12-year-old children dawdle and beat and scold some homework, which is useless. How to solve it?

How to educate children if they don't do their homework and abuse doesn't work? 1, homework = boring.

Why are children addicted to playing games? The answer is to get immediate positive feedback! For example, as long as you concentrate, you can improve your skills, achieve success, get rewards, and get a sense of accomplishment and joy.

Homework is not like this. When you do your homework, you can't get immediate feedback. It can only be reflected in the test scores, and the test cycle is very long, which makes it impossible to see feedback immediately and it is not easy for children to feel involved! Slowly, you will feel that doing homework is boring, boring and useless, and it doesn't matter whether you write or not.

Countermeasures: Set up instant feedback to help children find the fun of doing homework! For example, I will help my children divide their homework into three easy-to-complete parts, each part takes 10 minutes, and reward a little star after completion. Children will have a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction after getting the little star through their own efforts.

Collect 20 stars and exchange them for rewards, such as a fairy tale book, or play in a children's playground. This kind of reward is obtained by children through their own efforts, which will cultivate children to strive to improve their own concepts. Such children will become better and better in the future!

2, homework = too tired!

Some children do their homework without organization and reasonable arrangement, which will lead to very tired homework process. I don't understand the principle of doing simple first, then doing difficult. At the beginning of homework, doing difficult things will hurt your self-confidence and consume a lot of energy. In the end, even the simple ones were not completed well, which greatly dampened the enthusiasm, and finally caused resistance to homework and even weariness of learning.

Without homework organization, children will be very tired and tired in the process of doing homework, and a link of homework = fatigue will be established in their brains. If they feel tired of homework after a long time, it will become more and more serious.

Countermeasures: teach children the principle of efficient homework, which is easy first and difficult later. Split the homework into simple and easy-to-complete tasks by splitting method. Stick to the split method 1 week or so, and you will see obvious results! Many families I have helped have seen obvious results.

3, homework = too difficult.

Some children, with poor understanding and digestion of knowledge, can't skillfully mobilize knowledge and complete homework when writing homework, so they will establish links in their brains that are too difficult for homework!

Countermeasures: Obviously, if this is the problem, parents will hurt their children by beating, scolding and yelling if they don't help their children have a meeting that they can't have. The children will be too innocent and wronged!

Patiently help children find out problems, help them to understand and digest again, or ask others for help and change different educational methods. In short, a principle will not change, children can find a sense of accomplishment, and then interest will be stimulated!