The biggest person in life is either a parent, a lover or a friend?

Life is really hard, we have to take care of ourselves.

I saw a micro-movie before, which said that a girl helped an old man during an interview. Coincidentally, I also met this old man in the interview company.

Therefore, she ignited hope again and again, but she was disappointed again and again. As a result, the old man is just an ordinary cleaner.

Just two minutes, but it makes people suddenly realize.

We always give our lives to others casually, and always feel that relying on and expecting is the greatest happiness. But in fact, in this world, everyone has their own responsibilities and obligations, and there are always a few things that can help you.

There is no miracle in life, everything goes with the flow. The greatest aristocrat in a person's life is only himself who strives for progress.

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Rely blindly, only mediocre people will live forever as the protagonists of their own lives.

Yi Shu once said: After all, a person can be trusted by himself, and it is himself who can stand up for him. I found myself, and I am my destination. ?

Relying on others, no matter how much you get, will eventually feel uneasy and unstable. Why? Because the world is changing, no one can guarantee that the object he relies on will not change, and relying on others will never be reliable.

Therefore, if we only rely on the outside world and don't grow ourselves, then we must be miserable.

I have seen such a story on the Internet before.

There is an intern in a famous company who has good academic performance and graduated from a famous university. He looks smart, too. However, in the end, he did not successfully pass the internship period. The reason for dismissal is that the work attitude is not positive and the initiative is poor.

He felt very wronged and thought that he was not at all wrong, but the company didn't understand talents. So before he left, he talked angrily with his boss and accused him of not taking care of himself. This is what he said: As a boss, you have an obligation to bring up your subordinates. If you don't help me when I am in trouble, how can I know how to work hard? ?

As the saying goes:? Noble people lead the way and go by themselves? .

Others can help you for a while, but they can't help you for a lifetime. After all, the road to life is no matter how difficult it is, you have to walk on your own, and success is no matter how difficult it is. A person's real maturity is not the growth of age, but the understanding that there is only oneself in this world and nothing to do with others.

So, God helps those who help themselves, count on others, and you lose.

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If you don't work hard, you will only miss it.

Hard work is the best gesture in life.

Everyone will complain about social injustice, but when you calm down and think about it, you will find that,

Life will not disappoint anyone who works hard.

It is an eternal truth that no pains, no gains.

Enthusiasm is good, but if it is not put into action, it is just talk and daydreaming. Those who are cocky and talk about their dreams are far less happy than those who work hard.

Once, the village was flooded. A man believes in God very much. He keeps praying: God, help me! ?

At this time, a small boat came in the distance, and the people on board called him to get on the boat quickly. He said, God will save me, so the boat is easy to go. When the flood flooded the roof, another big ship came in the distance. The man on the boat threw him a lifebuoy, but he refused. He said loudly, God will save me, and the lifebuoy has floated away.

Before long, the flood had flooded his neck, when a helicopter flew in the air and put down the ladder to save him. He said: God will save me. The helicopter flew away helplessly. At this time, a big wave came and he was washed away by the rapids and drowned.

His soul went to heaven, and he asked God: I prayed so earnestly for you to save me, why didn't you save me? ?

God said:

I sent you a boat and a lifebuoy, and I gave you two chances, but you didn't take it. Finally, even my plane arrived, and you still missed it. Can you blame me? ?

It is now or never.

Noble people are rare, and what is even more rare is the ability to firmly grasp opportunities. After all, for many people, there is only one chance to change their destiny. If they catch it, they will rise to the top. If they miss it, they will only regret it for a lifetime.

Don't underestimate every effort you make for your life, because every harvest in life is the result of long-term accumulation. And every step of your efforts is valuable, and it will give you the right return at the right time.

So without a comfortable life, it is impossible to be opportunistic. Only by working hard and relying on yourself can we win a place for ourselves.

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Man's greatest nobleman is to strive to be wonderful.

Everyone is a potential stock, so it's really not advisable to bearish on yourself. Know yourself and believe in yourself. Everyone has the ability to change his destiny. But in this world, too many people ignore this and just wait for fate, waiting for the nobles to give themselves a chance to soar.

Remember, God helps those who help themselves. If you don't help yourself, no one else can help you. When the Golden Globe Award for Best Actress was announced last year, everyone knew this girl with small round eyes, flat nose and eight eyebrows? Wu Shanzhuo.

At the beginning, with excellent academic performance, she could have gone to Carleton University in Canada with a four-year full scholarship. But she chose to study acting at the Theatre Academy. And this decision was opposed by almost everyone. Parents, agents and directors don't think highly of this ordinary-looking girl.

Even she once admitted:

As an actor, I have to say' no' to others 90% of the time. ?

Nevertheless, Wu Shanzhuo never wavered in his determination. The first thing to wake up every day is to rehearse against the script; After work, I often practice my expressions and body movements in front of the mirror. Her persistence and persistent efforts day after day finally paid off.

There's a question on Zhihu: Who is the best person you have ever met in your life? ?

There is a different answer:

A noble person just reminds you and inspires you at a certain time, place and thing, and then walks smartly into the crowd, and you may never see him again.

Only those who work hard are their best nobles.

Life is never easy, and success can never be achieved just by talking. Although on the way to success, we will stumble and be scarred, but we also become better unconsciously. Therefore, everyone should have a heart of self-reliance, and only by themselves can they succeed.

If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.

Only by making yourself excellent enough can we meet more like-minded people in the years to come, make progress with them, achieve each other and create a more wonderful life.

Never forget that you are your own noble, and it is best to live on your own!