Famous aphorisms of interpersonal communication

1. I would rather swallow the dross with good people than have a banquet with bad people. -Thomas Fuller 2. The real criterion for measuring friends is behavior, not words; Those who say good things on the surface are actually far from this standard. -Washington 3. Friendship based on business is better than business based on friendship. -Rockefeller 4. Deceived friendship is a painful wound, while hypocritical sympathy is a sharp poison arrow. Lenin 5. When you are in prosperity, you only visit when you are invited, but when you are in adversity, those who come uninvited are true friends. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, effort, consideration and dedication. -Carnegie 7, with people who are too strong, I will not feel my existence. Making friends is not to let us choose the perfect with our eyes, but to attract those who are like-minded. -Roland 8. Building personal connections is a process of digging wells. What you pay is a little sweat, and what you get is a steady stream of wealth. -harvey mckay 9. The greatest wealth in life is personal connections, because it can open every door for you to acquire the required abilities, so that you can continue to grow and contribute to society. -anthony robbins 1. A concept that has achieved the highest performance in the sales field is the concept of "cash cow". Network sales is a process of spreading branches and leaves, blossoming and bearing fruit. -Born Tracy 1. Communication is the inevitable companion of human beings. -Marx's Selected Works of Marx and Engels? 2. Talking to people once is often more enlightening than working behind closed doors for many years. Thought must be produced in communication with people, but processed and expressed in loneliness. -lev tolstoy 3. Heart-to-heart conversation is the display of the soul. -Wen Kaverin 4. Everyone needs someone to talk openly with him. Although a person can be very brave, he can also be very lonely. -Hemingway 5. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. -Dale Carnegie 6. Everyone knows that listening is important for communication. ..... but few organizations listen carefully to their employees and their customers. -William Nichols 7. The reason why some people have communication barriers in real life is because they don't understand and forget an important principle: to make others feel important. -Dale Carnegie 8. The most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship. -Bacon 9. Understanding is definitely the soil that nurtures all the fruits of friendship. -Wilson 1. The best thing in life is his friendship with others. Lincoln 11. Oh, my friend, this is what I mean from the bottom of my heart. Because of you, the blue sky is vast; Because of you, roses are red and gorgeous. -Emerson 12. Friendship is as valuable to people as alchemy often says that their gems are to people. -Bacon 13, not a true friend, no matter how heavy a gift can knock on the heart. -Christopher Bacon 14. It is better to make a friend who can't read thousands of books than to make a friend who doesn't know a word. -Jin Ying 15. The best way to keep friendship is not to betray friends. -Miznier 16. You usually find yourself talking more when you are with people who have nothing to say. -Papissa 17. Friendship is a kind of free and happy wish for oneself, which keeps the natural sympathy forever, beyond lust, interest, competition and accident. -Aaron does his best for others, and finally he does his best for himself. -(British) Ruskin is so strong, I win with softness; People use art, and I feel it with sincerity; People make people angry, and I reason with them. -Jin Ying Good things are often because they are sincere. -Roland, one fence, three piles, one hero and three gangs. Everyone collects firewood, and the flames are high. A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you-the Analects of Confucius must love itself, and then people love others; People must respect themselves, and then people respect them. -Han Yangxiong's "Fa Yan Gentleman" is humiliating to those who don't respect themselves, and inviting trouble to those who don't fear themselves. -Qing Shen Hanyu's "Peace of Mind Phrases" means that you don't have to have yourself, you don't have to have people. -Ming Zhang Juzheng's Preface to Xu Xianggong's 7th Birthday in Shao Shi Cunzhai, two people are United, and their profits are cut off. -"Zhouyi" We were born in a relationship network, parent-child relationship, husband-wife relationship, classmate relationship, colleague relationship, friend relationship, male-female relationship, kinship relationship, subordinate relationship, debt relationship, supply and demand relationship. We are just fish in the net, and we can never swim out or even enjoy one of them. The higher the inner quality, the more indifferent and exclusive he is to relationships and interpersonal communication. There are not many qualities worthy of our appreciation among the resilience of most people. On the other hand, the opposite quality is everywhere. Relationships and interpersonal communication are a kind of channel. With these channels, people's inner juices can gush out unscrupulously. If we look at relationships from this perspective, it's just the sewage pipe of human nature. In the end, if you find that telling the truth is easy to make mistakes, you will stop talking. When you find that anger, contempt and pride will affect interpersonal relationships, you will omit expressions. When you find that dancing will affect your image, you will no longer do any exaggerated actions. You finally live like an anthropological code of conduct, remove expressions, hide emotions without a trace of popularity, and become a rubber man. Life is not black and white. Either way, most of the time, it just means that things are in a natural state. If you are looking for a perfect job, you may never find it. At the same time, others are not as good as they look. If you pursue the perfect interpersonal relationship, you may be lonely all your life. Really considerate, you don't realize that gratitude and thoughtfulness are mostly a means to buy people's hearts. The most considerate person will give you a choice space, which will not be good for you. Excessive enthusiasm is also a kind of pressure, so the true feelings are often covered with a coat of' indifference'. Moderate cold is exactly the most suitable temperature in interpersonal relationships. I only want three real friends. Real rich friends give me material help, real powerful friends give me extensive interpersonal relationships, and real heart-to-heart friends give me spiritual comfort. The former two have fair-weather friends, which are unreliable but can be used for a while. Aristotle said that if there is no woman in this world, all the money in this world is meaningless. Social research shows that women have a great advantage over men in interpersonal relationships, which shows that public relations has always been women. People's traditional advantages for interpersonal relationships, I gradually summed up a principle that is most in line with my temperament, that is, mutual respect for relatives and friends, and I believe that all good friendships are naturally formed. I don't mean to ask for it. I also think that even a good friend should have a distance. Too lively friendship is often empty, giving up temporary passion or temporary gains and losses. If we endure external pressure, we will get more people who know how to endure. We won't destroy the interpersonal network we built by ourselves because of temporary passion and temporary gains and losses. Don't have money with friends. Don't lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi. When I borrow it, I don't ask for money to be exchanged between people, which makes our interpersonal relationship more successful. Those people with strong hearts will play a few tricks in interpersonal relationships and gag. That's just cleverness, and the grade is extremely low. Moderate cleverness is to understand the laws of people's hearts and be familiar with the rules of social games. To be wise is to follow the heaven and think about the universe. One's success depends 15% on his professional knowledge and 85% on his interpersonal relationship. Therefore, for boys, good social skills are not only an important part of their own development, but also an important obstacle to their foothold in society in the future. In terms of creating external and material values, social and interpersonal relationships are very efficient, but they are silent and alone in creating internal and spiritual values. People who are more constructive and kind are the ones who have the least friction with the world, and they are easy to become happy people. Children who are not harsh in mentality will be more comfortable when they grow up, and their interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious or they will get more help and opportunities to make friends. It is not that the more people you know, the better, but that you are familiar with this circle and the people in that circle. As far as possible, it is the greatest interpersonal value of such people.