A letter from her mother-in-law educating her daughter-in-law

Mother-in-law is a n experienced person. Where her daughter-in-law doesn't do well in life, her mother-in-law will inevitably educate her daughter-in-law. Below I have compiled a letter to educate my daughter-in-law. Welcome to read it. A letter to educate daughter-in-law:

Child:

Thank you. Mom knows that you are tired and it is not easy for you to take care of children. The burden you bear is both the greatness of a woman and the beauty of a woman. You are the best in my mind. You are a good child. My mother loves you and loves you. You are my son's favorite in the family, and at the same time, you are also my favorite in my mind. I am honored to be your mother. Now you and your babies are a part of my life, just like fingers, so-called ten fingers linked to one another. Although I am in Changchun, my heart has always followed you around, and I can't make myself stranded. Family ties are the center of human flesh and blood, and they are the connection of blood and veins. < P > I haven't let you go for a day since Yinchuan returned to Changchun. You are my heart, the descendants of all life origins, and you bear the heavy responsibility of family prosperity. Mom is proud of you.

Mom is happy to be your mother. In the future, I will drive my son, daughter-in-law, granddaughter and grandson to work and go to school. Hehe, I will make progress with you, carry forward the virtues inherited by my parents, and repay the society through diligence and entrepreneurship.

son, mom wants to tell you; ? I love you? I have three children in this world; What are the three children? Son, daughter-in-law and Cui Yin "You are irreplaceable in my mind, just like a soft nose hanging in the seven orifices and never giving up. Sometimes I am very excited, excited that there are so many children calling me mom one by one. Some people say; ? How long is maternal love? At present, no scientist has given a final conclusion of the data. I want to tell my children that my love for you is like the blood vessels in the human body, which only go back and forth without a beginning and end.

Motherly love is infinite, as explained by physical commentators; ? Mother is a lamp, burning itself to illuminate others?

Child: It's almost the Mid-Autumn Festival. I wish you and your family a happy Mid-Autumn Festival in advance. Oh, boy, someone called your mother on your knees, too. Oh, congratulations, you are a great mother. I am happy and proud of you. Every mother's day in the future will have my blessing for you. At the same time, I want to ask you something. Please teach the song and lyrics of "Little Mother Kneeling" to your babies, so that they can know how to appreciate their mother's kindness and love their families from an early age. A person who knows how to love his relatives and his family will know how to love his compatriots and his country, so that he will not become the scum of society. Everyone is a piece of material, they are in your hands, and your only task is to make them into tools.

why? ? Parents are children's first teachers? This link accounts for two-thirds of the whole growth education. Therefore, how well you can educate your children also represents your personal happiness index.

the significance of parents' feeling happy is not only the satisfaction of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but more importantly, it is most important for children to become useful talents in society? . So I give you the lyrics of the lamb kneeling on its mother as a gift. Please accept it, my baby. Mom has nothing valuable for you. This is the only thing. Besides, there is nothing to give you. And there is this heart that loves you. Motherly love is eternal.

　? The lamb kneels to feed, closes its eyes and sucks its mother's liquor, feels grateful for its mother's kindness, receives the breast and respects its body, and falls to the ground on its knees, with a gesture like salute. The lamb's nature makes sense, and there is no hesitation in filial piety on earth.

once you have abundant plumage, don't abandon it. If your father is ill, it's because of your child's overwork, and your mother is worried, but it's because you are worried about your child. How many clouds wander in dreams, rushing about the future far away from home. Parents lean on the window sash and look forward to the news of their children. Their faces are getting old, so they can't repay their parents when they repent.

How many floating clouds are wandering in dreams, rushing to distant villages, parents leaning against the window sash, waiting for news of their children, how many weathered parents are getting old, and they can't repay their parents when they repent. As a child, you should think about the source of drinking water. Complete life, be filial and innocent. Dear children, no matter where you are, give your parents a thank you. ?

children; This song has touched me countless times and reminded me of my mother and father countless times. I have the love of my parents in the world and the love of my children and grandchildren in the world. I am very happy. I am the happiest person in the world. I am very satisfied. Children; Because of you in my world, I am glad that I love you, and I also love your lover and your babies. I was afraid that you would be lost, so I hid you in my heart.

love your mother.

a letter to educate my daughter-in-law on September 7

Dear daughter-in-law:

Hello!

on the eve of your new family with my son, I hope we can exchange views on some related issues for the sake of stability and unity of the extended family in the next few years.

1. Economic problems:

1. My son graduated from a prestigious school. Now it seems that even if he changes jobs, he basically doesn't have to worry about economic problems. His annual income is over 4,. I think, according to Beijing's current living standard, you two should have enough life without paying the loan and rent. This plan is based on your not working.

If you have a job you like, I am happy for you;

If you have a well-paid job, I will be more proud of you and your quality of life will be improved accordingly.

If you don't have a job, I don't have any opinions. It's natural for a man to support his family. Just have fun. As a mother-in-law, I am very supportive.

2. As old people, we will not reach out to you in the future. We have worked hard for most of our lives, and the money we earn is enough for our own expenses. At this point, don't bother. I hope you will use all your income to build your small family, and the more beautiful it is, the better.

3. His father and I have raised him for more than 2 years, but we don't want anything in return, and we don't need your living expenses or anything. But we will not provide any financial support for your future life. I hope you can be self-reliant and live happily.

4. Your family raised you, so you should be grateful. Your family didn't raise my son, so please don't expect him to give back to your family.

if he is willing to take corresponding responsibilities based on his love for you and respect for your family, I understand and support him very much. But his father and I will not have any financial help, please understand this.

Of course, if your family is stronger than ours, we won't ask for any financial help from your family. We mean it.

5. Our assets and securities will be made by a lawyer and notarized by a notary office, and we will put the inheritance in the names of our son and grandson. When the son is not alive and the grandchildren are under 2 years old, this part of the funds will be entrusted by a special person and supervised by a lawyer. You won't have access to our assets. Of course, you have the right to live in our house. I hope you will support our decision. After all, all the money my son will earn in the future will be yours, and we won't miss it.

Second, the house problem:

1. We will provide the house where you live, and ensure that the commercial house is within the Fourth Ring Road and over 13 square meters, and the community facilities are perfect. If the purchase of the house is within a reasonable price range, try to give priority to your opinions. But your name will not be on the property ownership certificate, so please try not to receive your distant guests inside.

the decoration and home appliances will give you a budget of xx million. I hope you will feel sorry for us, save as much as possible, and be reimbursed at the invoice price. When decorating, we will try our best to control ourselves and not express any opinions, because I fully understand the possible aversion of my daughter-in-law to her mother-in-law's suggestions on decoration.

2. We will keep a set of keys in the house where you live, mainly to prepare for emergencies (such as water leakage and power failure) when you don't have your keys.

I swear to you with my personality that I will never enter the house where you live without your consent, and we will not visit you without saying hello.

3. You will also have a set of keys in the house where we live, with the same functions as above. You are always welcome to come, and you can do it at midnight or early morning.

4. in the future, if you buy your own house, we will offer a certain amount of congratulations to show your heart according to the situation, and we will not give any opinions other than what to say.

Third, the problem of daily relationship:

1. My son is my own and a continuation of my blood. I can't love you more than him. Please remember this.

But you are also the closest person to my wife except me and him, so when you have any conflict with outsiders (whether your relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues or relatives and friends from our family), I will resolutely stand by your side.

2. Please understand that no matter how bad my son is, he is always the lovely baby lying in the cradle and the naughty boy with muddy face in my eyes. And you are a mature and sensible girl as soon as you appear in my eyes, so I always feel that my son is easy to forgive. This is very embarrassing, but I think you will understand when you become a mother. I'll try my best to favor you when you have an argument (my son is biological and won't hold grudges), but please tell me as little as possible about that boy, okay?

3. My son was born to me. Before you get married, I will try my best to communicate with you objectively what I think of him, especially the shortcomings. But on the other hand, you picked the husband. After you get married, his ideological education work has nothing to do with me. Please make your own post-transformation. I won't help or obstruct it.

4. For you, after all, you are not my own daughter. I will respect you first.

I hope I can like you further.

If you have something I don't like or like, if it's none of my business, I'll shut up;

if it's my business, I'll try my best to exchange views with you gently. I hope we can get to know each other.

5. As for me, I hope you will respect me, and it would be better if you can like me. If I have something you don't like or like, if it's none of your business, please try to shut up; If it's your business, please don't express it in front of a third person, but choose to tell me directly when we are alone.

Fourth, daily life problems: After all, we are not a family, and we have no experience of living together, so there will always be bumps. I hope we can abide by the following principles:

1. We have a nanny at home, and the nanny is always at home, working, not afraid that no one will do it. So you don't have to work when you come to our house, but I think I will be very happy if you are willing to put chopsticks at dinner.

2. I don't care if there is a nanny in your home, but I won't help when we go to your home. If it's too much trouble for you, it's no problem for me to invite you out to dinner.

3. In our home, please observe our living habits and hygiene standards.

4. In your family, I will respect your life habits. If young people like it? What a mess? I'll pretend I can't see it. I won't make irresponsible remarks and tell you what to do.

5. On other occasions, I hope you can give me a way within a reasonable range, and if I do something annoying or inappropriate, you can just say so.

6. Please make the following arrangements for the four major festivals: Spring Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, May Day and November Day every year: if you are in our house the night before, please come to your mother's house on the right day; if you are in your mother's house the night before, please come to our house on the day of the festival. Round trip, fair arrangement.

5. Children's problems:

1. I don't want to take care of you when you have children in the future, mainly because the parturient is unstable and prone to bickering, which is not good if it hurts the gas. I'll hire you for a month, or a nanny. Please choose in advance and I'll pay for it. I will help with the shopping every other day. If you have any objection to the things and brands I buy, please make a list and I will buy them accordingly. If your mother is willing to take care of you, I'll hire the nanny and bear your mother's expenses.

2. I support breastfeeding, support children to take a bath every day, and support being younger?

but everything depends on your wishes. But I suggest you take the doctor's opinion as the most important thing.

3. I think the problem of children's education is the most likely to cause contradictions. On the premise that I admit that the final decision is in your hands, I hope we can fully discuss, consult experts, respect science, take safety as the premise, and cultivate a healthy and upright person.

a letter from XXX

xxxx.x.x educating daughter-in-law 3

Dear prospective daughter-in-law:

First of all, I want to thank you for preparing to marry my son. I can see that he is very happy, and I am equally happy for you. And I became your prospective mother-in-law, which is also a kind of fate. But after all, there is a lack of 2 years of nurturing and living with * * *, and it is difficult to be as considerate as a mother and daughter in a short time, but we all love the same man, and I am willing to be at peace with you for his happiness. If we can't be mother and daughter, we will be friends. Maybe this relationship can make us feel more relaxed and natural.

We understand your idea of living alone after marriage. Although I have been used to my son's life of going home every day for many years, I will feel a little lost and lonely. But that's the siege of your marriage, so you should run it by yourself. We will try our best to prepare for the down payment for your new home in the future, and the monthly installment will be repaid by you alone. We are not a rich family, but a working-class and ordinary worker's family, and we have to save enough money for our own retirement. You and my son are both only children, and we don't want to increase your burden in the future. When the old can't do anything, we have to rely on our savings to go to a nursing home or ask a nurse to take care of us.

Of course, my son has studied medicine and law. When we are old, we have to ask him something, hoping to get his care, so please understand our hearts. Dear daughter-in-law, you are an art student. You are an expert in designing and decorating the love cabin, running a family, and you are also a master. I will advise my son to leave your income to you. Under such an era background, your future survival pressure will be greater than ours. You must learn to arrange your income and expenditure reasonably, so that you will not panic if you have spare grain in your hand, as in any era. Manage your family diligently and save money.