Detailed explanation of "Endure the calm for a while and take a step back to broaden the horizons"

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow - endure the calm for a while (take a step back and the sky will be brighter)

The original text of Zengguang Xianwen is : "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and the sky will clear up after the rain"

After enduring for a while, you can get rid of the dispute

If each side gives in, both parties will be comfortable.

Confucius said: "Clever words confuse morality. Small impatience confuses big plans." This sentence is actually very appropriate in life. Indeed, in daily life, there are some things that cannot be tolerated for a while. , the consequences are immeasurable.

If you want to make big plans, you must be patient. You need to be patient and tolerant when doing things. Don't be intolerant just because of a small thing. Once you lose your temper, it will ruin big things. Just like the news I saw a few days ago, a young man in a certain city killed his parents in a fit of anger after his parents refused to take his girlfriend to live with him. His beautiful life and his prime life were unbearably ruined. Keep your anger in mind. It is a matter of time and procedure for a girlfriend to move into a home. Compared with the life of starting a family and starting a business, it is a trivial matter in daily life compared with the lives of one's parents. To destroy one's parents' lives as revenge is not just a matter of petty gain, it is simply stupid. Nowadays, catastrophic disasters caused by impatience among young students are common, and they have become the main cause of fights and troubles on campus. It can be seen that learning to tolerate is a matter of moral cultivation.

Tolerance is the character cultivation demonstrated by strong willpower, noble moral character, and perfect personality, rather than a sign of cowardice. Acting to be strong and quick for a moment is a cowardly act that lacks personality. Tolerance or intolerance, the results are different! How many people look up to the sky and sigh, how many people regret it for the rest of their lives... In addition to the objective reasons, one of the subjective reasons is that small impatience can mess up big plans.