Thinking about the problem from the other person’s perspective can often solve many problems.

Some people often say that they should think about the problem from the other person’s perspective, but many people just talk about it and do not fully understand the meaning of this sentence. They also do not understand why they should put themselves in the other person’s perspective. Think about the problem from a different perspective.

I was confused about this sentence at first, until one day when I was practicing volleyball with my classmates, I suddenly understood the meaning of this sentence. Take volleyball as an example. I didn’t really get into volleyball until I was in college. I had only watched it on TV before. There was a TV series "Volleyball Girls" that made me fall in love with volleyball.

When I was in college, I joined the college's volleyball team. It would be very frustrating for my teammates to practice with me, especially when playing against each other. I didn't think about where to put the ball at all, I just thought that it was enough to put the ball over, and I didn't need to worry too much about anything else. They also teach me how to pad, but the technology has not improved much. A few months passed like this, and one night I suddenly figured out why it was so tiring for my teammates to play with me, because I didn't consider the problem from my teammates' perspective. To be more specific, I have no idea when I pass the ball. I just hit it wherever it goes. Sometimes it is close to my teammates, sometimes it is far away, and it is just difficult to catch the ball.

One night, I somehow came up with the idea of ??looking at the problem from the opponent's perspective, and suddenly I understood how to play with my teammates. In other words, when you are playing with your teammates, what you have to think about is where you should hit the ball and at what height so that it is easier for your teammates to catch the ball. , rather than playing ball completely unstructured. Only in this way can you cushion the ball well and your level will improve.

In fact, this sentence is very reasonable and has guiding significance in our life, work, study, etc. At work, you often take it for granted that you have just completed the work assigned to you, regardless of quality. But if you think about the problem from the perspective of your colleagues who are going to work with you, or from the perspective of your superiors, your status at work should be what should I do, so that they can respond to the work you do? Quick and good understanding, instead of asking them to take a lot of documents you made and have to summarize them and find key points.

But when you consider the problem from the other person's perspective, on the one hand, your requirements for yourself will be different; on the other hand, the people you work with will feel that you make their work easier. And your own abilities are constantly improved in this kind of thinking.

When someone rejects you, put yourself in their perspective and you may understand why they rejected you without letting yourself fall into a depressed or angry state.

This is the first time I write about my feelings on the Internet, and there are still many shortcomings. I hope everyone can communicate more and make progress together.