Girls had better not marry far away, because the risk is too great.

Some time ago, my friend met a difficult thing. Her relationship with her boyfriend was rejected by her family. The reason is very simple. The man's home is too far away, and parents don't want his daughter to marry far away. Because of this incident, my friend has been overwhelmed recently. Today, let's talk about why most people are opposed to distant marriage.

to tell the truth, I really don't recommend marrying far away for girls, because the dedication is too high.

First of all, it is the risk on the husband's side. If he firmly chooses you, you and his family will give priority to your feelings. As long as he understands you, cares for you and tolerates you, his attitude determines the attitude of his family and gives you the atmosphere of your family together, then your long marriage is still meaningful.

As long as your husband is a little negligent, or if you have a bad relationship after marriage, you will have a very painful life. If your husband is not firm, or depends on his parents, listens to their family's opinions in everything, and has no opinion of his own, then your life will certainly not be easy.

I'm not saying that if you marry far away, you will be unhappy. It's just that there are many variables. If you and your husband are both excellent and have a good economic foundation, you can take your parents to a place, then you can solve the problem and live a high-quality life. It's equally comfortable everywhere, so you can ignore the rule of marrying far away.

In fact, everyone can substitute themselves into the role of parents. There is only one or two children in the family. If your daughter marries far away, will you?

Without your mother's family, there will be no backing. You need to rely on yourself every step in the future. If you are wronged, you have nowhere to say. If you are in trouble, your mother's family can't help you. Even if you quarrel, you will have nowhere to go. Isn't it sad?

If you are close to your family, even if you are wronged, you can go back to your family immediately, and your family will protect you.

if you get married far away, no one will protect you unconditionally.

In the end, you will find that only family members can be reliable and warm each other. It really takes great courage to get married far away, because you have to endure unimaginable loneliness.

For example, during Chinese New Year or festivals, it is inconvenient for you to go back to your parents' home, so you will feel lonely. When your parents have something to do and you are late, when your family needs you and you can't go home, it doesn't mean that the other person is right or not. Even if the other person is good to you, there will be regrets.

In this world, the people who care about you the most have no one but their parents, and they also hate you to suffer outside.

Therefore, it is better for girls not to marry far away, because the risk is too great.