Why do some people like to gossip? What kind of psychology is it?

In fact, human beings have a tradition of gossip, and everyone actually has a gossip heart. Sometimes gossip is not a lot of trouble. Gossip produces faith and culture, of course, there are both good and bad sides. Then why do some people like gossip? There are several reasons:

1, the most direct reason is of course "boredom";

2. "Gossip" can help people "release anxiety": Gossip is comparable to eating chocolate, which stimulates the secretion of caffeine peptides in the brain and makes people feel happy. Proper gossip helps to relieve stress and anxiety and is beneficial to physical and mental health;

3, "gossip" can quickly close the distance between people, especially in cooperation, many times trust is not based on business, but on "gossip";

4. "Gossip" can also promote teamwork: the more the team does not face up to communication, the stronger the ability to solve problems;

5. There is also a mentality to talk about "gossip", that is, to find a sense of superiority: the essence of gossip is "I know this thing, but you don't know it", and the sense of superiority of gossip is hidden behind.

6. The mentality of "gloating", reducing one's envy or jealousy and increasing one's positive evaluation;

No matter what psychological gossip, we have to admit that gossip is the evolution of language and has strong social cohesion, so it is just gossip. Don't take it seriously. Understand the mentality of those gossips properly and don't have to be serious with them!

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Why do some people like to gossip? This may be related to his (her) growth experience environment (such as being influenced by his (her) mother or sister since childhood). A large number of data show that women like gossip more than men.

First of all, curiosity is human nature. For example, chatting with people and gossiping about friends and relatives led by some stars or colleagues will definitely attract each other's curiosity more than chatting with some ordinary information, so as to make them feel happier when chatting with each other. In such an atmosphere, the other party will also tell information that is useful or interesting to them, thus playing the role of information exchange, bringing their psychological distance closer and their relationship more intimate and harmonious. Therefore, it can be seen that,

There are also negative gossip, which exaggerates the shortcomings or privacy faults of others than talking about the right and wrong of some leaders or colleagues. This is very undesirable, and it can also be said that it is a manifestation of poor quality. Such gossips are generally jealous or conceited and always like to find fault with others.

China has a saying, whoever doesn't talk behind people's backs won't talk behind people's backs. This fully shows the universality of gossip. It can be said that everyone is gossiping, and it can also be said that everyone is the object of gossip.

As the saying goes, everyone is eager for gold and there are no bones left. We don't run or carry negative gossip. People in our new era should have a positive, positive and inclusive attitude. It's okay to gossip about other people's good points, don't you think? [shy]

People have 24 hours a day, the real working time is about 8 hours, it takes 8 hours to sleep (most people are less than 8 hours), and the remaining 8 hours are all used to communicate with others. Since there is communication, there will be topics, gossip or news, especially topics that are related to you and you are interested in, and you will especially like them. Different people, different age groups have different topics. Generally speaking, children like to discuss games and animations. Middle-aged people are more interested in sports, news, current affairs and TV plays. Older people prefer to care about the marital status of men and women and the employment of other children. This is a common situation. ?

Satisfy the little dark preferences in your mind through gossip.

Gossip is to attract others and show your inner emptiness.

Radish and cabbage have their own love, which is related to their own thinking, different thinking and different preferences.

This is a kind of identity psychology. He agrees with gossip and will naturally like it. Although the gossip is mysterious, once you agree with it, you will think it is true.