Re-understanding Lin Daiyu’s character traits

There are a thousand Lin Daiyu in the eyes of a thousand people, but when it comes to Daiyu, many people have the inherent impression that she is beautiful and intelligent, loves to cry, is petty, and even a bit bitter and mean to others, so What other characters of Daiyu are little-known? Below are the character traits of Lin Daiyu that I have compiled. You are welcome to read them.

1. Treat people sincerely

Daiyu is sincere to everyone, as simple as a child, and she feels her heart out for Baoyu, although Daiyu likes to quarrel with Baoyu , but in his heart he regarded Baoyu as a confidant. Baoyu read forbidden books such as "The Romance of the West Chamber", and Daiyu also read with him. It can be seen that the two have similar interests. Xiangling wanted to learn poetry, so she first asked Baochai for advice. Baochai said, "I said you have to go to Shu. I advise you to come in on the first day and go out of the original east corner gate first. Starting from the old lady, you can take a look at everyone everywhere." Say hello. After being declined by Baochai, Xiangling came to see Daiyu. Daiyu sincerely told Xiangling what kind of poems to read and how to learn them. After Xiangling finished writing the poems, Daiyu patiently explained, corrected and encouraged her. She dared to do it. I think the reason why Xiangling was able to write a good poem was not only the result of her own painstaking chanting, but also Daiyu's patient teaching.

When it comes to treating people sincerely, let’s talk about Chai Dai. Many people have always classified Daiyu and Baochai as opposites, but I think they both treat each other sincerely. Chapter 42 in the article is because of this. Daiyu said some inappropriate words during the drinking ceremony. Baochai promptly corrected her and told Daiyu that she had read these books and not to read inappropriate books. Daiyu accepted it humbly and said: You Treating people with quality is of course excellent, but I am a careless person, and I only think that you are hiding a traitor in your heart? If Daiyu is not sincere to others, will he say what Baochai said? It can be seen that both of them have been sincere to each other. , so even Baoyu was surprised and asked: When did Meng Guang take over the Liang Hong case?

2. He was humorous and cute.

The specific manifestation is that wherever she is, there is laughter. Some people think that Lin Daiyu is crying and crying all day. How can she be humorous? If you think so, then you definitely don’t understand our beauty. Where she is, Either he made you speechless, or he made you laugh. In the eighth chapter of Lixiang Garden, Aunt Li asked Daiyu to persuade Baoyu not to drink, but Daiyu said that your mother is too careful. The old lady usually gave him wine and food, but now it’s okay to have an extra bite of food at Auntie’s place. Auntie must We are outsiders here, and we don’t know if we should be here. Baochai couldn't help laughing even after saying one sentence, and we can even see Daiyu's playful and snickering look.

Chapter 42 When Xue Baochai was about to read out the list of painting needs, when he read: One foot of silk yarn, two taels of ginger, and half a catty of sauce, Daiyu hurriedly said: One iron pot and one spatula. Jia Baoyu asked confusedly what he wanted these for? Lin Daiyu said you want ginger and soy sauce, and I will ask for an iron pot for you to stir-fry colorful food, which made everyone laugh. When they saw Baoyuji's list, they asked Tanchun He said: I wanted to paint a picture, and I also asked for a water tank and a box. I must have been confused because I also wrote down my dowry. Baochai was so anxious that he wanted to pinch Daiyu's face. Every time he read this, he couldn't help but smile. His really pretty lips opened up, making people either love or hate him.

Another exciting time when Daiyu spoke was when Qingwen and Xiren quarreled back and forth. Baoyu didn’t think it was right or left, and she was so anxious that she shed tears. Qingwen and Xiren also cried when they saw it. Just as Daiyu came, she walked in and said, "How can you cry properly during the festival? Are you worried about fighting over the rice dumplings?" One sentence made Baoyu and Xiren laugh. Then Daiyu took a picture of Xiren. The human shoulder shouted, “Good sister-in-law, tell me. You two must have had a quarrel. Tell your sister to make peace with you. "One sentence relieved the tense atmosphere. This is the other side of Qian'er's cuteness.

When Grandma Liu said, "Old Liu, Old Liu, he eats as much as a cow. It's not enough to eat an old sow. look up. "After saying this, everyone present burst into laughter, and the readers couldn't help laughing.

But if you take a closer look, you will find a problem. Why is Baochai's smile not described? I think the simplest reason is that Baochai only laughs at more elegant jokes, and the jokes told by Grandma Liu are relatively vulgar jokes, so What kind of thing can make Baochai laugh? It has to be our frown. In the 42nd chapter of the article, Daiyu laughed at Grandma Liu as a "mother locust". One sentence made Baochai laugh, because Daiyu polished the vulgar words in the market in the Spring and Autumn period, sentence by sentence. Only such words can make Baochai laugh. . Having said that, do you still think our Meier is a little girl who loves to cry? She also has her own sense of humor.

3. Recognize the situation clearly and don’t care about it.

When she first entered Jia's house, she saw the reality clearly, so she refused to say another word or find another way to go. Many people criticized Daiyu for sending flowers to Zhou Rui's family. Zhou Rui's family gave flowers to all the girls, and only gave the last two to Daiyu. Daiyu said: I know that others won't pick the rest and won't give them to me. Many people think that Daiyu's emotional intelligence here is too low and she is too careless, but is Daiyu really like this?

Please read, in Chapter 44 of the article, Jia Mu and a group of people came to the Xiaoxiang Pavilion, Jia Mu saw that the screen on the window was old, so she asked someone to replace the screen. Baochai said that Daiyu needed bird's nests to maintain her health. Daiyu didn't ask Jiamu for it. As Jiamu's granddaughter, what did she want? But he didn't do that because she recognized the situation clearly and knew that it was not easy for her to ask a doctor. I have already asked for too much ginseng and cinnamon. If Zaixing publishes a new article, the women and girls below will definitely think she is nosy. He knows that he is helpless and needs to know how to advance and retreat, so why bother asking people to curse him. These forms contain too much helplessness, but she is also Daiyu, who assesses the situation and knows that it is better to do less than to do more.

4. Do things carefully and carefully.

When he first entered Jia's house, Daiyu didn't understand many things, but he observed carefully and acted decently. In Mrs. Wang's room, Mrs. Wang was sitting on the west side. When she saw Daiyu coming, she moved to the east. She expected that this was Jia Zheng's position. She doesn't even sit anywhere and doesn't work easily, which shows that Lin Daiyu is attentive. When drinking tea with a meal, these rules are not consistent with those at home. Observe the actions of others carefully to know what is the right thing to do?

Chapter 45 in the article. Jia Baoyu came to visit Daiyu because it was raining. Daiyu knew that Jia Baoyu was not used to wearing wooden clogs and it was too dark on the road, so she brought a glass hydrangea lamp for Baoyu to light. In the eighth chapter of the article, the little girl gave Baoyu a bamboo hat, but she couldn't tie it. The anxious Baoyu said: That's all, you are such a stupid thing, you should be gentler. When Daiyu helped Baoyu tie it, she first gently held the hair crown with her hands. , tuck the edge of the hat on the forehead, lift up the walnut-sized crimson hairpin, and reveal it tremblingly outside the hat. This process shows your Daiyu's carefulness and thoughtfulness in great detail. These heart-warming scenes really make everyone envious.

5. See people’s hearts clearly but don’t play tricks.

Baochai is a wealthy girl, and she has a clear mind about many things, so our Daiyu’s speculation on people’s hearts is by no means inferior to Baochai’s. Chapter 69: Second Sister You enters the Grand View Garden. Sister Feng hides a knife in her smile. Sisters in the garden, Li Wan, Yingchun Xichun and others all think that Sister Feng has good intentions, but Chai Dai and the others are worried about the second sister. It can be seen that Daiyu's heart is bright. Knowing Sister Feng's character, she cannot let Sister You off easily. Daiyu's insights are indeed accurate, but she never plays tricks and treats others sincerely. I think it is this simplicity that is one of the reasons why everyone loves her.