What do you think of people who speak directly?

I think it's good. If you have something to say, it is most important to communicate clearly, because it is too easy to lead to all kinds of misunderstandings if you don't say it. I am a direct speaker. According to my personality, I will tell my friends around me. If what I said hurts you, you must tell me directly. I will also review whether I speak directly or sarcastically (according to my own situation). Think for a few seconds before you speak. It's good that what I say can make others laugh. I am also studying.

I didn't dare to ask others sharp questions before, because I was afraid of ruining the relationship, but later I found that after a long time, the indirect answers were sometimes really much worse, wasting time. Life is so short, why not be direct? My biggest fear is guessing. As a result, time has passed, but the information is seriously asymmetrical. But if it is a personal sensitive issue, we should also pay attention to our own discretion.

For example, the imperative tone is easy to give people a sense of oppression, saying too much. For example, if someone spits everywhere, you don't have to jump out and say, "Pick up the phlegm for me to eat!" " "He said gently," Sir, there is a trash can over there, and it is not easy for aunt to sweep the floor every day. Can you throw up here? "Thank you." Pass him a pack of tissues by the way. Euphemistic tone can put away "degree" reasonably.

In the past, I liked to use words like absolute and guarantee to emphasize my tone infinitely, and sometimes I would say, "Don't worry, I promise I will help you get this done." I am sure. " But it turned out that the more perfect this statement was, the louder my face slammed. So I stopped using these absolute words later. Even if I was 99% sure that I could do something well, I would still say, "I should be able to, and I will try my best." Even if the probability of a thing happening is very small, it will be close to the inevitable event if it is repeated many times. Therefore, talking less will definitely make your speech more reasonable.