In rural areas, some people are very smart in their speech, but their family economics are not as good as others. Why?

The old saying goes: "The wise will be misled by the wise", and I don't just say it casually! Because being smart in words does not necessarily mean being smart in doing things, you will often suffer the consequences. After all, everyone is willing to cooperate with people who are pragmatic and honest. People who are overly smart are not popular with people.

There is a person in our village, nicknamed "Jianzhuang", which means that he is the most intelligent person in the whole village. This person is very good at talking and very shrewd in his behavior. He is so shrewd that it is terrifying. Therefore, although he has not done anything harmful in the village, he has been calculating and treacherous. From now on, no one among his so-called friends, whether they are working or doing business, can give him a hand. Let's put it this way, say nice things to him, but don't have sex with him.

The worst thing for him is that since he can't go out to work to make money, or cooperate with friends to do business, let's farm the head office! In fact, it's the opposite. When people transfer land, they will not transfer the land to him. I asked people why they did this. People in the village said that he is too shrewd and difficult to deal with. He would rather transfer the land to honest farmers. It will be easier to handle when he comes back. . If we contract it to him, we will have to come back later and worry about something happening.

Because once there were capable people in the village who became famous in the south, they brought the labor from every household in the village to the south to work together and make a fortune. Not only did he make money, he actually wanted to go to the house to take out the ladder, contact everyone, and wanted to take over the position of the leader of the pioneer in the village. It turned out that the pioneer was not an ordinary person and sent him home directly. From then on, he got the name of ungratefulness and his reputation was ruined.

From this incident of working in the 1990s, everyone in the village saw that he was "able to go too far", had no conscience and was very calculating, and no matter who he worked with in the village, he did things. , he is like an iron rooster who "earns nothing", never suffers losses, but only gains profits. None of his relatives and friends can get along with this kind of person. In addition, his work in the village is well-known, and then his "fame" spreads out. Therefore, people in the village were unwilling to associate closely with him for various reasons.

It is conceivable that when people like "Jianzhuang" speak shrewdly and "can go too far", everyone is not a fool. If you can't offend him, you can hide and keep a distance from him. In this acquaintance society in rural areas, once a person loses credibility and network of connections, it will be difficult to do anything. You can only hold on to your own one-third of an acre of land and do farm work with your back to the sky and face to the loess. Without the help of the folks in the countryside, how can the family economy be better? It can be seen that we must be pragmatic and have basic principles of life. Integrity and reputation are the bottom line of life. Just speaking shrewdly and adding icing on the cake to life does not have much practical significance.