantages more. Everyone needs to be affirmed and recognized, and there is a fragile and warm area in people's hearts. Everyone needs a person who knows how to be warm and cold to give comfort and warmth when he feels helpless, instead of having a princess to serve and worship, and he doesn't want a selfish person around him who only thinks about himself and doesn't care about himself at all. Over time, two people will gradually drift away. When patience is exhausted, the once-fiery heart will gradually cool down, and leaving is also decisive.

If you really care about someone, you should learn to think from the other person's point of view, and put yourself on a completely equal position with the other person, without inferiority or pride. We should have the courage to express our ideas and take the initiative to understand each other's ideas. Both sides should communicate and understand more and avoid unnecessary suspicion. If you really care about someone, you should learn to trust him/her, give him/her enough space, don't be afraid of anything, and don't look through his/her mobile phone, QQ, email, etc. If you really care about someone, you should get along with him calmly. Don't always test whether they love you or not. The relationship between the two sides is mutual respect. Do as you would be done by. No one is more important than anyone else. If you always emphasize your importance, you will fall even worse one day. When you are keen to test your loyalty, the other person may be very tired. You help each other grow, but the final victory is given to others.

When two people are together, they will form the closest relationship, so communicate directly if there is anything, and don't wait for others to understand you with silence.

I have a friend who longs for love and a happy family, but her past experience makes her very pessimistic about her feelings. She is not testing the other side, but she will always wait for the other side to understand her heart and is unwilling to express her thoughts. When there is a problem between them, or when she has any thoughts and views on their relationship, she never chooses to tell the other party to communicate with the other party, but hides this idea in her heart. To a certain extent, it will be manifested in her face and actions. At this time, the other party will think that she doesn't recognize this feeling, and when the other party wants to communicate with her, she is unwilling to express it, and always feels that the right person should be able to understand her own thoughts. However, it is not so easy for two people who have never met to understand each other if you don't express your inner thoughts to each other. Besides, what he may think is that you want to leave.

When the fate comes, we will get together, and when the fate is over, we will disperse. May all lovers in the world be good.

If you meet someone you care about, remember not to always test their patience.