How to be a gentle woman

I haven't written my female series for a long time. The little dolphin will talk about the gentleness of women today. It is often said that a woman is as gentle as water. In fact, the gentleness of women is the best ornament and jewelry for women, and it is the best interpretation for women! Sister Lin is gentle enough that Baoyu loves her to death. In Half-Life, Man Zhen is gentle enough, Ruby Lin is gentle enough, and the image of a girl is eternal, and Angie Chiu is gentle enough and has a long flowering period! Lin Chi-ling is gentle enough, her voice can charm people, and Yang Lan is gentle enough, always so intellectual and emotional!

In fact, every woman has a gentle side, but some circumstances and life make her unable to show her gentle side. There is no perfect woman in the world! ! ! ! !

They all say: a good woman is a school. Then, the gentleness of a woman is more important than the grace of a man. Gentleness is a wet light rain, stretching a dry heart like branches and leaves in spring. The gentleness of a woman has the effect of turning an enemy into jade.

1. Gentleness: When you talk in the office, your colleagues across from you can't hear your voice except those who should listen. Over time, you can learn to speak softly, and that kind of tenderness will naturally show up.

Second, be careful: keep in mind the hobbies and habits of friends, family and colleagues, carefully observe everyone ten times a day from beginning to end, and train the ability of careful observation.

Third, profound knowledge: in addition to knowing what women need to know, such as football, cars, politics, stocks, computers, the Internet and other common sense, they should also have a wide range of knowledge, so don't worry about language barriers.

Fourth, considerate: know how to be considerate of men; When a man sells coolies to you, you have to say to yourself ten times, "This is very hard."

Five, coquetry: this is a woman's killer, winning a man to be a hero with a charming voice.

6.Pose: Remember the word "small"-speak in a low voice, with small steps, small movements, and small reactions, plus the coquetry of a naive girl's little woman.

Seven, cute: watch more cartoons, keep a "childlike innocence", and judge and analyze everything from the child's point of view, cute.

Eight, generous: not stingy, not jealous, not gossiping, not losing his temper, never saying "no".

Ix. Independence: When you are alone, you don't need to pick up and drop off, you can handle your own affairs and be responsible for your own mistakes. I am happy to have a man's love; I am happy without a man's love. Such a woman is most loved by men!

In fact, it is also very difficult to be a gentle woman. Women are born with a small temper and a little jealous. So even if you love a man very much, you will be unreasonable in front of him, get angry in front of him, and say something hurtful regardless of his feelings.

Love him, give him all your tenderness, relieve him when he is sad, comfort him when he is sad, bless him when he is happy, and care for him when he is weak. Don't blame him, don't force him, set him free. Always remember: No matter how difficult the road ahead is, we must love each other and never give up.

Of course, a woman's gentleness is not obedience,

A gentle woman, first of all, should be a person with her own thoughts, knowledge, filial piety to the elderly, love for children and consideration for her husband.

Gentle women will be very independent, pay more attention to appearance and care about their image in others' hearts;

Gentle women will remember the birthdays of old people, often call them (not in a city) or often visit them;

Gentle women understand children's psychology, be children's friends, give children a healthy body and mind, and a positive, relaxed and happy learning environment;

A gentle woman can treat her boyfriend, colleagues and friends correctly, save face for her boyfriend and give him some space in front of colleagues, friends and family. A gentle woman will send her husband a cup of hot tea and a considerate greeting after work.

A gentle woman will understand humility and tolerance in a measured and principled way. It would be better if a gentle woman could cook well.

Men are made of mud and women are made of water. When a man comes back from the outside and is covered with dust, a woman can help him wash away the dust from the inside out and give him a pure and clear heart with the same gentleness as water. Therefore, a woman's tenderness is a kind of love from the inside out, a place that reminds men and makes men feel warm.

Keep a tolerant heart and a calm mind. When a man is tired outside for a day, a gentle look, a caring greeting and a caring gesture will often make him forget all his fatigue and troubles.

He was exhausted after a busy day, but in order to accompany you, he stayed up late at night just to make you happy. And you think he doesn't care about you enough, doesn't understand you enough, and is cold to him.

In fact, sometimes you are angry with him because you care too much about him. After making him angry, you will regret it, because when you are sad, there are family and friends to enlighten you, but he has no one to tell you, so you can only be sad alone, so you take the initiative to find him every time you are angry, just to not give up on him. At that time, you secretly decided to be a gentle woman.

In fact, he loves you. When you are disheartened, think about the first time you met. At that time, he waited for you early every day, leaving you messages and sending you countless affectionate messages every day. When you are sad, he said: hug, don't be sad, always accompany you. He will laugh with you when you are happy. He is a patient listener when you tell stories around him. No matter how late it is, as long as you call, he will wake up from his sleep and accompany you without complaint. Aren't these small feelings enough to express his love?

So, if you really love him, please hold up a bright sky for him and give him a gentle harbor, because men are sometimes fragile, and they sometimes need your care and care like children. They are always harder to get along with than women. They are tough in appearance and may have many unspeakable difficulties in their hearts. So you have to impress him with your tenderness, understand him, and let him have a place to heal after his injury.

Love him, give him all your tenderness, relieve him when he is sad, comfort him when he is sad, bless him when he is happy, and care for him when he is weak. Don't blame him, don't force him, set him free. Always remember: No matter how difficult the road ahead is, we must love each other and never give up.

If you love him, be considerate of him and be his lover and friend. Care about him as much as he cares about you; Worry about him as much as he worries about you; Love him as he loves you. Don't blame him blindly, but understand and care for each other and connect your heart with his.