What should I do if the person I like is a yandere?

1. Analyze the causes of yandere.

Yandere is one of the cute attributes in the subculture of the animation industry, which is transliterated as "tired". It is a character and physical and mental state. It usually manifests as anime characters having strong emotions and obsessions about a certain phenomenon that ordinary people cannot understand and recognize. Being yandere is not a disease, being yandere is fatal. To put it simply, yandere is a "mental illness" that is usually not easy to detect, but when something you like is threatened, your "yandere" attribute will explode.

Why do the people you like become yandere? You can analyze the reasons from the side. For example, possessiveness, lack of security, desire to be relied on, inner paranoia...these are the most intuitive manifestations of pathological personality formation.

2. Try to change the other person.

If you like the other person, it must be because of certain qualities in the other person that attract you. If you like each other, even if the other person is a yandere, that can resolve all worries. If you really can't stand it, you can choose to change the yandere. For example, if you pamper the other person without any bottom line and provide enough sense of security, so that the person you like can slowly change his yandere state, then the other person will slowly release his dependence and possessiveness and relieve his darkening. You will not always think about problems stubbornly and make some irrational extreme behaviors. Change is important.

2. If you can’t change, give up.

The manifestations of yandere include: loving to the extreme, imprisoning and binding, not being able to love, not allowed to look at others, self-centered, possessive, not allowing the other half to have private space, must Stay in touch...the sickness is in your bones. If the other person is really yandere and it is difficult to change, and you cannot accept this "sickness", then give up.

There is no grass anywhere in the world. Stay away from sick people and cherish life. Strong possessiveness is not something everyone can tolerate. Give up as soon as possible and don't let yourself get entangled. Being a yandere can only increase the burden of your love, but cannot help the development of your love.