What is the experience of Kochi's old man bringing a baby?

When my baby is 2 years old, he can already count from 1 to 100, and even count backwards and backwards. He learned the multiplication formula at the age of 2 years and 2 months. In the kindergarten entrance examination, mathematics ability has reached the level of large class.

Before entering kindergarten (trusteeship), the baby recited 30 ancient poems and sang about 10 children's songs in 3 months.

Good exercise, you can play basketball 1 hour every day, and you can run twice in 800 meters.

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The baby's "Excellence" is not because he has talent and no advanced technology, but because of an ordinary Kochi old man.

This old man is none other than my dear father, that is, his grandfather.

Grandpa is a very ordinary post-60s old man. After his grandson was born, he spent two years together. In these two years, my grandfather unconsciously became a master of parenting (here I am especially grateful to my father, whose parenting wisdom has helped me a lot), and at the same time, because of the teacher's professional reasons, he also has some unique experience in parenting.

In the spirit of sharing as a teacher, Grandpa really wants to share these parenting experiences with more elderly people like him, hoping that more elderly people can cultivate healthy, lovely and intelligent grandchildren. Let your old age not only enjoy family happiness, but also find your sense of accomplishment and value.

Around grandpa, there are also many old people who help their children take care of them. They often discuss and communicate together. In this process, grandpa found that their ideas are the same: they are old, their physical strength can't keep up, and their ideas are different from those of young people. They find it difficult to take care of children.

In the past two years with children, grandpa really feels that taking children is really exhausting both physical strength and energy. However, based on the principle of caring for children's growth with love, grandpa actively played his own advantages. In the process of raising the next generation, using the love and correct methods of the next generation can also make the parenting process happier, help children reduce stress and gain new life value from it.

As the old saying goes, three years old looks old, and seven years old looks old. Therefore, the age of 0-6 is very important for children, and early childhood is the key period to lay the foundation of life.

A child is like a blank sheet of paper. What you can learn from it depends on how our tutor teaches it. Grandpa's point of view is that learning is not for exam results, but for enjoying the desire to explore the world brought by entertaining.

Many people say that they will spoil their children when they are old, but this is totally a prejudice. Older people are experienced, knowledgeable, experienced and patient, which is their unique advantage. As far as our baby is concerned, his grandfather, as an old teacher engaged in the education industry for more than 30 years, has a unique advantage in taking care of children.

First, the elderly have more time to spend with their children.

Nowadays, young parents are under great pressure, but older people have more time. Education itself is a time-consuming thing, and the elderly have enough time to ensure their children's early education. When children sleep, they can think about what to say to them later. Busy, the day has passed.

Old people have more experience in raising children. In addition, old people can comb their children's parenting experience again, which can better cultivate the next generation.

Secondly, in comparison, the elderly are more patient and considerate to their children. A person's life experience is much more, and his mentality will be peaceful, and his understanding of many things will be more thorough and inclusive. With children, you can not only feel the attachment between your family, but also make yourself full of vitality and forget your actual age. At the same time, because in the process of education, constantly updating their parenting ideas, can also be a good prevention and treatment of Alzheimer's disease.

My children's favorite activity is to recognize the license plate with grandpa. In this process, a lot of knowledge can be popularized. For example, our hometown is in Shaanxi, so the first word of Shaanxi license plate is Shaanxi. Shaanxi A is xi 'an. Which code you see means which city this car belongs to.

The numbers and English letters at the back can basically recognize all the numbers and letters, so we never teach them one by one, just look at the license plate.

Also, for example, looking for the shape of home. The TV at home is rectangular. The refrigerator is rectangular. The water bottle is cylindrical. This mat is square. The cake is triangular. Basketball is round. And so on, I look for shapes with my grandfather at home every day, and soon I know all the shapes and the names of furniture and electrical appliances.

In order to let grandson establish perceptual mathematical cognition, grandpa integrated abstract mathematical concepts into daily life. Use the output mode of scene+repetition to make children have a natural interest in learning.

For example, we can identify numbers by going upstairs and downstairs. How many buildings, units and buildings do we live in? The first floor is the parking lot. We'll talk about it when we go upstairs and downstairs. If you learn to add, subtract, multiply and divide, take your child to climb the stairs, adding them every time. Every next floor, it will be reduced once, so that he can quickly understand addition, subtraction, multiplication and division.

There is music time every day, and grandpa will play English enlightenment songs at home in a small degree, once a week. Before going to bed at night, children will be given classical music for music enlightenment.

At the same time, grandpa will also teach children to help adults do what they can, such as mopping the floor, sweeping the floor and taking slippers. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

You can also take your children to paint, cut paper and water flowers together. You can take your children to climb mountains and roll in the outdoor countryside on weekends.

What impressed me most was that my grandfather would repeat it every day. Mathematics is really fun, mathematics is really interesting, so that children can feel fun in learning.

One of the most impressive examples is that every time grandpa cuts fruit for the baby, he will say, we will cut half today. It took half a year to say this. At the age of 2 years and 4 months, the children began to ask us what it was. Grandpa explained to the child that a watermelon cut in half is half. Watermelon is half and half, which is 0.5. Similarly, an apple cut in half is also half. A glass of water, poured out half, is also half.

In fact, the key point of this process is to plant flowers without asking for results. When the seedlings are cultivated, they will naturally produce bright flowers when they grow up.

In order to exercise children's memory, grandpa plays numbers with children every day. Write four numbers and cut them into digital cards for children to read. Then cover the numbers and let the children say it in the order they saw it before. Through such repeated training, children can basically read five digits now, and they can be put back in the previous numerical order if they are disrupted.

Grandpa said that we should be good at seizing every opportunity to guide education.

Second, the elderly's understanding of life can be integrated into early education.

For example, the teaching of ancient poetry is what grandpa is best at. Although my grandfather studied science, he has a solid foundation in ancient poetry. In order to make his grandson interested in ancient poetry, Grandpa will find some expert works of China's poetry recitation in the Himalayas to play.

This process, which my grandfather called listening, is to let children naturally infect in a cultural environment. The process of smoking and listening is itself a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. After listening to the three-character sutra of 1 year, as long as we play, he will naturally say it. We didn't ask him to recite it, but because it was played enough times, he remembered it himself.

Ancient poetry is a bit difficult for a 2-year-old child. What should we do?

In this process, grandpa found that children especially like to play with stickers, so he agreed with them that as long as you learn an ancient poem from me, grandpa can reward you with a sticker. In order to play with stickers, the child readily agreed. So, grandpa read it to the children sentence by sentence, and then let the children read it sentence by sentence.

After reading for 3 months, I basically memorized 30 ancient poems that kindergarten must recite. So in the fourth month, we began to challenge the difficulty, and repeatedly taught "Qinyuan Spring Snow" and "Humble Room Inscription" for a month, and he also recited it easily.

After learning, I will take my children downstairs to play with sand or do other activities and learn a new song in a few days. Before learning new poems, you will review the poems you have learned again, so that you can learn new things by reviewing the old ones.

When teaching children to recite poems, they can also combine their own life experiences to understand the meaning of poetry and deepen their understanding of poetry.

Sing a nursery rhyme every day, so that children can learn more sentences in rhythmic nursery rhymes. Tell your child a short picture book story every day. In this process, you can read it to your child dozens of times. A good picture book is worth reading and rereading.

In the process of studying with children, we should also learn to ask for their opinions. Grandpa often asks his 2-year-old grandson, honey, what's the word you said to grandpa? How to read this, how to write this and so on. The attitude should be serious and sincere, so that children can feel the seriousness of adults, and children will learn more actively, and then tell you and form a benign learning atmosphere.

Grandpa said that grandparents should learn to be pupils of the baby at home. Sometimes when you hear it, you can pretend that you understand it every time, and let the children teach it several times to enhance their memory.

Take children to museums, science museums, art galleries, etc. Increase their knowledge. Supermarket is also a good place to study mathematics and encyclopedia of life.

No matter what children learn, it is more important for adults to guide and persuade, and not to force them. Learning, subjective initiative is very important.

Educating children is a trivial and arduous task. To educate children, the whole family must unite their ideological front and persevere, and cannot give up halfway.