After my divorce, I only wore a tattered cotton-padded jacket back to my parents’ home, and my sister-in-law ridiculed me. What should I do?

When I got married six years ago, my parents didn’t pay a cent as a bride price because they had to support my younger brother’s education. After my husband and I got married, we both quit our low-paying jobs and went to work. We opened a wedding company. Because the price was fair and we were both real people, our business went from just one order a month to dozens of orders a month. The company grew from just the two of us to more than 20 people. No. 1, my husband and I have never had a free day in the past few years.

Let’s talk about my natal family. Ever since my younger brother got married, he and his sister-in-law have been living with my parents. After my husband and I got better financially, my younger brother and his wife came to me for money. It became a daily routine. My husband often quarrels with me because my brother wants money. He feels as if he is working for my brother.

At the beginning of this year, I discovered that my husband obviously had a problem. When I got home, I would not let go of my cell phone. I secretly looked at his phone while he was taking a shower and found that he had changed the original password, which had been our daughter's birthday number. A woman's intuition is so accurate. Later, I secretly followed him, and sure enough I saw him taking a very young woman to the mall.

I had a big fight with him when I went back, and he said he didn’t want a divorce. I know it's actually because of money. I am the legal person of the company. It has been impossible to divide the joint property of our husband and wife for so many years. If he divorces me because of his "mistress", he will definitely lose more than he gains. I listened to his words and forgave him this time for the sake of my daughter. I said that if he messed with another woman again next time, I would divorce him immediately.

My husband did stay at home for a while, and he also worked hard at work. He took his clients seriously and even went to pick up his daughter when he had time. I think he would not dare to contact that woman again after what happened last time. I am almost forty years old, but I am so naive that my husband not only did not break off the relationship with her, but also made her pregnant.

This time we have to divorce. I have no intention of running the company if he wants it, so we changed the legal person of the company to his name. Of course, I won't suffer a loss and take away more than half of his property. My daughter also wants to follow me. I don’t worry about her following a father like that! After the divorce, I took my daughter back to my parents’ home. Because I was in a bad mood after the divorce, I didn't have the time to dress myself up, so I just wore a tattered cotton-padded jacket on the day I returned to my parents' home.

I took my daughter to my parents’ house for a day, and my sister-in-law became unhappy. She sneered at me and said, "Sister, you look like a rag picker in the village. What man do you think would want you?" I wasn't angry at all when my sister-in-law said this. When Duowan came back, I originally wanted to buy a big house to live in with my whole family. Now I am proud that I don’t have to take this disgusting woman with me. I bought a house to live with my mother and daughter. It would be best for this woman not to even enter my door.