What's the next sentence for eating with short hands and soft lips?

The next sentence "short hands and soft lips" means hitting people without hitting their faces, exposing people without exposing their shortcomings.

There's a saying in China that if you take advantage of others, you will be courteous, even if they have shortcomings or mistakes, you dare not say so, and you don't care. Eat the benefits of others and put in a good word for them when necessary; If you take someone else's things, don't touch them again. The extended meaning is that if you accept the benefits of others, you must help others.

There is also a saying that eating people is soft-spoken and short-minded.

If you take something from others, you owe them a favor, and you should do something good for them in return. If you don't accept other people's gifts, you will make them feel that you look down on him and don't give him face. We should learn that if we refuse politely, we will be led by others' small favors. Or accept it this time, and we will return the gift in the same way next time.