Why do some mothers become dumb when they talk?

I believe that many treasure mothers have such doubts:

My baby is glib at home and keeps asking "100 thousand why" However, a second out of the door seems to be a different person.

"If you meet someone and refuse to say hello, hiding behind me is to bow your head and not talk." "Kindergarten teachers often tell me that they are timid and refuse to talk, but they are obviously good at home."

"At the critical moment, my baby always falls off the chain."

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At home, he is a gossip and bully, and he becomes timid and dumb when he goes out; Such a two-faced baby makes the old mothers very helpless!

Why are you talking outside, son? In fact, a key reason for this phenomenon is that they can't overcome their inner obstacles.

Perhaps in our opinion, it is very simple to greet strangers and communicate with other children at school, but it takes a lot of courage for Eva.

They will be afraid that they will be laughed at if they don't speak well, that they can't answer questions well, and that teachers don't like themselves. ...

Don't say it's a baby. As adults, we actually have such troubles. Therefore, what we have to do is to help them overcome this psychological barrier.

What can mom do? In fact, many children are naturally cautious about the new environment. In the preschool years, it is especially difficult for more introverted and conservative children.

Because the world they face is expanding rapidly. Even a particularly confident child may become shy when faced with unexpected situations.

Let children know the world by themselves.

Often taking children out to contact with the world around them can continuously expand their horizons and gradually generate rich perceptual knowledge about some things, thus promoting the development of children's sensory organs, language, thinking and observation.

"Son, slow down, slow down, gently tie your shoelaces into a bow with your little finger, slow down, slow down, and do something meaningful with your wonderful time!"

2 actively encourage children to take the initiative to try.

Correct evaluation and proper praise and encouragement can stimulate children's self-confidence and self-esteem and give full play to their potential.

Psychologically speaking, if a person thinks he is stupid, then he must play dumb; If he thinks he can do it, he will do it well.

Encourage children to feel that they can, guide them to discover their own advantages, improve their self-confidence and let them express themselves bravely.

The outside world is attractive and unknown to children; As parents, we should not only give our children a sense of security psychologically, but also help them explore this beautiful world. Step by step to lead children to know the bigger world.

Let children feel safe not only at home, but also in the outside world. Let the children be themselves confidently outside!