Sentences describing bad feelings between husband and wife

1, "How did you make this mistake again?"

When the woman said this sentence, the meaning was obvious, "Look, you made a mistake again!" " "How can you be so naive and make such a low-level mistake? It' s stupid! "

The meaning of this accusation is too obvious, and the other party will definitely resist. Because, in the face of other people's accusations, people will resist involuntarily, will safeguard their dignity, and will not willingly admit their failure. So if you accuse him with such words, he will definitely go against you and make the relationship between the two tense.

But if you don't blame him like this, but say to him, "honey, it doesn't matter!" " "At this time, he will definitely feel guilty, and then he will take the initiative to admit his mistake." Oh, I didn't do this well. I won't do it again next time.

You see, when you look at the other person's behavior with a tolerant attitude, he will be more willing to admit his mistakes, and will reflect on his behavior and try to avoid making such mistakes again.

Therefore, when faced with a man's mistake, if it is not a principled mistake, a smart woman will either laugh it off or pat the man on the shoulder and gently say, "Never mind!" " When a man hears this sentence, he will feel guilty of doing something wrong and his eyes will be full of gratitude to you. I believe he won't make this mistake again and will love you more.

2. "Why are you doing this to me?"

We can imagine that when a woman says this sentence, she may think so. A man should pamper himself like a princess, take care of himself gently, take care of himself patiently and take care of himself enthusiastically. But this man lost his temper and felt sorry for himself. How ungrateful! Such a thought, her heart will have countless grievances, will feel extremely angry.

So, she will ask loudly, why are you doing this to me? One day, a person may fight back this sentence. Why can't I do this to you? Why can't I do this to you? Do I have to support you as a princess? Can't I lose my temper? Did I do something wrong that I can't say? As a result, the quarrel inevitably happened.

And smart women will take this approach when facing men's misconduct. First of all, she will spoil her husband with a full face of grievances. "Husband, it's very uncomfortable and sad for you to talk to me like this."

I know you are very tired today, and it is hard to work outside. When you get home, you want my comfort, but I didn't notice your mood just now, so your mood is even worse. I'm sorry. Meanwhile, please pay attention to the way you speak. I don't think I can accept that you were so mean to me just now, can you? "Any reasonable person, he heard your request, certainly won't lose his temper to you at random.

You see, the meaning is still the same, but the tone of speech is different and the expression is different, which will have different effects. I believe that when a man hears you say this, he will reflect on his behavior, feel sorry for you, and express his love for you by doing housework, giving gifts, or kissing. What a happy ending!

3. "How can you be so incompetent!"

Many women will compare their men with other men consciously or unconsciously. Through comparison, she successfully found that her husband is indeed inferior to others in all aspects, especially in the earning power that women value. Her husband may be three or five thousand a month, and other husbands will be three or five hundred thousand a month. This contrast shows that women's vanity has come out.

Perhaps, she will unconsciously reveal this meaning, especially when quarreling, and may be tempted to say: "You earn so little, you let our family drink the northwest wind!" "Why are you so incompetent? You are a loser! "

For men with a sense of family responsibility, in fact, they will try their best to make more money to subsidize their families, so that they can have a more affluent economic environment. Therefore, when they face his wife's criticism, especially when she compares herself with other men, he will feel very discouraged or angry. He thinks that his wife is not only inconsiderate, but also belittles herself everywhere, which is really unbearable, and may also lose the motivation to make money and the confidence to make progress.

Smart women often praise and praise their husbands. When her husband's income increases or makes other progress, she will even praise him with words and actions, so that he can truly feel that making money is a meaningful thing for him, and his progress is the glory of his wife. In this case, her husband will have more motivation to move forward.

4. "You are still a man!"

When women say this, their hearts are full of contempt and disdain for men, because in their eyes, a certain behavior of men is too unlike men.

For example, when a man needs to shoulder the burden of family, he actually quits or hides behind a woman. At this time, the woman collapsed. "It's a pity that you are still a man. What a shame to do such a thing! "

When women accuse men in this way, men may be less motivated to solve immediate problems and will not assume the responsibilities that men should have. This ending must not be what women want to see.

A smart woman will not only complain and complain, nor will she enjoy success. Instead, she will choose to face her husband, find a way, find a countermeasure, and then solve the problem.

Afterwards, she will give her husband a sweet kiss and tell him admiringly: "Husband, if it weren't for you, this matter would certainly not be solved for a while." In my heart, you have always been my hero! "

I believe that men will be more and more responsible, capable and courageous in the years to come after they have gone through difficult tests and been affirmed by women.

4. "If it weren't for you!"

When a woman says this sentence, her inner subtext is probably like this, "I have paid so much for you, but you don't know how to be grateful at all." I was really blind at that time, so I married you ungrateful man! "

Women may think, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't have come to this small city on the 18 line with you and lived such an ordinary life. In other words, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't sacrifice myself to be a housewife. But as a man, you not only don't pity my efforts, but take it for granted, so my heart is very unbalanced.

In my opinion, if a man easily fails to live up to a woman's efforts, she can naturally condemn and accuse him, but this way, although it gives vent to dissatisfaction and resentment, is not conducive to fundamentally solving the problem.

After all, things have happened, and you may not be entirely for him. Besides, you are an adult, and you are responsible for your choice. When your life is unhappy, you can't blame others.

A smart woman, even if her life is not as good as expected and her husband has more shortcomings than expected, still won't say anything like regretting being with a man. On the contrary, she will act very happy with a man. She would say, "I'm glad I made the choice to be with you. If you give me another chance to choose, I am still willing to make a decision that is beneficial to you and your family. "

If marriage is a practice, then your husband is the most important practitioner in your life. Therefore, women should know how to cherish this fate, talk to each other well, care about each other attentively, and affirm each other's advantages and strengths. I believe that when you look at each other with appreciation, you will definitely get more love and praise from him.