What is it like to be married to a husband whose income is lower than yours?

That is the feeling of itching your teeth with hatred.

I always thought that I was a person who would not argue with others over money. Later I realized that the reason why I did not argue with others was because that person had nothing to do with me. When that man who made very little money became my husband, I realized that I was also an ordinary person.

My salary is already very low, so my salary requirements for my husband are not too high. But it’s not a good idea if you go from earning three thousand yuan a month to having no salary.

My requirements for marrying this kind of man have been lowered again and again. I first thought that I could really accept your three thousand a month, but I have never seen that the salary will get lower and lower. of.

In the end, I just asked him to stop staying at home. I really couldn't stand it anymore. A grown man does a woman's work at home every day, cooking, buying groceries, washing dishes, and cleaning up the housework. Of course, I admit that you keep your home in order. But my dear, I don't have the ability to support this family on my own.

I was so devastated that I tried to help him find a job worth even two thousand yuan, which would at least reduce the burden on my family. I don't mind that his salary is lower than mine, but he can only say "I don't know what kind of job to find".

Don’t you know that I should know? Let him go out but not go out. It should be that he is afraid of contact with outsiders after staying at home for a long time because he is afraid of being rejected.

After persisting for seven months, I was really speechless. Okay, it doesn't matter if you don't go out to find a job, then you, a grown man, can't spend my money. The finances are completely separated, and I don't care about people who don't know how to make progress anymore.

I didn’t talk to him when I got home, and I turned a blind eye when I saw him. Because I feel really disappointed in him, and I don’t know what else to persevere and work hard for.

He must have been afraid of my attitude at that time, and finally decided to walk out of the house. I found an outdoor job. Although it was hard work and the salary was not high, I had no requirements for him anymore.

It is really stressful to marry a husband whose income is lower than yourself. If he himself is not motivated, it will be really difficult for the family to support him. After all, I am not Bai Fumei and can support a large family.