Who was right and who was wrong in the first half of my life?

From the beginning of freshman semester, I often listen to my classmates discuss my first half of my life, and many people around me stay up late to brush. After waiting for so long, I'm already a sophomore. I only watched more than a dozen episodes in this eleventh holiday, but I learned a lot from them and had many feelings.

Seeing dressed as Chen, I especially want to use the word "good-natured" to describe him, whether it is appropriate or not.

Successful career, happy family, harmonious wife and children. In the eyes of many men, he is already a winner in life. But how many people know that behind the fame and fortune, how many efforts are not recognized, and how many men are bitter and bitter.

Now I have seen Chen and Lingling's unfortunate marriage, but I have never questioned whether it is wrong for him to divorce Luo Zijun. Imagine a woman who blindly needs your meticulous protection, a woman who can't share the ups and downs of her career with you, and a silly girl who can only shop by credit card. One day, won't you be bored?

After the divorce, Zijun's attitude towards Chen is worthy of every woman's respect. It's really sad to be abandoned, but you can't live on the help of others forever. Every misfortune in your life, or the next lucky start, is not just talk. You can do it.

Looking at Luo Zijun's every breakthrough and growth, I secretly thank Chen who abandoned her. It is better not to be Mrs. Chen, because Mrs. Chen, who looks glamorous, has a poor soul and was not as good as Lingling.

No matter how good life is, don't you have to scrimp and save? I think Lingling is a virtuous and capable woman. As she and Chen said, "I am the wife you married back to live with." After many years in Chen Xing, she worked dutifully. When she married Chen, she was still thinking about her family. You don't have to scold her for being selfish, stealing other people's husbands and destroying other people's families. She asked her son to go to the winter camp in America and Pinger to go to the winter camp in Shanghai for 8,000 yuan. She asked her in-laws to take Pinger to live next door ... As a halfway couple, who would do it without selfishness? Although she did some selfish things, she did not harm the interests of others in essence. Women, there is nothing wrong with wanting to make their family better and maintain a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. Such a woman is worthy of respect if you think about it carefully.

Poor Cheng Feng, in the face of all kinds of great love, Xue is the most real, and she shows her love for her loved ones incisively and vividly. After watching the drama for so long, I couldn't help crying after Xue's mother died. In the impression of most people, the old lady is very busy every day and has to intervene in everything. For the sake of her two daughters, she never cares about her face. She begged her son-in-law Chen and scolded him. She begged Tang Jing, she looked for He Han, and she scolded Bai Guang. I run for her and their happiness every day and never get tired! The old lady's life can be said to be ups and downs. Her daughter got married, divorced, remarried, misunderstood ... She was worried about her daughter's happiness a second before she closed her eyes. Who can say that her every move is wrong? What impressed me the most was what she said: a woman sometimes depends on a little man. I am too inexperienced to understand her words deeply, but I will always remember to prove right and wrong bit by bit in the days to come. The poor inherit the wind, so please try to understand and appreciate their selfless dedication before they do something we can't understand, and don't wait too late.

There is no doubt that He Han and Tang Jing are the same kind of people. Even if they are not together, they have too much in common. Maybe we know each other too well to be together. Some people say that the three views are consistent, and the right collocation is the best collocation. I'm not married, so I can't say it's right or wrong. But I can say that it may be more interesting to be with different people. In the face of love, you should put aside all rules and regulations, just like He Han, be a true self, ask yourself, be brave, in case you succeed! Otherwise, the love kidnapped by common sense will not last long, just like their ten years, isn't it vulnerable? Be a man once, why deceive yourself?

I didn't watch the whole play, but I have benefited a lot. I don't watch TV dramas often, but it's not easy to see the quality and value. My life journey has not gone far. I hope I can always be true, manage my life with my heart, and be a woman with a different style after divorce like Luo Zijun.