People who mix well usually have these characteristics.

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"A person mix well, there must be a reason why he mix well. If a person doesn't live well, there must be reasons for failure. "

This is what a university teacher once said. I didn't know much about it at that time, and I found it very profound and difficult to understand. Now that I think about it, I find this is a golden suggestion.

He's right. There must be a reason why a person gets along well, and this reason must be related to his own characteristics. Some people always think that a person's life depends mainly on luck, so most people believe in fate.

But in fact, the role of fate is not so strong. Usually, a person's fate is in everyone's own hands. If you want to change your destiny, you can change it. If you want to live in a daze all your life, you are likely to remain depressed.

Some people are not ordinary people from the beginning. Maybe they are mediocre at the moment, but in a few years or more, they will become great people.

If a person wants to mix well, he must have the conditions to mix well. The following things are indispensable to everyone.

Good academic qualifications.

Don't believe in the theory that reading is useless, and you don't know when it started. There are some inexplicable rumors in the society. They all think reading is useless. Some people even blatantly said that it is better to go out and move bricks early. Anyway, the salary of college students is only a few thousand dollars.

I have to admit that this is really a big misunderstanding. The salary of college students fresh out of campus is not high, but there is a lot of room for development. After many years, they will bring themselves a different future.

What's more, many things in this society need to be done by academic qualifications. If your education is average, I'm afraid you can't even get into some companies. Even if you get in by luck, it's hard to climb up.

I have seen many people get stuck in the middle because of their academic qualifications. They were in pain and regretted not reading more, but there was nothing they could do. In this era of abundant talents, the competition they face is inevitable.

As far as contemporary society is concerned, education is not only a stepping stone, but also the key to determine how far a person can go.

Have you found anything particularly common? Many business tycoons with low academic qualifications will continue to go back to school for further study after their successful careers, and then get higher academic qualifications.

Not to mention business tycoons, even ZhangZetian has done this. ZhangZetian originally graduated from Tsinghua, and later went to Cambridge. I have to admit that this woman is really improving.

For ordinary people, the level of education will determine the height of life. Whether you want to admit it or not, this is reality.

Let me tell you a very common reality. Some people can't settle down in first-tier cities after racking their brains, while some people with high academic qualifications can settle down easily. Not only that, they can also get a sum of money because they are talented people.

Enough practical ability to open the future.

It is very important for a person to get along well. Some people only talk on paper, which is a bit regrettable.

To give a very simple example, some people can always talk about things in Kan Kan, but they can only do these things. When they really do something, it is difficult for them to do it well.

A person without actual combat ability can't go far, how can an armchair strategist do it? It was not good to fight in ancient times, and it is even worse to go to the future now.

People often say that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and it is true. If you are really a capable person, you can seize the opportunity when it comes.

But if your ability is so little, no matter how hard you try to talk about yourself, you won't catch the opportunity when it comes. Even if you do, it will be a mess, and it may not be your opportunity in the end.

If a person wants to mix well, ability itself is an indispensable part. Education is a stepping stone. After entering the door, everyone is fighting for their ability.

Extraordinary thinking ability

As the saying goes, thinking determines fate. I think most people are well aware of this. If a person's thinking ability is poor, it is difficult for him to have a good future.

Different people always have different views on the same thing. This is because they have different ways of thinking, so they have different lives.

To give a very simple example, many ordinary men value a woman's appearance and age most when choosing a spouse, so they all say they want to marry a young and beautiful woman.

But most men who are truly relatively successful in life will not marry such women in the end. They marry women who are helpful to their careers.

Wall Street tycoons have also said that if you marry such a woman, it is equivalent to the exchange of money and beauty, and this kind of transaction is unfair to him from the beginning, because a woman's things will depreciate and his wealth will appreciate.

People with different ideas will inevitably have different life trends if they consider different parts before doing anything.

Long-term vision

Everyone must know how important a long-term vision is to a person. First of all, let's talk about Ma Yun. At that time, the network was not particularly developed. He can think of moving the store to the internet. His thinking ability is very strong.

In the past, everyone dared not think about it. One day, everyone can buy things online and receive them directly by express delivery, but he did, and he became the crab eater 1 person.

So far, almost everyone has chosen online shopping, and Ma Yun can be regarded as the originator of this aspect. It is because of his long-term vision that he will become a very successful person.

What benefits can be brought to you in the short term? Even if you get it at that time, there is no way to continue. People with long-term vision can go further.

Useful contacts

Do you believe that interpersonal relationship has an indispensable influence on a person's development? Whether we admit it or not, people are social animals and we can't live without them.

If you want to live well in this world, you naturally have to live better in some ways. If you want to develop and go further, you must rely on contacts, because with contacts, you can take fewer detours.

This is actually obvious to all, and it is true in all walks of life. Some people have no connections and have to walk on their own.

Maybe they succeeded in the end, but they spent too much time and energy. Some people have connections, which can get twice the result with half the effort.

Interpersonal relationship is a valuable resource. If you have such resources, you can get along better in the future.

If you want this kind of thing, you can start to expand your circle of friends.

A character that makes people respect and trust.

Personality is also very important to a person. If your personality is not very good, although everyone is willing to contact you, it is entirely for the benefit, which is actually not a good thing, because your relationship will soon collapse.

Only if you have a good character will they trust you wholeheartedly. The most important reason why some people have good connections and can win everyone's trust is that they have good people.

Character is the foundation of a person's life. When your personality becomes your famous brand, your future will be bright, because everyone believes in your signboard, and you can live better because of it.

Everyone wants to get along well, but not everyone has such conditions. If you make more corrections and work harder, you will become a master one day.

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