Hate elder sister-in-law

I'm hesitating about what to say. I think I have to talk about you. Before, you said that this sister was not good for you and you were unhappy. For various reasons and circumstances, she really didn't do very well. Now people's attitude towards you has changed. No matter what they actually think, they have done everything on the surface. As a result, you are not happy. You are lying, but if you and she have nothing to do with your husband, they are strangers. It is impossible to make others sincere. She won't give it to you or accept it. On the other hand, you won't be sincere to her. Because neither side needs it. All you want is a decent face. You are stuck in the pit now because she gave you a bad feeling before, and then you won't think positively about anything she does. Because she once hurt you, you don't forgive her, but when your husband forgives her, you can't stand it emotionally. Think about it, what do you want, shut the fuck up? Let the whole family yell at her? The latter is impossible to achieve. People are connected by blood. And the previous one has been realized. Now that her attitude has changed, it's good for you to argue with your husband because of her. You are getting worse and worse, and eventually everyone will understand that you are the one who makes trouble without reason. You'll be the target of public criticism. So as long as she gives you face now and doesn't infringe on your rights and interests, then you don't need to say that you are good to her. As long as you don't correct the past, you will be sensible and pregnant. As for how she is, we still need to observe. Don't forgive easily, and don't kill with a stick. The purpose is family harmony, because such an environment can make you feel comfortable.