How is a person destroyed?

I remember a long time ago, I saw a question on the Zhihu:

How does a person fail step by step?

One answer is particularly incisive, but very incisive:

Lazy, idle, not thinking, not learning, the combination of the four will be abolished, and God will remain unchanged.

Think about it, it really hurts. I believe many people are thinking, isn't that me? I am lazy, idle, do not think or study, and live in a muddle every day. Isn't this my true portrayal?

Laziness is the root of all problems.

It is a fact that human nature is lazy, and we must accept it. Think about it. If there are two choices in life, one is to reach the peak of life through hard work, and the other is the innate luxury and life, which one would you choose?

I am afraid that most people will not choose to give up the enjoyment of ease and devote themselves to the hard construction of life. This is an inertia rooted in our hearts, so even if you choose the latter, there is nothing wrong.

However, this is often not the case in real life. Most people are not born lucky. After all, people born in wealthy families are a minority. Many people may spend their whole lives trying to reach the innate height of others.

I remember an American TV station did a study. They tracked and recorded several teenagers with different backgrounds and families for 50 years. The final experimental results are thought-provoking: people with good families live smoothly and accumulate more and more wealth; And those children born in poverty, their lives are still spent in poverty and hardship.

Whether this research is true or not, from the examples I know around me, there is a fact in this world:

People who are better than you often work harder than you!

When you are lazy, those who are ahead of you are still trying to run. Only by running faster can we not be left far behind.

Leisure is the fuse of all problems.

Just after the New Year in the Year of the Pig, I believe everyone spent a leisurely time at home. I remember when I was in college, the winter vacation was longer, so I spent a lot of time at home. When I first came home, my parents were still very kind to themselves, eating whatever they wanted and buying whatever they wanted to cook. After all, most of us are studying in other places, so it is not easy to get together. However, if you stay at home for a long time, various problems will arise.

There must be a limit to everything, and so does a person's free time. Too little is involved and too much is involved.

When people are free, they are either relaxing or imagining things. Idle, these two "twin brothers" often appear in pairs at the same time. When these two meet, it's over.

Playing games, brushing Weibo, brushing Tik Tok, watching videos ... Unconsciously, the day passed. Looking back at the time, how did it go from day to night? Then continue to brush your mobile phone, it's already going to bed anyway ... Is this scene familiar? For a long time, "leisure" wasted a person like this.

On the other hand, when you are too idle, it is often easy to think. Does he like others? Do my colleagues in the company dislike me? Did the leader speak ill of me today? ..... and so on, the more you think about it, the more annoying it is, and the point of temper explosion may be torn directly, which will eventually lead to bigger problems.

In fact, many problems are impossible. "Thinking too much" is precisely because of "being too idle".

Without thinking and learning, where is the direction of life?

I remember when I graduated from college, my classmates were inevitably faced with a question: continue studying or go to work, where to go?

I have a classmate, A, who studies very hard. He hardly skipped classes for four years in college, and his average score in professional courses was 90. My senior year successfully applied for graduate students. My roommate B, from freshman year, almost failed classes and skipped classes every time. When others are studying hard, he just plays games in the dormitory and is addicted to the online world. I never studied and never thought, until the fourth year, I was dumbfounded and began to submit my resume. Unfortunately, no company is interested.

Four years in the same university are two completely different lives. If you don't study and don't think, the future of life is confused.

The ancients said a long time ago that young people who don't work hard are sad. Or: black hair doesn't know how to study hard early, and white head regrets learning late.

A person's best state is to keep thinking and learning, and when you stop thinking and learning, your life actually stops turning.

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Lazy, idle, not thinking, not reading, when these four things are all gathered in one person, this person is probably already a "waste."

Diligence, hard work, continuous learning and thinking. When a person has these four qualities, are you still afraid that life will not reach where you want to go?

Without hard work, there is no alternative future. Refuse to waste wood, improve yourself from today, and your life will shine!