How to maintain the relationship with relatives?

Relatives, some relatives are mostly related by blood, but they are almost strangers, otherwise? A good neighbour is better than a brother in the next village. In fact, most relatives have bad relations, and most of them lack contact. They have much contact, so naturally they will not be strangers.

How to maintain family ties? Then we should talk more about telephone or daily life. As far as I'm concerned, I'm the kind of person who doesn't like being close to my relatives, so I don't know much about them. Because of this, once, my aunt took me to tell me about it. Xx is fine, call me cousin and aunt more, or you will be unfamiliar! I remember I used to like playing at her house. Later, I didn't know why I felt resistance to my relatives, so I stopped going and became unfamiliar. Later, my aunt said so, so I often used WeChat to give my cousin, and my cousin would often invite me to play. Gradually, I became less strange. Be sure to call more often, and relatives will not be too unfamiliar.

Borrow less from relatives. This is only for adults. Sometimes it's hard. When they need money, they will think of their relatives for the first time. But most people don't like borrowing money, they are afraid of taking risks and collecting debts. Therefore, you should ask less unfamiliar or less generous relatives, because even if you ask others, they will refuse you. If you ask poor relatives, they will be very helpless and affect their feelings. Some people will avoid you. It's true. So for a while, my dad borrowed money from the bank at a penny's interest, because most relatives really didn't want to borrow it. Relatives also met people who didn't pay back the money, and then he came to pay back the money, which definitely affected his feelings.

It won't be so strange to visit more relatives, meet more, eat and chat during holidays. Also, if you have nothing to do, go to his house more often, bring some fruit and send a box of moon cakes to the Mid-Autumn Festival, so that the relationship will be good. In short, as long as there is contact with others, the relationship can be maintained.