How to elegantly leave the counter after trying on watches, clothes, and shoes?

This is indeed a very classic problem: many people leave the store where they tried it with blushes, not because it is not suitable, but because of the money! money! money!

When you are in a commercial complex with numerous counters, money, the most important thing in life, becomes even more important.

Maybe a certain limited edition shoe or your favorite dress is not a necessity in your life.

But under the bright and flashing lights of the mall, in front of the dazzling array of products, in the eager and expectant eyes, and among the handsome and beautiful men and women, you will always feel that your life is unfair——

Others dress so elegantly and delicately, why do I look so shabby?

Others spend money so freely and easily, why am I so hesitant?

Money is not a thing, but having no money seems to be even less of a thing - Woohoo!

But in the short term, where do we start?

The eyes are so embarrassing, what should I do? ——

If it’s really not suitable...

This is actually not a problem. If it’s not suitable, just say no, right? ——How elegant are you for doing this?

Even if they don’t fit, please give a professional and calm answer, okay:

“Looking carefully at this pair of shoes, they don’t really match my foot shape – I have German feet. It’s really hard to match the shoes, sorry to trouble you!”

“I originally wanted to look younger, but after trying it out, this one doesn’t really match my youth!”

"Looking at my figure, I still need to lose weight. When my figure is as good as yours, I will come to support you more!"

Anyway, don't embarrass yourself, let alone Embarrass others.

If it is suitable, but you are short of money

The solution text at this time will be complicated, and the choice depends entirely on your three views or mentality:

1. There are always times when you are cruel: even if you drink yogurt and lick the bottle caps and eat steamed buns with pickles in the past six months, you have to do this one.

Life requires such a willful attitude, otherwise people will be forced to develop problems.

Spending money on yourself occasionally is also a sign of self-confidence and self-love.

Didn’t Chen Guo, a very popular beauty professor at Fudan University, say: Only those who are confident and self-loving can love others.

Just don’t always be willful and be careful about your confidence!

2. Still reluctant to part with this large amount of money: This is the time to test your emotional intelligence.

If you blush before you speak, you are not elegant anyway.

If you are mentally strong enough, you can prevaricate "elegantly":

"I like it very much (you must say this truth to balance yourself), but I have to let myself My husband takes the time to check it out for me. It’s the most important thing if he likes it.”

“I like this one, but I always feel like it’s a bit too casual to wear like this!”

3. You know that there are often surprise prices when purchasing overseas, so let’s talk to Youmi Haitao.

To be honest, every time someone sells the ASICS Kayano for 1,399 yuan in the mall, I will scold him behind his back N times, the abbreviation for low IQ.

At this time, if you talk to Youmi Haitao about this topic, you will often save a lot of money.

I have a female friend. When I was a colleague, it was extremely scary to spend money in shopping malls: buying a vest for 5,000 yuan and jeans for tens of thousands of yuan. I was so envious that my tongue almost dropped.

Later, later - she was arrested by the police and said to have embezzled 9 million from her work unit.

Tell Umi Haitao, who of the people around you are so inhumane in spending money?

Why did you go there when you knew you couldn’t afford it? You have to be down-to-earth, right? ! If you want to leave gracefully, there is no other way than paying with your card! If you enter a counter that you can't afford, even if it doesn't suit you after trying it, your departure will not be graceful. After all, you have a guilty conscience.

Life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills. Set a place for yourself. Image acts more on the "consciousness level". If you have a tall and straight figure, a smooth face, a kind face, are confident and tolerant, and are well-dressed (choose relatively decent clothes before going to the mall), you will look elegant every time you appear and raise your hands.

Regarding the impact of personality labels on people: Christian Miller put forward an interesting theory in his book "The Character Gap". The theory is that if you want a liar to become honest, or a timid person to become brave, label them "honest" or "brave" so that over time they will You will let yourself live as the label describes.

So, you need to put a label on yourself first, that is, a person's position. So before entering the counter, I silently recited: I am a movie queen/movie king, and I am an elegant elite talent. This product did not impress me, so I left gracefully and went to another counter to have another look~

I remembered a few days ago I have a reader who shared several shopping stories with me. One of them is that after trying on the watch, he said to the salesperson: "It would be nice if this watch was a little bigger." "We have large-diameter watches." Sales answer. "It's not a big watch, it's a little bigger. I'll take a look at it. You can put it back first..." he said.

In fact, anyone with a discerning eye will understand when they see this. This is a tactful way of saying not to buy, but the salesman is obviously still very persistent and hopes to continue to convince customers.

After having this conversation three or five times, it becomes a bit awkward, the situation becomes stalemate, and both parties feel depressed.

Actually, I know that many people always feel pressured when they go into a store to try on clothes or watches, and they always feel that it’s embarrassing for me to try on without buying. However, when faced with something you don’t like or is inappropriate, and you have no better choice than giving up, the best way is to tell the reason frankly.

1. I feel that this doesn’t look good on me and it doesn’t suit me very well. Of course, you can blame yourself for the reasons. For example, my arms are too fat, or my wrists are too thick, etc. Don't say something is bad.

2. The thing looks good, but it exceeds my budget. I think I need time to think about it.

3. I am still making a choice and would like to compare with other brands to see if they are the best for me.

4. I haven’t figured out how to match it yet. When I go home and look at my wardrobe, I hope that the things I buy have more opportunities to be worn.

In short, there is no need to deliberately make up reasons to prevaricate sales. Telling the other party your true thoughts will not harm you, and it can avoid further entanglement caused by misunderstandings.

Finally, I would like to thank the store staff for their enthusiastic service. I will come back next time when I have time, and you can walk out of the store with peace of mind.

In fact, after leaving the store, you may never see each other again, so what is there to worry about?

First of all, you must have confidence when trying. Don’t show it on your face that I can’t afford it. Not all rich people buy it after trying it out. Hypnotize yourself before going in, I want to buy it! Be generous when you try it, don't think of it as something expensive. After trying it, he said politely, "Thank you, how much did it cost?" Oh, okay, I get it, I'll look around or I'll think about it again, and that'll be fine. In short, aura is very important

If you want to try that kind of luxury jewelry counter but can’t afford it, and you are afraid of being despised by the sales or people around you, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality, and then Be clear about your purpose. Do you want to feel the visual impact that money brings to you, or do you want to understand the exquisiteness and meticulous design of luxury goods. Dress appropriately and respect sales. I personally think this is very important. When trying on clothes, you need to understand the current fashion trends, innovative tailoring of clothes, new color combinations, who is the current designer of this brand, and you can even talk about some similarities and differences between major brands this season. Make it clear to the salesperson that you want to Looking at the designer's works this season, whether to buy them or not is another matter.

There is much more to know about watches. Generally speaking, watches like Patek Philippe, which cost millions, are basically mechanical watches. To understand the latest models and classic models, you can discuss the differences with the salesperson and try out the effect of getting started. And matching clothes and cars. It’s completely possible to express your love but the price is currently unaffordable. I think that for a person who behaves well and speaks elegantly, even if he doesn't buy something in these stores, but after trying it politely and generously, the salesperson won't say anything. When you leave, thank the salesperson for letting you know a lot. If you feel really guilty, just express that you want to check out another brand for comparison (otherwise, Gucci, Coach and the like are not included here, just like a nouveau riche) Just go in and come out like a nouveau riche. Anyway, if you don’t buy, you will be poor.)

Seriously express your gratitude to the store clerk. If possible, buy a low-priced item to express your gratitude. That's it.

There are generally no cheap products in luxury watch and high-end jewelry stores, but these stores will also have the awareness to educate potential customers. So you don’t need to buy anything. Instead, praise the brand’s history or extraordinary quality. It’s best to repeat a few words introduced by the store clerk and then thank the store clerk for their service.

When I see something I like while shopping, I usually want to try it on. This is normal psychology. But I suggest you check the price first. If it is really difficult for you to afford it at the moment, just take a look.

Actually this is a boring topic. Maybe it’s because men rarely go shopping. However, I have seen watches before, and I really wanted to buy a watch suitable for my status because of my work needs, so I went to see it. The ones you look at are the ones you can afford. The plan is to buy one with a price equivalent to one year’s annual salary. But after reading it, I was a little hesitant about whether it was appropriate.

The salesperson was really enthusiastic. According to my request, he brought out several latest models for me to compare and try on.

In the end, I was still hesitant and had to say to the salesperson: Thank you, I will think about it again. I didn't feel any embarrassment.