A classmate introduced an object. Who will pay for the first meeting and going out for dinner?

If it's just the two of you meeting, just say who pays. If you are a man, you think the woman is not bad after meeting tomorrow, and you are interested in learning more. At the same time, the other party didn't choose a particularly expensive restaurant or dish, so I suggest you take the initiative to pay the bill, which will make you generous and leave a good initial impression on the other party. But if the woman insists on AA with you and you can't refuse, then respect her wishes. But if you are not satisfied with the woman after meeting, or you think it is impossible to have the following after meeting, then you can choose AA. Anyway, if you don't like her, it doesn't matter even if you are AA. At most, she tells others privately that you are stingy.

If you are a girl, you will find that the man is not bad when you meet tomorrow. If you want to develop further, let's see if the other person will take the initiative to pay. If the other party pays for it, you can let him go, then invite him to see a movie, and then you can buy movie tickets and popcorn. This is called reciprocity. On the one hand, it satisfies his generous self-esteem as a man, on the other hand, it seems that you are not the kind of girl who likes to take advantage of him. If the other party does not take the initiative to pay or take the initiative to mention AA, then you also take the initiative to AA.

But if four people eat together tomorrow, it will be more complicated who will pay the bill. If the man takes the initiative to pay the bill, it means not only paying the woman's expenses, but also paying the expenses of two people together. Eating for four people is a big expense. If AA is proposed, who will propose it? After all, your classmate and his wife belong to the middle introducer. Who dares to let the introducer pay for dinner himself? If your classmate and his wife are willing to take the initiative to pay, they should invite you to dinner. In other words, if they don't want to take the initiative to pay, they will wait for you two to pay. Isn't this embarrassing? What's more, you don't have much contact with that junior high school classmate after graduation, so the relationship should not be so good that you won't misunderstand no matter what the other person does, right?

So I suggest that you either tell your junior high school classmates not to go tomorrow. Isn't it awkward for four people to kiss? Just the two of you alone, just in time to meet for dinner. I think two people would be better. You can say whatever you want then, but four people will be confused. They just put in a good word for you, but I don't think it is necessary for us to meet for the first time. Just tell our old classmates that if you two come, we'll treat them to a thank-you dinner later! They will not take part in entertainment tomorrow. Why not discuss with the old classmates in advance who will pay for dinner tomorrow, then see what the old classmates think, and let the old classmates ask each other's thoughts, and then summarize them, so that they won't know? Otherwise, if we meet for dinner tomorrow, he doesn't want to be an idiot, you don't like being an idiot, and old classmates don't want AA. I feel embarrassed to think about that scene.

If I say something unpleasant, do you really think that your classmate introduced you for your own good? As you said, you two had a good relationship at school, but not to a good extent. After graduation, you didn't have much contact. Is it because you live in the same neighborhood that the other person suddenly cares about you? If you ask me, your classmate and his wife just want to fix someone up. Everyone who has a date loves to match someone. Married people love to persuade people to get married. People with children love to persuade them to have children. At best, they are helping and worrying about your feelings. Worst of all, they like to mind their own business. If you want to find someone, you can take the initiative to find someone to help introduce you. But if you don't want to find someone now, there is no need to promise others that they are not suitable. You may think that you are just going to meet, so there is no way to talk about it. But think about it, they will all have dinner with you tomorrow. Are you sure to say goodbye in person? Besides, I really don't recommend that anyone else be present when I meet my blind date for the first time. What kind of person is he? You have to observe him at dinner tomorrow and talk about it yourself, right? Your classmate and his wife will come here tomorrow. That must be a good word. What can you see? What can we talk about? Of course, my suggestions are for reference only.