What should Xiong Haizi do when he messes with things during the Spring Festival?

During the Spring Festival, it is inevitable for friends and relatives to walk around each other. The biggest headache for us at this time is Xiong Haizi, who is not too big but very naughty. After tossing and turning, I still dare not fight or scold, for fear of embarrassing my relatives and friends, but looking at the messy things at home, my heart is really tangled. I will use my personal experience to talk about our handling of this situation.

First, home is your own. When relatives and friends bring their children, they must clean up the interior of the house first, and the precious and fragile things must be cleaned up. It's best to find a box with a lock to prevent children from rummaging around. I usually keep the more important things at home in the safe in my bedroom. At the same time, I will put away some fragile ornaments and vases on the screen and TV cabinet at home before I know that the guests are taking care of the children. Although it will be a little troublesome, I learned a painful lesson this day and made me a lazy person diligent.

Second, children should be polite and polite when they enter the door. When the guests come, we will welcome them, but if I already know that the other person may be a naughty child, I will have a habitual action, touch the child's head with my hand, and then say, "I haven't seen you for so long, you have grown taller." Have fun in the room with your brother. Some things are charged. Don't play around. " "This is ostensibly for the children, but actually for his parents. Expressing love and instructions, his parents will certainly understand the meaning.

Third, take the initiative to prepare a game area for children and try to let them play in their own game area. If children are the most difficult to control to play together, it is best to leave them a separate space, move their favorite toy handles into this room, and let them move in the designated space. This is the most convenient way to manage Xiong Haizi. At the same time, explain to your children not to take them to your bedroom or other places where important things are kept.

Fourth, when Xiong Haizi is in trouble at home, let the children take care of them, instead of adults taking care of them directly. In fact, the biggest headache for us is that we have prepared everything ourselves, but we still can't control the pace of Xiong Haizi's destruction. What should we do? In this case, we must let the children manage Xiong Haizi, because this way is the most acceptable for the other parents. Because they are all children, it doesn't matter much what they say, so they will be regarded as children. So if friends don't go home, you should make it clear to your children. You are the head of the family, so you must protect your property.

If Xiong Haizi causes losses to your property, your child's noise and crying can help you recover some of the losses, at least let his parents take a warning. This has happened before. An expensive work of art at home was damaged by Xiong Haizi. Although I didn't say anything out of the kindness of my friends, the children at home were determined. My friend finally bought me another similar thing. Although we didn't accept it later, Xiong Haizi was obviously more honest when he came to our house later.

Xiong Haizi is not out of control, mainly depends on how to control it. Do a good job with Xiong Haizi's parents first. If you have any questions, let the children talk. Being an outsider is a better way to judge.