Why Sister-in-law has a bad relationship (Analysis of Sister-in-law's Seven Disagreements)

After marrying into a rich family, it is not only the mother-in-law but also the sister-in-law relationship that tests women's wisdom! Of course, there are still mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who get along well (especially when the enemy is the mother-in-law), but if there is unfair treatment between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will be more friction in getting along.

The establishment of sister-in-law relationship

Sister-in-law comes from two completely different families. Before marriage, her life was zero intersection, she didn't know each other, and she didn't have any emotional foundation. However, after entering the marriage, she was forced to become a' family'. It is not easy to be promoted to' one of our own', and this relationship is very harmonious and greatly influenced by in-laws.

Sister-in-law, life has no intersection, lacks emotional foundation, and is prone to various contradictions and comparisons. As a daughter-in-law, husband, or elder sister-in-law, how can you be smart?

Sister-in-law is the biggest key to get along with seven situations.

In-laws often compare their sisters-in-law, even if they don't say it, they usually make a comparison silently. Frankly speaking, parents will be partial to their children, not to mention the daughter-in-law who has no blood.

1. Salary and working ability

There are many women with strong working ability, high natural social status and good salary. If there is such a person between sister-in-law, the husband's family will usually prefer it, and the other sister-in-law may be more stressed.

2. Have a job or not?

Sister-in-law, a daughter-in-law at work, will naturally be considered by her in-laws. If the other is a stay-at-home wife, she will also be expected to take care of the family. After all, for them, another daughter-in-law' works all day'!

3. Is your mouth sweet?

In-laws pay special attention to their daughter-in-law's concern, but say hello, eat, sleep, get sick, chat and so on. It's all actions that my in-laws care about. When one of them does these things and the other doesn't, it will affect their state to some extent!

4. How much is the dowry

Traditionally, dowry represents the status and value of daughter-in-law, and also affects the value and future of women in marriage. In the face of a daughter-in-law who has no blood and emotional foundation, it is inevitable that her in-laws will be measured by dowry.

5. Inheritance of fragrance

Up to now, many in-laws still hold the traditional concept of continuing incense and expect entry-level daughter-in-law to add men to their families. As long as one of the sisters-in-law gets her son first, the other will be urged to work harder. But what my in-laws don't know is that having a boy or a girl is determined by their son's chromosome!

6. Property distribution

Usually this is also a major concern of my sister-in-law. For example, my in-laws try their best to help one of their sons start a business, and the redistribution of the rest of the family property will inevitably make another daughter-in-law feel unfair to her son, resulting in a bitter struggle.

Three ways to get along with sisters-in-law.

Mind method 1: find out the mode suitable for each other.

When you first get married, you should observe the interaction between your sister-in-law and your in-laws, understand your personality, habits and ways of getting along, and let yourself get along with each other without offending each other or being rude.

Mind method 2: a little sticky but not too sticky.

Sister-in-law comes from different families, and it is quite difficult to change from a stranger to one of our own. It is suggested that we can keep the beauty of some distance, understand each other's advantages and disadvantages, be close but not too close, and give each other support and help in life, so as to gradually integrate into sister-in-law love.

Mind method 3: flexible response

Sister-in-law doesn't get along well, but remember, nothing can't be changed, but nothing must be changed. After all, the problem at home is that it takes two hands to make a sound, sometimes it's in-laws, sometimes it's uncles and sisters-in-law, not entirely their own problem! Do what you can change, what you can't change, let nature take its course, and try not to be affected by trivial matters, so as to maintain a good demeanor in the love between brothers and sisters.