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When go on road trip meets a stranger and wants a ride, does he agree or find a reason to refuse? Why?
One summer, I went to Xiangshui Lake to drive out of the mountain, about six or seven o'clock. It gets dark early in the mountains and you can't see the distance clearly. I met a single girls who was carrying a mountaineering bag. She looked tired and walked slowly. Without a flashlight and a dome light, I drove slowly and asked her if she wanted to take a picture. She didn't even give her face, but she didn't say a word I feel bored, but I can understand her.
On the way, strangers hitchhike "afraid of killing wolves at both ends", and hitchhikers are worried and wary. It is not excluded that some people have malicious intentions, and some people just want to take advantage. The last sentence of thanks may not be there, and it is not uncommon to even invite wolves into the house. At the same time, it does not rule out that there are drivers with bad intentions.
It's hard to say such a thing, except that people are unpredictable.
Therefore, both sides will be alert.
People who feel at home and are cosmopolitan should not suffer too much in the cash society.
This society still needs everyone to give a little love, which is also for you and me to live a better life. We don't talk about "the beginning of life", at least helping others is a moral norm recognized by our society. You can help others and pass on your kindness. Others may also help yourself when you are in trouble.
In other words, when you need to help others, lend a helping hand if you can.
Evil is not necessarily rewarded with evil, and good is not necessarily rewarded with good. But if you don't have kindness yourself, you can't always get kindness from others.
It is necessary to guard against others, but it is impossible to harm others. Whether to help depends on the situation. 1 is our own environment, so we can't make trouble for ourselves.
I am alone, and I am in a deserted place. Think about it.
2, it is the actual situation of the other party, whether it really needs help;
It doesn't matter if you want a lift just because you are tired from walking. As an adult, you should be able to do what you can. If you encounter special weather or difficulties, you can consider giving a hand.
3, the most important thing is to consider whether the other party may pose a threat to themselves, or may have ulterior motives, or ulterior motives and so on. Sometimes, I think I may be out of control, so forget it.
One less good deed may be for the safety of one's life and property. Doing a good deed again may also make your thoughts easier to understand.
Misfortunes depend on each other, I don't know.
So this situation depends on everyone's own judgment and grasp. A complete and complete refusal is nothing, nor is it a life-saving event, but agreeing to everything should be completely avoided.
Dialectical unity of things. There is no need to imagine how evil this society is, and we can't give all the goodwill to the world. Seeing the world with malicious eyes is easy to make us extreme, but there will always be more disappointments; Look at the world with a kind heart, you don't have to take it all out. It's too simple.
Hello! When go on road trip meets a stranger and wants a ride, does he agree or find a reason to refuse? Why? So now let me talk about my personal point of view.
1. go on road trip meets a stranger and asks for a lift. If the person who wants a lift is a man, I will decisively refuse, without looking for an excuse, because I am a woman. Although a man who wants a ride may not be 100% bad, he may really need help. But there are also many individual impulsive crimes, so it is quite dangerous for me as a female driver to give a strange man a ride in my car. So I will not hesitate to refuse a lift request from a strange man, without any hesitation.
Secondly, if I meet a strange woman in go on road trip who wants a ride, I may consider whether to let her get on the bus. I shouldn't refuse directly. I will according to the situation at that time, the other party is one person, or several people? If I were alone, I probably wouldn't refuse, but first I'll see if my position is flat in the car. If it is the kind of road that is suitable for hiding things on both sides, I may refuse to take a ride without stopping for fear of being robbed. If the surroundings are clear, I will stop and let her come up. Because I think it is safer to be a woman, even if the strange hitchhiking girl is really a bad person, I think there is still a fight to be a woman physically. After all, it's dangerous for a woman to be on the side of the road, and it's up to her mood to let a strange woman get on the bus. If there are several women, or men and women, I refuse to take a ride. Because there are many people, what if they are bad people? Even if they are not bad people, there is no danger of so many people taking care of each other, so I will refuse them a ride. The above is my personal opinion, thank you!
I often play in go on road trip and go on road trip, almost all in remote mountainous areas or plateau areas.
On the way to road trip, I often meet strangers asking for a ride, and I usually find excuses to politely refuse. Tell a true story. During the period of Xinjiang army, the old drivers ran long distances alone. It's boring to drive for a long time. A driver picked up a stranger on the road, but he didn't expect to avoid other vehicles at the corner of the mountain road and overturned. The hitchhiker was badly injured and couldn't take care of himself. The army will support him all his life.
This incident had a great impact on the troops, and it was stipulated that local people were not allowed to pick up on the road in the future.
There are also colleagues from the same unit who take their colleagues' cars to the unit for meetings. There was an accident on the road, and my colleagues in the car were seriously injured. Insurance compensation and his own money have been spent, but it is still not enough. He can only take his colleague's driver to court.
Road trip is a happy trip. If you encounter similar situations above, you can't afford the consequences.
In go on road trip, we also have friends who travel with the car, but they all bought short-term insurance in case of accidents. I will persuade my friends to buy short-term insurance. If something goes wrong, I can't afford to pay.
What should I do if I meet a stranger riding a bike? 1. On the way to road trip, the car in accident needs help. Try to help them, especially in remote areas. The ambulance can't feel it in time. Saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda.
2. On the way to road trip, if you meet a hiker, you need to take a short trip and try to refuse politely, which is hiking in itself. Unless you are unwell and need urgent medical treatment, write down the consequences.
3. When traveling on the road normally, when you meet a stranger and wave to stop, it means that there is no seat, so it is best not to stop.
When stopping in road trip, if you meet someone who wants a ride, try to ask him where to go first. It can be said that you are not on the same road. If you are on the same road, you can say that you want to go somewhere else or have a rest in front.
In short, try to avoid strangers hitchhiking on the way to road trip, and hitchhiking with you means that you have a de facto contract with him, and you are responsible for any accident. Some responsibilities are really unbearable. It may destroy you.
You don't know strangers on the bus, and you meet arrogant gangsters with dirty hands and feet. Their own safety will also be threatened.
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My answer is no. In my previous trip, I did meet a stranger who wanted a ride, and I politely refused. I remember one of them was in Xixia Dinosaur Park many years ago. When we finished our visit and prepared to return, a female staff member conveniently opened my car door and asked for a ride. I refused her politely without consent. The reasons for refusal are as follows:
First, I can't tell whether the person who wants a ride is a good person or a bad person. The society is so complicated that it is indispensable to harm people's air defense.
Second, I am not good at communicating with strangers. They hit it off well along the way, but it would be embarrassing not to speculate.
Thirdly, if I promise to pick up strangers, I have the responsibility to ensure that people are safely and smoothly delivered to their destinations. I can't have any problems on the way, which invisibly increases my responsibility, but there are too many uncertain factors in the journey, such as road conditions, car conditions and natural disasters. I can't predict, I can't and I don't want to add unnecessary trouble to myself.
Hello everyone! Let me tell you a story about giving a stranger a lift. ...
It was a morning many years ago. I drove a long way by myself. On the edge of a small town in front of Yanmenguan, I pulled a strange young man who wanted a ride. Young people look as if they are going out to work. After getting on the bus, I talked a few words and hit it off.
I was driving a Dongfeng 140 truck with a trailer and a load of charcoal.
When the truck started to climb the mountain, the stranger hitchhiking spoke. He said, you must have brought a lot of money on your long trip, right? Give me the money? Is everyone okay? I was smoking at that time. Hold down the fire and say: I am kind enough to pull you! You can't do this to me? Strangers are beyond my explanation. Take out a fruit knife. I have to say: something to discuss! Distract him. Then I put my hand in the opposite direction and the car flashed. Take the opportunity to jump out of the cab. Because it was uphill, the truck suddenly stalled. The main car and trailer stopped by the rock and turned over. The stranger was stunned by the sudden rollover. Hurriedly jumped down from the passenger seat and ran away along the cornfield on the hillside. ...
Poor people must have something hateful. The experience of blood tells everyone that strangers can't pull a car.
Thanks for sharing!
You can agree or refuse, depending on the specific situation.
I have led a team to Tibet by car for many years. On the way, I met many strangers who wanted a ride. Some agreed to take a ride, while others refused. I'll share with you a case of agreeing to a ride.
2065438+June 2009, I led a team to Tibet by car. When I met a Prado owner at Kunlun Mountain Pass, I lost my key, so I had to call a trailer without a spare key. It took at least 4 hours for the trailer to reach the rescue site from Golmud.
There are two men and two women in the car. They agreed that two men would stay and wait for the trailer, and two women would go for a ride with a member of our team. Because this member is from Hebei, I agreed and took them to Golmud.
Whether you can give a stranger a lift has a basic criterion: whether you can guarantee your personal and property safety. On the premise of ensuring safety, being convenient to others means being convenient to yourself, and helping others is also a virtue. If there is danger, you must refuse decisively.
According to my years of experience in go on road trip, it is best not to agree to a ride in the following situations:
1. When a person is driving, it is best for both men and women to refuse a lift.
2. When driving at night, you'd better refuse a lift.
3, remote sections, it is best to refuse.
If many people ask for a lift at the same time, it's better to refuse.
5. When the language is unreasonable (foreigners can only speak Tibetan), it is best to refuse.
I hope the above experience sharing can help everyone.
When you meet a stranger on the way to go on road trip, do you agree or find a reason to refuse? Why? This question has to be said slowly.
As a road trip group, many cars in the group often run outside. On the long-distance road, you often meet taxi drivers. Accidents caused by hitchhiking happen every year, which really teaches us a lot.
The year before last, we had several trains in Tibet and met a little girl on the way to the back of the train. Our group of friends felt sorry for the little girl and agreed to take a ride. On the way, our car owner turned into a ditch on the side of the road to avoid other cars, resulting in two broken ribs of the little girl. Later, the little girl's family lost the main compensation, which was really miserable.
Long-distance driving, it is common to meet people on the road. Don't take it in principle, because once you take a person, it becomes a de facto contractual relationship, and everyone is happy if nothing happens. When something goes wrong, the owner is in big trouble. On our way to Russia by car, we often meet Russian beauties hitchhiking. They all try their best, but we all refuse.
On the road of self-driving, we occasionally encounter accident vehicles, and we will not hesitate to take a ride when we meet the injured. We also do not hesitate to meet some patients who need first aid. Under such special circumstances, we should hitch a ride. These are for reference only. Thank you for your reading and attention.
When I meet a stranger who wants a ride in go on road trip, I usually look at the situation: if I am in a city or a place with convenient transportation, I usually find reasons to refuse, but if I am in a remote mountainous area or a place with very inconvenient transportation, I usually agree. Why would I do that? Please listen to my personal experience first:
20 17, self-driving in Xinjiang. On the way from Turpan to Korla, not far from Turpan, three young students waved and stopped the car. At that time, it was still a little messy, and I didn't know if I should stop, for fear that someone would rob me after parking. But do you know the weather in Turpan in summer? It was noon, and the sun shone on the endless asphalt road, as if it could burn people. I subconsciously looked at the dashboard of the car, showing that the outside temperature was 4 1 degree. ...
By the time emotion finally overcame reason, my car had actually left them four or five hundred meters away. I'm glad I turned around and picked them up. These are three sophomores from Zhejiang University. They went hiking during the summer vacation. As a result, they didn't expect the temperature here to be so high. One man and one woman have symptoms of heatstroke.
Without saying anything, I immediately turned around and sent them to Turpan People's Hospital. On the way to the hospital, they have been thanking me. They said that by then they had stopped more than 100 cars. But many drivers didn't stop at all. Two or three cars stopped, but they couldn't see the road clearly, and the students couldn't come up with a few dollars, so they all left.
After I sent them to Turpan People's Hospital, they all called home, and their family members transferred money to them through their mobile phones to let them go through the hospitalization procedures ... Later, we became inseparable friends and often chatted online. In 20 19, we also made an appointment to go to Nepal and walk together on the small ring line of the Himalayas.
As the saying goes, helping others does not need icing on the cake. Therefore, if I am in a city with buses and taxis, I don't need to give anyone a ride and take unnecessary risks, so I will find reasons to refuse. But if I am in the middle of nowhere, I can turn my car around and send it to my destination like timely help.
I picked up a young couple from other countries yesterday. Originally, our RV had already passed, but they stood hand in hand on the side of the road, their faces were full of expectations and their smiles were so bright. We turned around again, slowed down and asked them, just going to Byron Bay, so we happily picked them up. Chatting all the way, I learned that the young man is Australian and the girl is Hungarian. They are very beautiful. They met and fell in love on the trip. When we arrived at Byron Bay Beach, we took a group photo. Because this is the first time that our RV picks up a stranger, and it is a very pleasant experience.
Do you agree to meet a stranger on the way to go on road trip? First of all, we have never encountered such an incident. We've been traveling in an RV for two years, and we really haven't met a hitchhiker.
However, we have seriously discussed this issue before. What should we do if we meet a hitchhiker? Finally, my wife and I discussed that if there is an emergency, we will definitely give hitchhikers, such as emergency and illness, to the hospital. We can take a detour to the hospital, but we won't hitchhike or hitchhike to travel like other types of people.
The first is to let strangers take their own cars. We are not used to it. The important thing is that if something happens, we will be responsible. Although it is a small probability event, our habit is just in case.
There is also that we don't like to bother others ourselves, and we will never ask others for help for what we can do under any circumstances. Similarly, many times, we don't like others asking us for help when they know what they can do. For example, when we move at home, or need to move large items, we would rather find some hourly workers to do it than bother to invite friends to help us.
One more thing, just our own opinion. Once, all kinds of poor travel were popular in the media of travel forums. This kind of poor travel refers to taking a ride to eat and live everywhere. We don't like this kind of trip very much. This is not a poor tour at all, but a wandering tour. Then we definitely don't want this. I admire those poor travelers who set up their own tents, ride on foot and cook for themselves. Read a post first, there is a great god who spends 10 yuan to travel on average every day.
Don't trouble others for your own convenience. This is our guideline. There are often enthusiastic netizens on the road who want to invite us to dinner, and we all gratefully refuse, because we really just don't want to cause trouble to others. Even if I really want to have a big meal.
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