What kind of man is a good man?

1. It is said that I fell in love with you at first sight. Don’t say that the so-called love at first sight is mostly because of lust. Although it is not ruled out that there is true love at first sight in this world. But what a person who believes in love at first sight can be sure of is his casualness towards this feeling. Have the attitude of giving it a try. I believe you are not the only person who can make him fall in love at first sight, but during this period, he met you first. If you're not confident enough to keep him, be prepared to leave the next time he falls in love with someone else. How can a person who is so casual about feelings and feelings expect to be able to take on some responsibilities and give you a sufficient sense of security in the future. 2. I believe that many girls can use sweet talk instead of coaxing. When a girl said she was unhappy, he said: Kiss and hug her, my dear. When the girl said she wanted to work hard, he said: Come on, baby. When a girl stayed up late watching TV dramas, he said: This will make me feel bad, so don’t stay up late next time. However, he was just talking. He never urged you to study hard with you when you were lying in bed; nor did he turn off your mobile phone to let you go to bed early when you stayed up late; nor did he take you to vent your emotions when you were sad. 3. You are so different from others, don’t ask which girl doesn’t like her boyfriend who only loves herself. Give me only one warmth, only give me one care, and only give me one pampering. He is the only one in his heart. I have seen too many plots like this in novels. As soon as I see a boy like this, I feel so happy that I have met true love. However, those who can distinguish so clearly and make such a huge difference between themselves and others are either schizophrenic or have some agenda. You think, it is normal for a person who is used to being gentle to others to take good care of the people he loves. But a person who is used to looking coldly at others and having a hot temper suddenly only takes good care of the people he loves. This polar change must be very depressing to the person's nature. Even if it is true at that moment when he loves you. But there is no guarantee that he will be able to persist in the future. Because this is really a performance that goes against nature.