What are the high EQ chatting skills?

In life, we have friends with high emotional intelligence everywhere, and we feel very comfortable and comfortable with them. Regardless of their manners and proper sense of distance, people will feel that the other person is very decent and likable, which is the embodiment of high emotional intelligence.

First, don't think too much. Silence is not terrible. Don't rush to break the embarrassment.

When two people talk about nothing, gritting their teeth will only get worse. Don't worry, wait a minute and see if the other party has anything to say.

As soon as he opens his mouth, you pick up and talk more about this topic, and the other person will think you are very considerate. Be sure to relax when there is quiet. It's natural for the other person to see you, and he will think you are very stable.

So chat with anyone, be calm, have nothing to say, and don't be embarrassed.

Second, we must leave room for each other to speak, and don't deny each other.

A friend is having dinner with her new friend. When she talked about how thin the anonymous star was and how good her clothes were, she opened her mouth and said, "It's all pictures of P, and life is no different from ordinary people. Their height is 170. Can you compare with them? " .

Try to keep a calm mind, communicate with people peacefully and reasonably, and don't always feel that you are right.

Third, affirmation and praise.

For example, there are so many people on May Day, why go out? People who can do this are so stupid that they are basically hopeless. When chatting with others, they should deny others and make them uncomfortable.

If you can't chat, you can follow the other person's words, smile more, affirm his point of view, and then find some of his characteristics to praise.

For example, when she orders, she can say, "You are good at ordering. Are you responsible for ordering food when friends go out? " ? "The other party will be very happy.

We don't have to be the dominant topic, so we can show our own advantages, affirm and praise others more, at least you can leave a comfortable impression.

Fourth, speak according to each other's preferences.

I don't know what to say when I go out to work with my colleagues I just met, and it's not good to just play with my mobile phone. We will cooperate in the future.

You can take the initiative to start the topic, or take the initiative to help her, bring you closer, meet for the first time, everyone doesn't know each other, pay attention to each other's characteristics, and then find clues to talk about.

If it's online chat, you can look at his circle of friends first, see what he is interested in, and then talk.

Fifth, find out in time that the other party doesn't want to chat.

When chatting with each other, when you think it is time to end the chat, it is the most comfortable and important way to end the chat in time.

When the other person recalls the process of chatting with you, he will think that you are an insider.

Chat with people who have a lot of work at hand. Don't talk about it at work. The other person must think that it is most important to finish the work, so you should also look at your face and end the chat as soon as possible.

Even if you really want to talk to each other. Stop chatting, don't feel sorry, and leave a good impression on the other person who knows how to measure.