Is it really important to be suitable?

Of course it matters. First, the gap between the rich and the poor.

Everyone will naively think that love is above everything else, but love can't escape the reality after all. When you find someone whose family is too poor to buy a car, let alone a house, will you marry him willingly? Will your parents agree? After all, every woman wants her future life to be worry-free. You are the apple of her parents' eye, and her parents will not let you suffer with her.

In the wrong family, the economic gap is too obvious, and it is obvious that two people will not be happy together. Imagine that you want to buy a dress you like, and the other person hates it. You want a good meal, and the other person hates your waste. How can such feelings be true happiness?

2. Knowledge gap

The knowledge gap between two people directly determines whether they can speak the same language. Try to think that your knowledge is different from the other's. You have a higher education and many ideas are more advanced. And your other half is a person who didn't go to school very early and then stepped into the society to work hard. He has long been polished by life and made friends with social people. Your circle of friends and many ideas are very different. Can such two people talk about walking together?

Two people who are not in the right place, the gap in knowledge leads to no * * * same language. Together, it will only be endless suffering. There is only silence between them. You don't understand what he said, and he is not interested in what you said. How can two people go on?

3. The gap in vision

An open-minded and broad-minded person may see, hear and touch things that others can't touch. If one person goes abroad to study, travels across the ocean and has experienced local customs and etiquette culture, while the other person is a frog in the well, always seeing only the recent and immediate interests and being short-sighted, then these two people are out of place when talking and doing things.

How important it is to have a suitable family, I believe it can be seen from the gap between two people's horizons. You can take a longer view of one thing, but the other person only focuses on the small profits in front of you. Conflicts and quarrels are obvious things.

4. Differences in family environment

Family environment determines a person's growth, the cultivation of a person's character and the quality of his conduct are closely related to family environment. A person who grew up in a loving and harmonious family relationship is absolutely loving, helpful and optimistic. If a person who grew up in an unharmonious environment without family care is withdrawn, negative and pessimistic, he may lack self-confidence, so two people can't get along.

Many people don't believe in the importance of appropriateness. In fact, as long as everyone who has experienced it knows, the difference in family environment will directly lead to the breakdown of a relationship. Two people who are so different, if you love him again and he loves you again, it is impossible to be really happy together.

5. Differences in circle of friends

If a person's friends are all high-level, they usually get together to enjoy wine and flowers and discuss financial investment. And the other half of their friends are fair-weather friends who only know how to eat and drink, do nothing every day and have no taste in life. Then the friends of these two people can't integrate, and these two people can't integrate into each other's circle of friends.

Don't believe it, only two suitable people can merge friends. Everyone wants their feelings to be blessed, but two people whose circle of friends is too different can't get the blessing of their friends anyway.