Talk about the concept of love with famous quotes

Let us first summarize the titles of these articles: Every *** was an angel with broken wings in his previous life; 25 things that couples must do; take a good look at these, for the sake of your other half , boys must watch it, and girls must watch it for their boyfriends; you can’t afford to hurt such girls and boys; if you meet a boy or girl who meets these ten points, just marry him; read the sentence that makes you feel slightly distressed, watch it At that point, your eyes got wet? To be honest, when I read the first sentence of this paragraph, my balls ached slightly.

Happiness? Yes, everyone has the right to pursue happiness. love? The poet Herbert once said: "Love is like a cough, which cannot be suppressed." Roger Jim also believed: "Love is like measles, no one can escape it." These are all possible. But what about reviewing what was written above?

Let’s first talk about dating shows like “If You Are the One”. My point of view is two words: "shameless". Seeing these programs, everyone's eyes can glow green. Mr. Shen Congwen has given advice before: "Young people, be careful. Anything that makes your eyes shine can often poison you. You should understand this." Do you understand? It's a pity that many people don't understand. The money- and material-oriented values ??promoted in the program have misled a large number of people. Some people may want to jump out and scold me: "These are just entertainment programs, can't they be entertainment for the whole people?" I want to first bring in a foreign aid - the great German writer - Goethe. He said: "Put your interest in social news In most cases, this is the most authentic mediocre habit. "Of course, I don't claim to be a saint, just like Guo Degang said: "The profession of saints has been banned long ago." National Entertainment is not in itself. Nothing is wrong. However, you also have to have a degree. Don't hold these entertainment programs in your hands like a parent all day long. Of course, there are not many filial sons nowadays.

Based on the principle of giving priority to ladies, let’s first talk about ladies’ love situation.

The next question is less imaginary and more realistic, and that is "matter". If a person does not serve himself, he will be destroyed by heaven and earth. Everyone wants to have a good material life. This is understandable. But if a person pursues material, money, fashion, clothing, and vanity, just like some people in some programs, and is ashamed of being poor, then these people will be miserable. The writer Oscar Wilde’s definition of fashion is: “The so-called fashion is nothing more than strange things that are popular for a while.” Goethe’s definition of vanity is: “Vanity is a desire to pursue personal glory. It is not based on a person’s quality, performance or Achievement, but a desire to win the appreciation, respect and admiration of others based on one's own existence." Philosopher Rajshev also criticized the pursuit of clothing: "Often paying attention to gorgeous clothing always means the atrophy of reason. " Regarding poverty and wealth, the following two sentences are very good: "Poverty is not a shame, but being ashamed of poverty is a shame." "Being poor is not a sin, but being unkind to be rich is a sin." They are from Franklin and Dostoyev. Ski.

Okay, let’s talk about men. Men may value beauty and beauty more. But remember: "Love based on beauty will disappear as quickly as beauty." British writer Bernard Shaw even sarcastically said: "Beauty looks beautiful at first sight, but when you stay in the room for three days After all, who would look at it?" As for the figure, the ancient Greek philosopher Democritus pointed out: "Beauty of the body, if not combined with intelligence, is something animalistic." Of course, We don’t have too many requirements for intelligence and intelligence, but we should have at least a few things. Bo Yang once said: "A woman is born beautiful or not; whether she is beautiful or not is a matter of nurture." A sentence I admire very much is: "Being beautiful is your advantage, living a beautiful life is mine." Skill." So what is beauty? In the eyes of the sculptor Rodin, beauty is character and expression. Vasilev believes: "The choice of love object is a specific preference for one of the many familiar people of the opposite sex, and it is an idealization of this person's value." Then, the preference and idealization here are just like what was said before: personality and Performance. That is: if you have compatible personalities, you will be recognized. But who would think so? Franklin said: "What dominates at the age of 20 is the will, at the age of 30 it is the wit, and at the age of 40 it is the judgment. Regarding the will, I want to say: the will is very powerful and terrible. Schopenhauer is the steadfastness of the voluntarist supporter.

If you want to know how powerful and terrifying the will is, you can refer to Schopenhauer's "The World as Will and Representation" and "The Wisdom of Life" for details.

Happiness, what determines whether you are happy or unhappy, is not what you have or who you are, or what you are doing, but what you think. Similarly, Abby Titan also said: "What harasses us is our awareness of things, not the things themselves." The happiness of life depends entirely on one's views on people, things, and things. Because life is made of thoughts. However, many people are not happy and happy now. In any case, people's happiness must be pursued based on their own ability. To frequently have excessive expectations is to force oneself to cook without rice, which is tantamount to making it difficult for oneself to pursue suffering. Sofox once warned: "The sorrow you cause is the greatest sorrow."

We must learn to satisfy and be clear about our desires. Epicurus pointed out: "Don't destroy what you have now by pursuing what you don't have. Remember that what you have now is also what you pursued in the past." Gibran also expressed this emotion: "We hope that What we can’t get is always more valuable than what we have already obtained.” Schopenhauer even went so far as to make fun of the sadness of the world. In his famous “Pendulum Theorem”, he pointed out: Life is like a pendulum. Oscillating between the poles of boredom and misery. Its swing is desire. Therefore, you must control your desires and learn to satisfy them. Why are madmen happy? Because they live contentedly in their own world. Napoleon believed that fools are smarter because fools are satisfied with themselves.

So, everyone, wake up. Where are there so many princes and princesses? We are all ordinary people, living well and happily is enough.

So how can we be happy? Yu Minhong proposed: "Someone loves you, you have something to do, and you have something to look forward to." So, I think: Someone loves you, not just someone who loves you, we must love others more; when you have something to do, I summarized it in 12 words before: talk less , do more, do it seriously, don't complain. Do everything that is beneficial to yourself, your family, and society. Of course, we have to expect something, just as Martin Luther King said: "We should accept limited disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope."

Finally, I would like to give you a passage from the poet Pushkin Words: "If life deceives you, don't be sad or angry! Be calm in the sad days. Believe that happy days will come. Your heart will beat enthusiastically for the future. Although the things in front of you are sad, But everything will disappear in a blink of an eye, and things will become joy as soon as they pass."