Tell me about the difficulty of breaking up when you were packing?

It's hard to decide when packing. In fact, as we all know, most of these things are unused, some can't meet the needs of use, some can't be used once, and some can only stay there, and no one will remember their existence. It's just, why haven't we disposed of them yet? This reminds me of a word, which is "breaking up". This word has appeared frequently in front of my eyes in recent years, but how to do it? In this respect, I think it is really difficult.

Broken, broken what, what's left, what's left? Maybe it's an old way of life and an outdated concept of doing things. I am actually a nostalgic person, just like in my spare time, I still take out my diary written in the past. I know what I'm looking at, but it's the old days of the past many years, and it's a memory of the years that I can't come back. Many times, in these stories, there are many people who are worried about failing the exam, quarreling with their children, getting lucky money with ecstasy, and having fun with their parents. In fact, all this seems trivial now, but I can see me at that age, that innocence, that purity of mind. Yes, hello, old times.

Many times, what makes us unable to "break free" is such an old time, a kind of reluctance to the past days, and a feeling of wanting to keep that innocent memory forever. Just like my bookcase, there are some books from my school days, including teaching AIDS and extracurricular masterpieces. What is left on the title page of the book is the date at that time,1999,2001year, "purchased from Xinhua Bookstore". The words I wrote at that time, from the present point of view, are very naive, but they are strokes and strokes, and they are carefully written. Yes, I like to write the date on every book. This is a habit I have developed for a long time. I seem to be naturally sensitive to dates. Xinhua Bookstore, I think, is the memory of our generation. Who hasn't crossed the street to Xinhua Bookstore on the busy street after school, rushed in and read those books with ink fragrance, then sat in the corner and read them. When they met something they liked, they dragged their parents' skirts to buy it, or saved their pocket money to buy a novel that their parents might not agree to buy. Today, time has passed for more than ten years. Xinhua Bookstore, where I wandered for countless times, has long since disappeared. Occasionally I see it on other streets, but it is no longer crowded. People buy their favorite books online, then sit at home and wait for the package to be delivered to their door.

The rapid development of modern society has impacted people's traditional way of life, changed people's behavior and refreshed people's way of thinking. Guoguo's grandmother is also a nostalgic person. Her wardrobe is full of clothes from the 1980s. She never wears it, but she will never throw it away, so her wardrobe is always full and there is no place to put those newly bought clothes. In her words, those clothes were fashionable at that time and no one wore them. Why throw them away? That day, she also took some clothes to Guoguo. Looking at the style and color, we also know that it is a product decades ago. Later, I learned that it was actually the clothes I wore when I was a child! When I was a child, it was nearly thirty years ago. In her words, clothes at that time were much more environmentally friendly than now. She came from that era. In the 1980s, she was in her twenties, working, falling in love, getting married and having children. These important events in life were all completed at that time. So she is also very nostalgic. Apart from the idea of thrift, she instinctively wants to keep everything of that era, including the small suit she wore on her wedding day and my baby clothes. Many times, it is difficult for us to "give up", but many times, it is not a simple way of life to be reluctant to throw anything away. Because of this, your room will always be full, and you can't make room for your new purchases. Just like your brain is always bound by old ideas, there is no room for new things and things you haven't done before. Over time, in your brain, you will naturally draw a circle for yourself. You can only stay in this circle and can't break through.

Many times, perhaps only by giving up something first can we get something else. For example, if you throw away your old clothes, you will have an extra cupboard to put your new clothes in. If you remove the extra things in the room, you will feel that the room is not so small. If you keep your desk drawer clean at all times, you can handle the study tasks and work items at hand more calmly. If you often clean the folders and recycle bin in your computer, you will be more familiar with all kinds of files.

Breaking up often means abandoning clutter, giving up unnecessary, and then keeping it simple and tidy. Empty the desks, wardrobes and drawers that you can often get, and leave some space and places to put those important but often messy to-do items at any time.