I finally understand that love is a matter between two people, and marriage is a matter between two families.

I finally understand that love is a matter between two people, and marriage is a matter between two families.

It makes sense, love is managed by two people. Love is a matter between two people, But marriage is a matter between two families.

Do you love him? Can you really let go of this relationship due to the current situation?

If you don’t live with your parents-in-law after marriage, then everything that happens now can be ignored

Just be patient for now

You won’t be able to live together on your own in the future, and your mother-in-law won’t be able to interfere too much with you

As long as she shows up, try her best Just make her satisfied. Usually your husband will pamper you

But if you live together, the situation will be completely reversed

You can only endure it and it is best not to add to this trouble. On your husband

No matter how unhappy you are with your mother-in-law or how wronged you are, you can’t tell your husband because it’s been a long time

Your husband will be very tired and have more and more thoughts of escaping. It’s hard to control your original position. Even if you support me, it will change.

Neutral is even disappointed with you because a mother like him can point fingers like this.

He is used to it. And his current attitude is obviously something he wants you to accept. You can only start with your mother-in-law

It is not difficult to get along with the elderly by asking her to truly treat you as a family member and love and pamper you.

You laugh at everything she says and agree to whatever she says. You coax her to act coquettishly and have physical contact with her.

For example, cuddling in her arms and hugging each other. After a while, the relationship will gradually become closer. If she says something harsh, just take it to her face.

Cry loudly, hold her in your arms, cry and act coquettishly, saying that you are young and don’t understand so much, catching her off guard. This is not a sentence. It’s all said in two sentences

You will naturally understand the difficulties after marriage. As long as you remember to smile often and say sweet words, you will die if you are tired of it.

Acting like a coquettish person and doing more intimate gestures are basically the answer. There is no problem. Is marriage a matter between two people or two families?

I hope people can make progress in their thinking, no longer rest on their laurels, and believe in their children. After all, marriage is a lifelong matter for their children. Only two people who love each other know the most and can live a happy life. Gap and distance are no longer a measuring stick for marriage. As long as two people love each other and live happily for a lifetime, that is the best ending. So I want to say that marriage is a matter between two people, not two families. With the happiness of two people, the two families will also be happy.

Accept it. When you are engaged, is it a matter of two people or two families?

It is important for two people to be together, but a peaceful relationship between two families is more important! Finding a good home is not only your own happiness, but also makes both parents happy and relieved~~ Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families?

I think it is two people. Regarding personal matters, if his family is good for his son, he will support whatever his son likes. My boyfriend and I were like this before. My family didn’t like him, and his family didn’t like me. In the end, we were determined to be together. There is no way, his family must accept me, and my family must accept him. Things are so good now. My parents don’t love me as much as one-third of his, let alone their family. It’s just the opposite. After all. It's the husband's family, what's there to be picky about? Besides, I'm worthy of his son. Now we are married.

Your affairs mainly depend on the two of you. You are not his parents when you get married. Get married, your parents get married.

If both of your families are good for their children, they should consider you more, not to see if they like it or not, but to live your life together.

My situation is somewhat similar to yours

We are also getting married this year. Similarly, his family has two houses, and now they live in the new house (it is said to be a new house). The house is also two years old) and another old house is rented out. So I was in a dilemma for a long time whether to live in the new house or the old house when I got married. His mother wanted us to live in the new house with them, and the old house should remain the same. Rent, but I always hear people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, so I am willing to live separately, no matter whether it is new or old, but my husband is a super filial son, basically the kind of person who always says whatever his mother says is the truth. ~~So my opinions were not accepted by him at all~Now that the new house has been renovated, it is too late to say anything~`I have been depressed for a long time because of this matter. I always feel that my husband does not love me. Considering my feelings, many people around me always advised me. Now that I think about it, it is not necessarily that all mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law have bad relationships. In fact, sometimes there are many benefits to living with the elderly~~ `Anyway, that’s how I convince myself now~~~

I don’t know why I’m telling you this. It’s just that when I saw your question, I suddenly felt connected to my fate. Haha, actually I said this. I feel like I may not give you any answer that can make you understand. Haha, just think that I am talking to you and myself~~~

I hope you are happy. Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, right?

Yes, because of your existence, two families who have never met each other have become relatives and their interactions have become closer, so marriage requires cautious! Is love a matter of two people or two families?

Family members care.

Regarding marriage, I really advise you to communicate and discuss with your family more.

After all, they have more experience and can judge people more accurately.

Take the initiative to talk to them in the future, mention it during meals, and talk about things you get along with him.

Let parents know and reassure them.

This way they won’t force you to question you, and you can have a counselor.

Then talk to them carefully and don't lose your temper.

Old people can be verbose sometimes. It's also normal.

Communicate well, losing your temper can be very hurtful.

They ask a lot, probably hoping that you and your partner can make progress faster.

I can understand that feeling.

The most beautiful love in the world is the courage to sacrifice for someone, even if the body is injured, there is no regret. A good person will always carefully remember everyone who has appeared in his life, so I always think of you endlessly. Every night when the stars fall, count mine over and over again. There are some things that we cannot control ourselves, we have to control ourselves.

You must know how to cherish, and don’t miss the stars at night after losing the sun during the day. It may only take a second to fall in love with someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget someone. I believe in fate, not in fate. Just fireworks, bringing temporary warmth and comfort. Gorgeous only for a moment. Our reason is just because we can't find an opponent. It turns out that the past can only belong to the past. It turns out that in love, there is actually no reunion. There is no relationship in the world that is not riddled with holes. Every relationship has a reason for its existence at the beginning and an inevitable end at the end. Don't imagine what he should be like. What we really fall in love with and what we think we will fall in love with are often very different. Don't be afraid that love will hurt you. Believe that he only hurts you, not you. Don't say forever, don't say forever, who can promise the future? What we can grasp is nothing more than the feelings of the place at that time. But a lifetime is also made up of countless present moments. If you work hard for every moment, it will last forever. Love means feeling distressed. You can like many people, but there is only one person who truly feels distressed. Some people will never be together in this life. But there is a feeling that can be hidden in your heart for a lifetime. There are two things in this world that can change people, one is time and the other is suffering. When you really like someone, the whole world does not exist except for him in your eyes. If you truly love someone, you will never care so much, let alone the judgment of the world. Because in your eyes, she has advantages that the world cannot see, and she has a beauty that is unique to you. A part of life can only be met by chance. Now that you have encountered it, don’t hesitate and hold on tightly. Otherwise, it will be too late to regret missing it. The word "regret" is easy to write, but it is the most difficult pain in life. There are too many ties and reluctances in people's lives in this world. Because those old things are marked with the traces of yesterday's joy, they can't always be cruel. Throwing away requires courage, and collecting requires space. It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much. It's painful to give up someone you love very much. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is even more painful. Don't fall in love because of it, don't fall in love because of it. Perhaps only when we are farthest away can we see the days we have passed most accurately and clearly. ................................................................. ................................................................. ............. Is marriage a matter between two families or two people?

Before May 20 this year, I naively thought it was a matter of two people. After receiving the certificate, I found out that it was really a matter of two families. No matter how many people told me, I didn’t believe it. , only through your own experience can you know that what others have said is correct.