Why are girls getting harder and harder to catch up with nowadays?

Why are girls getting harder and harder to catch up with nowadays?

Because they can't chase girls at all.

Recently, I read Zhihu's last article, "Do men generally stop pursuing women? Inside, a man replied:

According to my own circle of friends, girls and boys with the same salary have a basic standard of living.

Girls with the same salary as me, self-help Japanese food for 300 people, high-pressure restaurant, brushing every day, and discussing various types of lipsticks in ysl every day. Photos of various countries, the geographical positioning of friends circle is changing.

Boys, on the other hand, scrimp and save, thinking about desperate housing prices, trying to save money, and can only play games on weekends, because this is the cheapest way of entertainment. Otherwise, you can only go to the library or ride a bike.

If I hadn't thought about the house, I would have gone out for a trip.

It sounds like everything is true. I have seen many messages from boys, and most people think that.

"Instead of spending hundreds of dollars chasing girls' hands, it is better to use that time and energy to make money. Anyway, what kind of girls can't get the money? "

Some people speak more directly.

Men are all for sex, after dinner and watching movies, and then you tell me that my period is coming.

Then, I finally know why boys nowadays complain that girls are getting harder and harder to catch up with.

Because they can't chase girls at all.

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What is the pursuit?

This pursuit of spare tire has been confirmed in my mind: women can only get money and a house, and the rest is similar to catching a doll machine, all by luck and without a goal.

Ten coins have been put in, but I haven't caught them yet. It's too expensive, it's not worthwhile. Might as well find a booty call.

For them, girls of school age who are probably good-looking can talk about it. If this doesn't work, change to the next one.

Is this a pursuit?

In the eyes of women, this pursuit will only make it boring to waste two hours dressing up for dinner, and I can see all kinds of calculations in your heart. Is it really better to stay at home and watch Sansheng Shisan, listen to YeHua's sweet words, and take it out to eat, so you can feel particularly delicious?

Therefore, even if boys invite girls to eat Japanese food in 300 yuan, this meal will make men miserable and women tasteless.

Nowadays, girls are self-reliant.

Earn as much as boys,

Eat better than boys,

What they care about is not how expensive you are to me,

But my feelings about this meal and this movie.

Do I feel pursued and cared for?

Have we talked about whether the tastes of life are synchronized?

However, a boy has neither studied the circle of friends of girls nor done any homework in advance. One boring night, he suddenly remembered to chat with a girl and immediately asked her to eat. It happened that the girl didn't dislike him, and when she had time, she agreed to this dinner.

Then, the boy can say-I pursued a person, how much did it cost? Girls nowadays are too hard to catch up with.

If the time you spend with a girl is shorter than the time you spend looking for a job and writing a resume, then don't really call yourself "pursuit", okay?

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In fact, girls can be pursued without spending money.

After many boys in China work (I'm afraid they haven't arrived yet), universities are already in a state of "zero life".

The so-called zero life means no life. I don't study and have no hobbies. I don't learn to dress up, and I'm too lazy to exercise. Neither go out to see the world, nor live a good life. Not everyone is like this, but this kind of man is by no means a minority. )

Of course, they will say that they are too busy to make money.

Besides Meimei and buy buy, some girls who can earn money at work teach themselves languages, some learn tea ceremony, some like photography, and some practice abdominal muscles crazily. Besides working hard to make money, they are still working hard to enrich their lives.

It is certainly difficult for a person who has no life to pursue a person who knows life.

What can a boring man do to persuade women besides spending money?

Really want to pursue such a rich girl, not by spending money.

There are many men in this world who get married, not by a big diamond ring or a big house.

At that time, my husband and I, two poor people working in first-tier cities, had no house or car. He spent a third of his salary a month and invited me to a concert, which was the second time we met. We all like vertical lines. From beginning to end, the whole audience has been singing, and we are also very high. After that, we didn't have a car and couldn't get a taxi, so we walked all the way home for an hour and talked all the time, from the songs we heard in high school to our childhood.

Later, I became his wife and the mother of his children. We will still go to the concert together and go to the movies hand in hand.

My best friend's husband, when they met, he also broke contact with his ex-girlfriend, because his girlfriend's mother disliked his starting a business without a real job and bought a house. She often bathes him. Later, he accompanied her to find a house and deal with all kinds of trivial things in life. He also fell in love with her fried meat with green peppers. Three months later, they decided to live together.

So far, they have been together for eight years and still haven't bought a house, but she still thinks that her husband has a smart and sexy brain and it is very interesting to be with him.

So, I want to tell young boys, do you think you can marry a good girl by saving money to buy a big house? Don't make excuses for your backward thinking concept.

People who have neither inner nor outer need to rely on the house as a shield to explain everything in life.

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You must first know what kind of life you want.

If you give up playing games on weekends and know a lot about American TV series, you can cook good dishes, develop eight abdominal muscles, install IKEA furniture in one hand, carefully prepare the strategy of going to road trip on weekends, read more books, know a musical instrument and wear fashionable and decent clothes.

Doing any of them can help you catch up with a good girl without spending money. Even I believe that many girls are willing to accompany you to see the scenery.

Of course, if you say that you are a man without interest, then you can clearly know that you just want to find a girl who can live, and you can be kind to her. You don't mind that she doesn't have a sexy figure, a shiny white face, but a simple, kind and positive heart.

Most of such boys can also find a virtuous girl to accompany them.

However, many boys I have met have no plans or plans for life at all, and don't know what kind of life they want. Of course, they don't have a heart that believes in love and dares to be responsible for a woman's life.

When a person is approaching the age of 30, he has nothing to say about his life. To put it bluntly, it is nothing more than the house, the pressure and the real world. What he sees is that others live comfortably and have no way out. This in itself is the sequela of "not thinking for a long time".

Everyone has pressure, wandering in the city, struggling on the way away from home, and the most precious thing is to meet a sincere heart. Whether friends or lovers, everyone wants to find someone who can know each other and accompany them.

This is a very extravagant thing in itself. What is needed is honesty and wisdom, not mindless dating: eating, shopping and watching movies.

If we put aside these things, people are really as vulgar as "trading".

"I should hold your hand when I invite you to dinner."

"I'll give you a bag, and you have to go to bed with me."

This kind of inner calculation can be taken for granted.

No wonder girls nowadays prefer to live a chic life by themselves rather than waste their time in love.

Do you know that?/You know what?

It's not that they don't like men's bulging waists, but that they don't like your soulless body.

It's not that they think the food is not good enough, the movies are not good enough, and the gifts are not expensive enough, but that they might as well live with such people in the future.