Where did the collapse of adults begin? Can you tell me your thoughts?

First, most of the time, we are full of blood, and hot pillow, who is devoted to his favorite job 100%, tries to prove his ability with extreme efforts, thus proving that his original choice is right. But after a long time, you will find that every job is actually dull and boring after the passion fades. In addition, we have to digest work pressure and negative emotions from time to time. After all, no job is easy, and every salary is partly wronged.

But no matter how tired we are at work, we should learn to arrange our lives reasonably. After all, the secular world is mediocre and boring, and only those who learn to love their lives can really have life. A rose, a lovely interior decoration, a gift from a distant friend, or a touch of sunset when you come home from work can all be the small blessings of ordinary life.

Second, accept your emotions and have a fault tolerance rate. In addition to work style and effectiveness, attitude towards work is also very important. Even if you have done a good job, if you keep demanding your own progress too much and don't allow mistakes, then the work pressure will be great. Especially for a newcomer who has just entered the workplace, if he wants everything to be perfect, he will have a sense of frustration and self-doubt. This extra psychological pressure and anxiety will make the work more tiring. This is an extreme lack of self-confidence and security, but the parties do not realize it and cannot change it. It's a pity that I am such a person. Anything can be the last straw to crush a camel. Sometimes the sad things are not recovered together, and with the advice and comfort from time to time from friends, life is still barely going on, and no one realizes that I am very tired at work.

Third, when the troubles in life and the pressure in work follow one after another, some interpersonal communication, jokes of others, etc. And when I happen to be in a bad state, I feel very tired, which has become the last line of defense to overwhelm my psychology. A voice in my heart told me that I was really tired. I know it's not entirely the fault of external factors, but I'm sad. I really am the status quo. It turns out that the collapse of adults is really instantaneous. When this happens, you must find friends to communicate and guide. Finally, all that has been said, life can go on. Perhaps this is the way for adults to survive, and the occasional grief may be out of concern and love for life!