What does it mean when a girl asks me to treat her to French fries at night?

I want to chat with you.

The key to this problem is: first, she comes to you late at night. Second, let you please. Third, eat French fries. Do you understand what this means? I guess you still don’t understand, so you’d better stop thinking about it and let me analyze it for you.

First of all, people are most vulnerable at night. When she asks you out at night, she probably wants to chat with you and talk about her heart. She is probably in a depressed mood and lonely. . The point is, she is not looking for anyone else, she is looking for you! It shows that you are a trustworthy person in her heart, and she is willing to tell you her inner thoughts. Then you are not just an ordinary friend to her, but should be at the level of a male best friend, and you may continue to develop into a friend. higher level.

Actually, I don’t think there is any pure friendship between men and women. Maybe you are not boyfriend and girlfriend at the moment, but if she finds someone of the opposite sex to talk about her concerns at night, don’t you think this is actually a bit ambiguous? ? I think many friends of the opposite sex use the name of good friends to comfort their loneliness. Falling in love is too hard and not free, but if you are good friends, not only do I not have to be responsible for you, I can also enjoy the benefits of being a couple besides close contact. I think this is the biggest reason why friendships exist between opposite sexes.

Secondly, she asked you to treat me, which I feel is a bit coquettish and willful. This shows that she will not be polite to you and will not feel that she owes you a favor just because you treat her. And we usually only dare to be so rude to people with whom we are relatively close. Don't say anything like "It's natural for boys to treat guests when they go out. How can you let a girl treat you?" because if a girl doesn't want to get close to you, she won't give you the opportunity to treat her to dinner.

Third, eat French fries. This reminds me of dads eating peanuts while drinking and chatting. It seems that she is really free tonight, so she came to you to kill time. You can't eat too much at night because it will make you fat, so I ordered a bag of French fries and dipped it in ketchup and ate it slowly. While chewing it, I said, "That scene and atmosphere, isn't it just like a chat between good friends? I believe you will have one." A spiritual journey involving the deepest part of the heart.

So don’t get too excited, brother. She just wants to chat with you tonight and has no particular thoughts about you.

You guys should be just friends now, but judging from the tone of your question, I think you seem to have some thoughts about them. If you are good friends, if no one points it out, you may just be friends.