Which is more terrible, low IQ or low EQ?

I think everyone has his own judgment about the level of EQ. I often ask myself and people around me, which is more terrible, low IQ or low EQ?

In my opinion, low emotional intelligence is even more terrible.

A person with a low IQ can only say that he is stupid. What others learn in five minutes takes him ten minutes, fifteen minutes or even an hour. Will such people have an impact on the people around them? No, diligence can make up for it. As long as you are willing to work hard, you can make yourself a successful person even if you are not smart enough.

In fact, low emotional intelligence is also graded. If it is not too low, there is still a chance to remedy it, such as me.

Let's start with the bottom. I'm afraid it's useless for such a person to feed him the most expensive specific medicine in the world. The most direct manifestation of this kind of person is that he is always self-centered and condescending to me. Even more amazing is that when everyone is alienating him, he seems to have nothing, as if the world has nothing to do with me.

A little higher level, as the saying goes, no eye price, I don't know what to do. It is reasonable to be poor if you do something wrong. I am young, too young, too simple. Such people can be persuaded, frustrated, and it is not hopeless to improve their emotional intelligence a little.

The highest level of low emotional intelligence will make some low-level mistakes. For example, when everyone in the WeChat group is arguing about a certain issue, you suddenly send a questionnaire survey and ask your friends to help fill it out. The crowd suddenly cools down, or a few people start spraying you instead. Are you out of your mind? Can't you get down to business? Only then will you realize your mistake.

Similarly, in daily life, at work, in the process of interacting with people, there will be short circuits in the brain from time to time, and you can also reflect on yourself afterwards. This kind of person has a lot of room for emotional intelligence improvement.

Of course, but I don't have a good way to improve my EQ, because I also belong to the category with low EQ. However, I can give a few hints.

First, when doing things, think about whether it is appropriate to do so from the other side's point of view.

Second, read more books, go out and see the outside world, walk more and feel the beauty of the world.

Third, take the initiative to abuse, which Xiao Pu admits is a bit abnormal. However, it is a good way to improve EQ quickly. If you abuse too much, you will know where your shortcomings are.

First of all, you must feel comfortable with him. He can get everything from you. You're completely invisible to him.

Second, even if the sky falls, as long as the head is there, the hands can move and the legs can run, the most important thing at hand can be successfully completed.

Third, he is extremely low-key, even though everyone knows what is going on in his own circle. As long as he is out of this circle, he is an ordinary person. He is also modest and close to everyone.

If I said that emotional intelligence determines your fortune, would you believe it?