Golden sentences for educating children

Golden sentences for educating children

As the parents of their children's first teacher, in fact, every move of their parents has a great influence on their children. It is better to say a few golden sentences than to tell children some incomprehensible truths. This article is to share the golden sentence of educating children.

Please say this when cultivating children's virtue.

1, the courage to admit mistakes is the real courage.

2. Avoiding responsibility is not a good boy's performance.

Don't make excuses, you will make progress next time.

If you lie, others will no longer believe you.

It is not a good boy's behavior to talk big.

6. How can you break your promise?

7. Share something with others, and others will share his things with you.

Everyone needs help, so you shouldn't just think about yourself.

9. Polite children are very likable.

10, you are a big boy, you can't bully your little brother or sister.

1 1, it is a good boy to forgive others on his own initiative.

12, you should take the initiative to help others when they are inconvenient.

13, take care of public health and don't throw things around.

14, wasting things is the most shameful thing.

15, it is not easy for you to correct it in time.

Second, please say this when you summon up your child's courage.

16, you are completely qualified.

17, don't be afraid, try again.

18, don't worry, you will do well.

19, don't be discouraged, mom supports you.

20. You have made great progress recently. Stick to it and you will succeed.

2 1, you have always been brave, I believe you.

22. We trust you, and you will handle this matter well.

23. Son, you should make up your mind.

24. Learn to face it when you grow up.

Don't be afraid, do it according to your own ideas.

It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you do something wrong.

27. It's not difficult as long as you do it.

Let's overcome the difficulties together, shall we?

No one will look down on you as long as you are willing to work hard.

The result is not the most important, what matters is that you have gained experience.

3 1, it doesn't matter, you have done a good job in ...

32. No one is perfect, and you have something to envy.

33. Failure is the mother of success.

Third, cultivate children's good habits, please say so.

34. If you have an opinion in your heart, say it to your face.

35. In any case, hitting people is wrong.

36. Ask if you don't understand.

37. Do your best.

38. If you don't do things seriously, you will be slower than others.

39. Finish the important things first, and then do other things.

40. Think it over.

4 1, be a clean child, others will like you.

42. Children who know how to cherish time are the cleverest.

43. Children who love reading have a bright future.

Stealing money from home is a bad behavior.

45. Put away your toys after you use them.

46. Get up on time and go to bed on time.

Do more exercise and grow taller and stronger.

48. Eating snacks alone will make you yellow and thin.

49. Don't read while lying down.

50. Play after you finish your homework.

The correct way to educate children is to respect their "sophistry"-feedback effect.

Whenever parents point out their children's mistakes, children always find many reasons to prove their innocence. At this time, parents generally call their children's behavior "sophistry" angrily. In fact, this is not sophistry, but a kind of feedback from children to their parents' education.

Education is a two-way street. Parents should not only teach, but also accept children's feedback, so that education can achieve the most perfect effect. However, many parents are not aware of this. They just "teach" themselves and don't care about their children's information feedback. Such education often fails to achieve the purpose that parents want.

Method 2: Analyze and respect children's feedback.

When children give feedback on our education, we must first analyze this feedback. Of course, this analysis is not only aimed at children's language, but also includes children's movements and expressions.

But it deserves parents' attention. It's important to respect children's feedback, whether it's sophistry or not. In the above-mentioned educational cases, when the children tell the reason why "the children in our class say so", the mother yells at the children without analyzing their feedback. Is this a sign of disrespect for children's feedback? Therefore, the mother doesn't know that the feedback from the child is really good-she doesn't think "you are so stupid" is a dirty word.

It is conceivable that parents misunderstand and suppress their children's feedback. In the long run, children will never give positive feedback to their mothers' education. Without children's cooperation, parents can't educate their children.

Method 3: Educate children purposefully according to their feedback.

When analyzing the problems of children's feedback, parents can carry out purposeful education on children's feedback. For example, if children don't know the importance of politeness when giving feedback, parents will never do it again. They can tell their children the importance of being polite through examples and reasons, and guide them to be polite children. If the child's feedback is that he doesn't want to know the responsibility caused by the recent wrong words and deeds, parents should encourage the child to be a person who knows his mistakes and corrects them.

In short, no matter what feedback children have on their parents' education, respecting and analyzing children's feedback is the primary prerequisite for achieving educational goals.

Method 4: Family education should not be inconsistent-Watch Theorem

Psychologists have done an experiment: give a person a watch, and when someone asks him the time, he can tell it quickly and confidently; However, when the man got two different watches, the watchmaker could not know the time quickly. Because two watches can't tell a person a more accurate time, on the contrary, it will make people who look at the watch lose confidence in the accurate time. Psychologists call this phenomenon "watch phenomenon", and draw a conclusion that there can only be one guiding principle or value orientation in doing things. Later, people called this conclusion "Watch Theorem".