How can we make a person refuse to borrow money without offending others?

There is a good saying: it is not difficult to borrow again after borrowing and returning. It is normal for relatives and friends to borrow money for turnover, but it is also a risky thing. Nobody's money comes from the wind. You must be careful when lending money to others, but you don't know how to refuse until you give it to others. Rejecting others is naturally the best. In addition, life is like a play, but also depends on acting, anti-customer, and so on. If it really doesn't work, just refuse, because others think you refuse for any reason. It's better to be direct

1, decline others.

When someone comes to borrow money and you don't want to lend it to others, then it is the best choice for you to refuse others. Even after others speak, you should show reluctance, say that you are also short of money recently, and say that you will have any big expenses recently. And you will also feel nervous about your situation. After the other party learned of this situation, he was naturally embarrassed to chase you to borrow money again.

2, anti-customer-oriented.

Don't want to borrow money, but you are afraid of refusing embarrassment? Then it is better to be an anti-customer-oriented person than to refuse the request of others to borrow money. When others don't ask you for money, or after you know their intentions, turn around and ask others for money first, and talk about where you want to spend your money recently. And block the other person's mouth first to make him embarrassed to ask you about borrowing money, so as not to offend others.

3. Performance time.

Everyone knows that you have money, so they will lend you money, and it is not good for you to speak directly. Then, at this time, you can change your target. Just tell your friends that all your money is under the care of your wife. It is difficult for you to use some money at ordinary times, and you need your wife's permission to borrow money. Then discuss with your wife in advance and deliberately make things difficult for yourself when you call, so that friends will not be embarrassed again.

In fact, no matter how you refuse others, there are two possibilities in others' eyes. One is that the other party can understand your psychology of not borrowing money, and the other is that you think? Rich and heartless? Psychology. We can't do it for everyone, but we must have a clear conscience!