Why do children hate writing?

Children don't like writing, even hate writing, which is the biggest headache for parents. Because words are like people, words are the second face of people. Generally speaking, it will affect a person's self-confidence, sense of value and sense of accomplishment. As for writing, the influence on students' learning is not a little. If you don't like writing, it's hard to like homework and composition, and you won't have real enthusiasm for writing-related learning. Poor handwriting, lost test paper, junior high school entrance examination, senior high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, suffered a big loss all the way. Is it because your child doesn't like writing naturally, so he can't write well? Obviously not. We believe that every child is born to like writing and has the ability and enthusiasm to write well. It is the external incorrect requirements and restrictions on children, which obliterates or even stifles children's writing enthusiasm.

First, practice writing by force. Anything forced or forced is anti-human, and the result is bound to be counterproductive. The same is true of writing. Respect children, respect children's right to choose, decide and be independent, start with interest guidance, mobilize the enthusiasm and enthusiasm of writing, and let children think that he volunteered to write. Pay attention to, affirm, encourage and appreciate children's active writing behavior in time, enhance children's sense of value and motivation, and then enjoy writing and develop self-awareness, voluntariness and autonomy. Preaching, reasoning, persistence and perseverance are useless. Only what you like will persist.

Second, punitive calligraphy. Writing is fun, and if it becomes a punishment, it will fundamentally cut off children's interest in writing. Imagine, when you are enjoying a delicious meal, if someone says: I will punish you to finish it. How will you feel at this time? The delicious food suddenly changed its taste and became something difficult to swallow. In the same way, is it stupid to punish children for copying a word ten times and twenty times?

Third, stress hardship. Writing is an interesting fingertip game, dancing on paper. Writing and dancing with ink will make people enjoy it and indulge in it. Otherwise, how can there be so many calligraphers throughout the ages? It is precisely because Chinese characters naturally have their own aesthetic feeling, and writing has endless changes, artistry and creativity that people are fascinated and happy. Why bother? It is completely inexplicable to emphasize suffering.