The expression of male chauvinism What is male chauvinism?

In life, we often use words such as steel straight man, miser and male chauvinism to describe boys. So do you really understand male chauvinism? Come with me to understand the performance of male chauvinism.

The performance of male chauvinism in boys

1, the envy of male chauvinism lies in action.

In the process of falling in love, male chauvinism treats girls in a simple and rude way, taking everything into consideration, thinking about everything, and having a strong desire for control, treating girls as children, but sometimes being too simple and rude will lead to not feeling where his love for girls lies. In fact, we can test it. You can take your boyfriend to meet friends of the opposite sex and show a little concern for your male friends. You can't tell whether you care or not on your macho face. In his actions, he will deliberately overwhelm the opposite male creature with momentum, just like fighting for the mating right of female animals, showing hostility to the opposite male, but still being polite.

2. The love of male chauvinism is in the corner.

Who said that male chauvinism is not "gentle"? Their love is often manifested in their actions. At this time, if a girl wants to know whether a boy really loves you, she can act like a spoiled child, such as kicking the quilt off while sleeping, and then pretending to fall asleep to see if the boy will secretly cover you with a quilt; Another example is to prepare for a trip but do nothing, and see if boys can get all the luggage and things like that. Male chauvinistic love is often overbearing, but gentle in action.

3. Male chauvinism doesn't like being opposed

Male chauvinism needs to test whether you love you or not. You can try doing things in the opposite direction. They are usually very controlling. They don't like being opposed You just have to do as I say, but if he really loves you, even if he is angry, he rarely shows it. If he loves you enough, he will put up with his temper for you, but don't overdo it, because some principles and bottom lines can never be touched.

What is male chauvinism?

1, jealous.

Male chauvinist boys have a strong desire to monopolize the girls they like, and they don't allow their women to be cared for by others. Therefore, if they find that their girlfriends or daughters-in-law are close to other boys, they will feel insecure. Under the instigation of monopolization, his kingly temperament will come out, reminding you with your mouth that you are serious, simple and direct, and immediately protecting you and your opposite sex friends. Even if you confess that you are just friends and nothing else, that's not good. He doesn't believe it! It's safer to protect yourself, which means you like flying vinegar so much.

2, more arrogant.

Male chauvinist boys are generally not afraid of difficulties. Some of them are arrogant. Even if they lose, they will find some reasons to cover up the past. Perhaps his arrogance is also reflected in his tough temperament. Male chauvinist boys are also hurt by the natural environment of their childhood, so they will have a lot of insecurity in their hearts, and it is difficult to tell others their true feelings casually. So in the eyes of others, their temperament is so stubborn and tenacious that even if they bleed, they will never see their tears. I think it's just because they hide their true feelings, and they always bear it silently when they suffer indignities.

3. Sometimes it is unreasonable

Male chauvinist boys are sometimes gentle, but they have a strong sense of independence. No persistent person can persuade him, and everything he does feels right. Even if he finally realizes that he is wrong, it is not easy to realize his failure. He always looks for other outlets to cover up the past and is only willing to maintain his brand image. Male chauvinist boys are sometimes unreasonable and others are very tired, but he just thinks that you should also have the strength to do other things, such as housework. He hardly does it himself, but only asks his wife to do it, immerse himself in the relationship between master and servant, and consider his vanity.

Advantages and disadvantages of male chauvinism

1 What are the advantages of male chauvinism?

However, male chauvinism does not have only shortcomings. Generally speaking, male chauvinists are decisive, can undertake things independently, will not worry their wives, and have leadership skills. However, compared with disadvantages, advantages are not very useful.

2. What are the disadvantages of male chauvinism?

Male chauvinists want their families and partners to obey them absolutely and have a sense of command. Men are in charge at home, and it is the same outside. They can't embarrass themselves. Many male chauvinists don't allow their wives to have too many social activities.

How to get along with male chauvinism

First of all, praise him

A man will be male chauvinist because in their hearts, they want to be noticed, worshipped and eager to be recognized by others. Therefore, if you want him to obey your wishes, you should praise him a lot in your daily life! For example, if you want to buy a white sofa and your boyfriend has to buy a black one, you might as well praise him in a soft tone: "Dear, I think the black sofa is very good and the style is good. You have a good eye, but everything else in our family is black. Do you think white will be better? Besides, people really like white. " In this way, he will easily do it your way.

Second, give him enough face.

When dealing with a male chauvinist man, never brush his face in front of outsiders, but learn to be soft and tough. When a friend is present, you might as well let him be a "grandfather" and be a little obedient to him, but remember that this obedience is only appearance, and the real decision-making power is still in your hands. You can discuss it with your boyfriend. You can give him enough face outside, but in private, he should listen to your opinions more. For example, if you have dinner with a few friends, you might as well praise him more and behave very obedient. When you get home, you will say to him, "Should I give him some reward for my good performance today?" This week's health, you can be responsible for oh ~ "

As long as there are more similar "exchanges", he will form a habit: listen to you!

Third, appropriate coquetry.

Entanglement is especially suitable for male chauvinism boys. Because it stepped on a pain point of men: the desire to protect. A male chauvinist boyfriend always wants to protect his girlfriend. You might as well cater to his psychology a little and act like a spoiled brat. For example, when you don't want to wash the dishes, you can say to him, "I'm so tired recently." Can a handsome boy help me wash the dishes? " Generally speaking, they can't resist you, and over time they will share some daily housework.