Confused, okay? It better be serious.

Being a man or being confused is a center of being a man: paying attention to physical and mental health! Two basic points of being a man: happiness and confusion! Three forgetfulness in life: forgetting age, fame and fortune, and resentment! Being a man has four things: an old nest (house), some money (savings), a wife and some old friends! This is a short message sent to me by a friend, which feels particularly reasonable. If each of us can do this. If we have these, we will be the happiest people! I look back on the road I have traveled in my life, and let me compare what I have done, what I have done and what I have, and I am deeply touched. I'm sorry I'm missing one of the four, but I still have all the others (although I'm not very rich), and I can basically do what I should do. I think, no one, his life is the most perfect, perhaps, regret is also a kind of beauty! A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. It's hard to be confused. Satisfaction is an eternal feast. Just look at what I have, not what I have. These words are the "truth" summed up in my life. People who can do this are happy, and I often use these to warn myself! I used to be a very rational person, so rational that I couldn't let go of my innate sense of touch, couldn't keep up with principles, lived a traditional life and worked hard, so I couldn't stand cheating and betrayal. So, I have been hurt and experienced failure! I envy those emotional people, who are free and unrestrained, regardless of the consequences of Otawa. Emotional people value not the result, but the process. Therefore, they tend to be happier. Happiness is also chasing them. You don't have to struggle, you can enjoy the enthusiasm of the sun at will. I, on the other hand, pursued happiness and tried my best, but in the end I couldn't catch the fleeting happiness. So I experienced a lot of helplessness, that is, I didn't enjoy happiness and didn't feel happiness. Being a man is such a failure! Now, I have risen from the adversity of failure, changed my position and lived an optimistic life. Of course, I have benefited a lot: I am healthy (broad-minded, fat) and my mind is much more cheerful than before (happy-go-lucky). The best thing I do is to be happy and confused. I don't covet fame and fortune, don't care about gains and losses, and even forget the hurt and resentment I once had. Only when my heart is tired and people are tired can I realize the truth of being a man, that is, "it is difficult to be confused." In fact, life is made up of many helplessness, that is, although I can't choose my fate and get rid of it, I can only obey it, learn to adapt, be a loyal prisoner of it, and finally be myself, make myself more emotional, make myself happier and keep a little rational, so as to make less regrets! Confusion is a rare experience. Only weather-beaten people and people with rough lives can get the true meaning! Rare confusion is also a kind of realm, a kind of tolerance, which can make people extraordinary, open-minded and generous, and also make people magnificent and inclusive. Bloggers, it is best to be confused. As long as we don't lose ourselves, confidence and principles, let's live a confused and confused life. In this way, we will be happy!