Can you tell me about the weird colleagues around you?

He was the one who recruited me in the beginning. I thought he was my leader, so I tried to ask him as much as possible if I didn’t understand anything. Did he recruit me when he was recruiting me? I think he recruited me because he saw my ability.

I am an honest, hard-working person who doesn’t talk much.

I am new here, so I am still relatively proactive. I will do whatever he wants me to do as soon as possible and give it to him immediately. If he is not satisfied, I will think of other plans and submit them. It can be said that it may take a long time for someone to make something, but I can submit several for him to choose from in a day. But maybe in order to show that he is the leader, he always likes to find fault with me and say things like, "What you think is good is not really good, only what others think is good is really good." I've always been dissatisfied with what I made, but I couldn't pinpoint what I was dissatisfied with. At first I thought it was because he was really dissatisfied, but because he couldn't express himself clearly, so I made a few more styles for him to choose from. Later, I found that no matter what style I made, he would not be satisfied, and I knew it. I decided to stay away from him and give up my desire to have good things with him. As a result, he still refused to let me go. He never called me by my name when talking to me, and he didn't respect me. Sometimes I didn't even know he was talking to me. If he didn't reply to him in time, he would say "did you hear that?" in a fierce voice. And he didn't want to talk to me. I sat across from him, but he would rather talk to a colleague next to him and then let that colleague talk to me. When I was discussing with that colleague or having a dispute, he would suddenly confront me. Let me make a very rude comment. For example, one time I asked a colleague very politely why the pictures on our website were made at 750 instead of 800. I saw that others were doing 800, and I thought it looked better this way. He suddenly and fiercely interjected, "Tell you." Do 750, just 750”, I was confused.

Another time I told a colleague that some of the pictures on our website were priced at 750 and some at 800. It was very messy. My colleague said that they couldn’t all be made at 750. I said if you don’t believe me, come and take a look. He added, "They are all 750 but not 800." I said that I only asked when I saw the 800 ones. He said, "Find them out and show me." I said, come over and see that my webpage is open. He just came over and kept shouting, "Find it and show it to me. Find it and show it to me. Find it and show it to me." Others still sat in their seats but did not watch.

Another time, at around two or three in the afternoon, he sent me something and asked me to do it. He sent me a message on QQ saying when he would finish the get off work and when he would get off work. At that time, I no longer wanted to pay attention to him. , so I worked hard, and before I got off work, I put the finished work in the folder designated by him, and collected it after get off work and got ready to go home. He asked me if your stuff was ready. I said it was ready and put it in the shared folder, but he said I haven't read it yet, so why don't you get off work? Did I say when I was ready and when I was off? I said that I had prepared the shared folder. He said that I hadn’t read it yet and that I had to read it and make some changes before I could get off work. I said what should I do if I take the bus? He said that the last bus was at 19:30. , I said what about dinner, he said that is your own business and has nothing to do with me. I got very angry and said that I had never seen someone like you before and wanted to leave. He said that you don’t have to come tomorrow. I told him that it’s okay. I won’t come until you pay your salary. He said that you won’t be short of him. One point, I said, then you have to settle. He said that you think what you do is worthy of the salary. I said why am I sorry? I am definitely worthy of the salary for doing these jobs. Then I left, and it was as usual the next day. At work, he didn't say anything.

To this day, he still has a strange attitude. He will make comments when he is happy and poke me when he is unhappy. I must not do anything else during the 8 hours a day at work and he will see me, otherwise he will criticize me and always say that I am slow. I asked you to make one to see how fast it is, and he said that he would What else do you want from me?

One time when my phone rang while I was doing something, I picked it up to read the text messages. He suddenly said something that I didn’t hear clearly. It seemed that he was too tired of playing with his phone all the time. At that time, I and I The colleague was looking at his cell phone, so they all raised their hands and glanced at him. He didn't act like he meant what he said.

Later, when I was chatting with another colleague, I found out that he was talking about me at the time, and told that colleague that I was always playing with my mobile phone at work.

A few times I was so angry that I almost resigned, but then I thought about why.

It’s just that I can’t figure it out. Is there something wrong with this person? If he doesn’t like me, why don’t he recruit me? If I come, why don’t we all get along well with each other? After all, we are just colleagues. During breaks, he usually doesn't talk to me and only talks to other colleagues. When he hands out snacks, everyone else does so but I don't. A very strange person, and a man! A married man who is a father!

He has only been in the company for more than half a year despite his seniority. He always seems to be attached to the boss when talking to him, and he behaves like a brother who is indistinguishable from his senior colleagues. He looks like a leader who likes to point fingers and teach others.