What are the ways of the world?

1: Daughter-in-law can't joke with her father-in-law.

On the wine table, women should not be advised to drink.

Never tell others about your real income and savings.

4: Go to other people's homes, don't sit in other people's beds, and don't go into other people's bedrooms.

Don't offend the leader at work.

6. Don't do business in partnership with relatives and friends.

7: Break up with friends who often run after eating.

8: Go to other people's homes, not into girls' rooms.

9: Let others give gifts.

10: Don't go to other people's houses empty-handed.

1 1: Take care of the things borrowed from others before returning them.

12: Never say hello to yourself in front of others.

13: Don't play with your mobile phone while chatting with others.

14: Never tell anyone your truth.

15: Don't go to the casual dinner.

16: Don't let your husband help your girlfriend alone, such as "fix the faucet, change the light bulb, ..."

17: Wash and fill up before driving someone else's car.

18: If someone asks you, "What's the matter?" Don't get excited, because others don't really want to help you, they are just curious.

19: When visiting relatives, friends, classmates, neighbors and familiar people, if someone suggests you watch TV, you should leave.

Whether it's a gathering of classmates, relatives or friends, if someone toasts you, they either want to ask you for help or respect you very much.

20: If others find out that you made a mistake and don't tell you, it's more terrible than telling you.

2 1: When the leader talks to you, if his fingers are buckled on the table from time to time, it means that he is not satisfied with what you say.

I am a native of the countryside. Through decades of teaching and learning from my parents, my understanding of the world is as follows:

1. The younger generation cannot interrupt the conversation between the elders.

You must listen to your parents. Although it may not be right, it is definitely good for you.

Adults, big or small, should not call them by their real names.

You can teach your children in public, but you can't teach your other half.

There are guests at home, children can't go to the table, they can't babble when eating, and vegetables can't be brought in.

6. Full wine can be filled, but it can't overflow, and full tea can't be filled, because it is urging guests to leave.

7. Whether it's a wedding or a wedding, invite people to come, pay gifts, and meet the host.

8. Family affairs are just propaganda, but housekeeping is not ostentatious.

9. Relatives can't come if they have no money.

10. Save the poor, save the poor.

1 1. It is not difficult to borrow it again.

12. Brothers are together, and their strength is enough to break gold.

14. Sisters live in harmony and help each other.

15. If women don't take charge, the house will collapse.

16. Everything is going well at home, but it's hard to stop at home.

1. Daughter-in-law can't be in the same room as her father-in-law.

Daughter-in-law had better not live with in-laws.

3. It's definitely not good for people who haven't contacted for a long time to contact you suddenly.

4, visit relatives and friends, don't go home empty-handed.

5. Others respect me and I respect him.

6. Don't get on bad terms with your neighbors.

7. No matter how good the community is, don't take your children to eat every day.

8. Don't stab people in the back and speak ill of others behind their backs.

9. Borrow other people's money and buy some gifts when you return it. Don't borrow as much as you want.

10, treat guests generously and live a fine life.

1 1, men drink together, don't scold men unilaterally. Have no face at all.

12, don't scold your man in front of others.

13, make three reasonable points, don't make trouble without reason and tide wait for no man.

14, don't argue with drunks.

15, I heard that I am full.

16, don't offend the small leaders in the unit.

17, the unit only talks about work, which is impersonal. You will offend many people.

18, don't hit people in the face, call names don't expose shortcomings.

19, walk a hundred steps after dinner and live to be ninety-nine.

20. You can understand life, but you can't understand people's hearts.

2 1, no children at forty, no house at fifty and no clothes at sixty.

22. Get married and have children early.

23. Filial piety does not stop at words. There must be practical actions.

24. When old people are alive, they are reluctant to buy food or clothes. After his death, no matter how big the ostentation and extravagance, it was for others to see.

25, don't be too stingy, too stingy, others look down on you, you can't even make fair-weather friends.

26. If you don't mix well, don't attend the reunion.

27. marry a woman and splash water. Mind your own business, daughter.

28. Although the son-in-law is half a son, he is still a relative. The daughter and son-in-law came and said that the daughter can. Don't say son-in-law, let alone scold him.

29. Daughter-in-law should be raised as a daughter.

30. Sometimes I really can't change my heart.

3 1, put words in the other person's heart and do things in the other person's eyes.

Only when you have nothing, do you know who is really good to you.

33, eat others' mouths short, take others soft.

You can't believe all superstitions, and neither can you.

35. Money is not lent to people who are short-sighted, people who don't talk about credibility, and people who meet by chance.

Buy you a drink next time, which means there won't be a next time.

1, don't praise yourself in front of others, and don't constantly praise how good your family and close people are. This is a very stupid behavior.

2. The more people who have no money, the more low-key, do not visit relatives and friends, and do not attend various parties.

When you are not sure, you must not promise others, because if you promise, you must do it, or you will break your word.

4. Borrow someone else's car as a wedding car. When you return it, you must wrap two red envelopes, one is gas money and the other is human feelings.

Don't exchange your private affairs with others. Don't think you can become a bosom friend. How does negative energy plus negative energy become positive energy?

6, the door is a guest, someone comes, the first thing is to boil water to make tea.

7. No matter what kind of wedding, funeral and happy event it is, I have informed you that the gift must come, not less than what was wrapped before, but more than what was given to you before, even.

8. Don't offend anyone. If you hate this person, stay away, stay away, stay away. Ignore it.

9. Don't tell anyone about your real savings, including your parents, partners and children. Because some people will miss it.

10, don't visit your relatives. Now the society is very cold, everyone is busy, and no one wants to entertain you.

1 1. Don't tell others what you really mean. Don't tell them everything. The more you talk, the more empty your heart will be. When you don't say anything, your heart becomes more and more full.

12. When going to someone's house, the host said he didn't want slippers, but he was still conscious and must have slippers, which is also a sign of education.

13. When relatives and friends are in trouble, don't join them, and then make various versions with them. What we have to do is whether we can help. If not, please keep your mouth shut. This is the best help for them.

14, never forget that when you are helpless, people will always keep their distance from you. If you have nothing in the future, the farther you choose.

15, people who can't communicate give up communication. Maybe everyone is right. The principle of getting along with others is that we are different, but each has its own reasons.

16. Don't walk too often between parents-in-law, just reciprocate occasionally.

17, never believe what you hear, because sometimes even what you see is an illusion.

18, don't always think about who you meet, the best person is yourself.

19, a person has his own economic ability, and can resist all inferiority and affectation, and nothing else is too important. Only with money can he live like himself.

1: Daughter-in-law should try not to be alone with her father-in-law, which will be embarrassing;

2. Try not to work for relatives, others will always think you are cheap, you will be very tired and owe people;

3. Women should try not to bring their girlfriends home, and it is better to get together outside;

4: No matter how good your husband is, don't say it in front of your girlfriends, even if you quarrel;

5: Don't always let your husband help your girlfriend alone;

6: Don't go to a relative's house empty-handed, even if others are not embarrassed, it is you who are embarrassed;

7: Try not to borrow someone else's car, and be sure to fill it up when you return it;

8: When you are with your elders, let him finish his sentence first and don't interrupt;

9: Don't expose your child's shortcomings in front of classmates;

10: Outside, be obedient and criticize yourself for loving you;

1 1: Wash your dirty linen in public, and don't tell everyone about your family.

12: If you are sad or unhappy, don't tell your parents, they will be worried;

13: if you have any plans in the near future, don't make public before you do it;

14: Don't tell others how much money you have;

15: Don't talk hard when you are angry, hurting others and yourself;

16: Two couples should not work in the same company;

17: Don't make phone calls in public places.

18: When eating, don't always turn the plate with chopsticks;

19: there are guests at home who are ready to eat, so be sure to let them sit down first;

20: there are guests eating, try not to finish before the guests;

2 1: Wait for the guests to finish eating before collecting the dishes and chopsticks, and then clear the table;

22: Sit with your elders and don't step on their stools;

23: the younger generation can't touch the head of the elder;

24: Go to other people's weddings, don't wear red clothes, if you are too beautiful, don't stand next to the bride;

25: If you are not sure what you can do, don't promise others easily;

26: Married daughters should mind their own business;

27: The married sister-in-law should have a good relationship with her sister-in-law;

28: Don't speak ill of his family in front of his husband;

29: A distant relative is better than a close neighbor. Don't be too stingy, talk less about others.

30: Try not to owe people feelings for things that can be solved with money;

3 1: Don't play with your mobile phone while chatting with others;

32: Go to someone else's house for a party. If someone asks you to sit down first, he has something to do. At this time, you should go home.

33: Nobles can't forget, benefactors can't forget, drinking water and thinking about the source;

34: Home and talent are everything, don't be reasonable, be more tolerant;

35: the husband and wife are new, the benefits have been broken, and the original intention has not been forgotten;

36: brotherly love, broken bones are connected with tendons;

37: Dogs don't think their families are greedy, and sons don't think their mothers are ugly.

38: Whether poor or rich, people should be kind and never forget their roots;

People should get along equally and treat each other with courtesy; Respect each other, pay attention to words, personal accomplishment and code of conduct; Don't judge a book by its appearance, no matter whether it is rich or poor; No matter how high the status, everyone is equal.

①: Respect the old and love the young, and honor parents; It is still big when it is big, and it is still small when it is small; Be a low-key person.

2. Give a gift in return, for example; People respect me by a foot, and I respect them by a foot; Polite, good-neighborly and friendly.

3. Be charitable and help others; Help each other and love each other, and give love.

4: Save the suffering, draw a sword to help each other when the road is not normal; Don't be greedy, don't bully, be honest.

5: self-reliance, no reward for reactive power; Don't accept ill-gotten gains, a gentleman loves money and takes it wisely.

⑥: Obey the law and discipline, and convince others by reasoning; Do not bully others, do not bully the people; Roll with the punches, roll with the punches Don't gang up, unite with comrades and be decent.

⑦: Distinguish between public and private, and do not encroach on other people's property; Honest and trustworthy.

8. Love life and study cultural knowledge hard; Improve their own quality and serve the society.

Pet-name ruby: distinguish between good and evil, abandon evil and be good; The prodigal son never changes his gold.

Attending: love the motherland, love the party, always listen to the call of the party, obey orders and commands, match words with deeds, and be willing to contribute.

1 1: People don't lack ambition, they are poor but don't lose their ambition, and they are rich but don't commit adultery; He who has gold on his knees would rather die standing than live on his knees.

12: love their jobs, respect their leaders, and act according to the rules; You can't violate the moral bottom line of being a man. In order to achieve self-interest, you should be modest and try to curry favor with others. You drag out an ignoble existence and lose the face of your ancestors for eighteen generations.

1 fire, theft and girlfriends prevention. In front of your boyfriend or husband, you must prevent death, and you can't let them have the time and opportunity to contact alone.

Friends need to take the initiative to help when they are in trouble.

When you are in trouble, try not to trouble your friends.

There are some things that friends don't say, but they can't ask themselves.

Be a kind person and don't expose others.

In love, if you don't like each other, tell each other early, and don't delay.

This is an old saying handed down from the older generation.

In real life, friends get together and scramble to pay the bill, which is a sign of friendship.

It is precisely because of this that there are not a few people who are used to enjoying silently and stealing happiness.

"Eat invincible hands all over the world and never return to the first place!" ; Make good use of it and leave if you want to pay. ...

Such people take advantage of the present petty gain, lose their personality and face, and lose their hearts and friends. Typical take a small advantage and suffer a big loss!

Give up, give up, and you will get it!

No contrast, no harm!

When you show off your happiness, those who are not as good as you are at least sour in their hearts!

In this world, I sincerely hope that you are good, only parents! Including brothers and sisters, may not be known!

Even, some people around you can't see you!

This is human nature! It's no use being angry, you can only adapt!

So, share your joy with everyone, timely and moderately!

Children go to college, get married, and their families are imported. Sooner or later, everyone will know these things and share them with relatives and friends in an appropriate way, which is nothing wrong.

However, your lover sent you flowers, your children got a promotion and a raise, bought a second suite, and your grandson got the first place in the class. Don't promote these things, play them over and over again!

The price of your happiness in the circle of friends every day must be that your friends silently shield you and stay away from you!

When you are happy, you are laughing!

On holidays, when visiting relatives and friends, everyone should carry big bags of gift boxes, without exception!

Go to see parents, brothers and sisters, friends' homes, and hold "Li" in your hand!

The so-called sending goose feathers a thousand miles away is light and affectionate! No one cares about the quantity and price of gifts, but everyone will care, won't they?

Therefore, when we are serious, no matter who we go to, even our closest relatives and friends, we must have basic communication etiquette.

Unless you are a neighbor, you can go several times a day and eat without a proper bowl!

Otherwise, it is rude and unreasonable!

After all, reach out and don't hit the smiling face, nor scold the giver!

It is easier to borrow money than to pay it back. There are many things in the world that hurt feelings and turn against each other in order to borrow money.

Therefore, after too many lessons, many people's point of view is that it is forbidden to borrow money between friends!

Of course, people always have difficulties and need a hand! Who will lend you money? Who will you only lend money to?

Many people answer that my money is only lent to my brothers and sisters; When I am in trouble, I only ask my brothers and sisters for help!

Because of this consanguineous relationship based on consanguinity, everyone has difficulty helping each other and naturally feels at ease.

There is no debt collection afterwards, even if you are incapable, you can not pay it back!

However, between friends, can you reach this level?

You can borrow money if you can. Otherwise, I suggest not to talk about it, so as not to lose friends and money!

Standing to borrow money, kneeling to collect debts; What is lent is money, and what is recovered is resentment.

No one can stand such harm.

People and occasions qualified to preach to others are limited to teachers to students in the class, parents to minor children, and reeducation-through-labor personnel to supervised objects.

In addition, no matter who it is, it is annoying to appear in front of others as a teacher. I like beautiful countries.

However, in real life, there are always people who like to say modestly: Welcome to criticize and correct me!

So, someone believed it and immediately began to make long-winded suggestions!

Is this really good?

I have no objection to giving advice to others. My point is that if you really want to do this, you must meet two conditions:

1. You must have enough qualifications, including major, age or status, to give advice to others.

When making comments, you must know how to respect each other's self-esteem. It's better to talk privately.

Otherwise, I suggest you put away your opinions and suggestions.

Because, regardless of the occasion, regardless of the object, "pointing out the mountains and rivers" everywhere will be considered as "brushing the sense of existence", which makes people angry!

In my impression, when I was a child, I visited relatives and friends with my parents. Adults must have talked about their families, the annual harvest, the situation of their children, and so on. ...

However, this set is likely to be taboo today.

As the saying goes, every family has its own problems. If you still insist on chatting with the audit template, you are talking about other people's sad things until you die!

Unless you know in advance that the other person's family is successful in some way, for example, the children are successful or the career is on the rise, then you can take the initiative to bring up this topic, so that the other person can make an endless speech with a happy mood, and you are willing to be a loyal listener!

Otherwise, it's best to talk about the international and domestic situation!

Although this is a bit boring, at least it won't step on thunder!

In life, there will always be many people giving us all kinds of help!

In fact, in this world, no one needs to help us, including parents!

Therefore, as long as others help us, we should remember and repay them.

The so-called gratitude, can be capable and conditional substantive help, or just, remember the good of others, and heartfelt gratitude when we meet again!

Most people who help us don't necessarily want to repay us. However, this cannot be a reason for us to be "ungrateful".

No matter what kind of gratitude, it is an affirmation of the benefactor! This will be their motivation to continue "charity"!

If so, should the lyrics be answered: "As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world!" "

This is the worldly wisdom that Uncle @ 70 summed up with his life experience for most of his life when he knew his destiny.

Is it suitable?

If there is anything wrong, I look forward to your comments and corrections!

thank you