Let's talk about how a girl who grew up in a poor county looks decent in a big city.

Landlord, the most important thing is three views. Objectively speaking, why rural people feel stingy is because they can only see the immediate interests and care about those trivial interests. I can't see things for a long time, feel that things are too narrow, and there is an inferiority complex in my bones. I always feel that others look down on him or something. A sister I know, from the countryside, took her parents and brother to eat a hot pot. Her father didn't like expensive food and left with a black face, which made her daughter feel superior and embarrassed. Later, this sister married her husband and went to Shanghai. She is also full of rural ideas. She always thought that my career was successful, and she was afraid that people around me would stick to her, so she didn't contact our family. You know, when she was a little nurse, her salary was only 300-400 a month. She lived and ate in our house and donated blood herself. My mother also stewed chicken soup for her to drink, and my aunt helped him change to another private hospital for foreigners. I'm not saying this to ask him to repay his kindness or anything, but his way of doing things is really chilling. There is also a brother of my boyfriend, who is also a standard Phoenix man, from the countryside. They went to the driving school together. My boyfriend and I took a taxi and picked up his brother on the way. In this case, I always think that we must pay the fare ourselves. (His brother went to practice driving and took my boyfriend to the driving school to report something. As a result, his brother asked weakly, did you take a taxi? Well, why don't we take the light rail? His mind is the kind of person who treats money with great delicacy and refuses to eat at all. Because the driving school is far away and the weather in the north is too cold, I can't stand it. It seems that it takes about an hour by light rail. I really don't want to take the light rail and say that I paid the fare, so he stopped talking. You run very fast when you get off at one place. Of course, the above can't represent all the people who come out of the countryside, but most rural people think so. I don't look down on rural people, but I feel that sometimes the awareness of rural people and urban people is really very different. See more answers >>